*Please only add me if you're over twenty-one.
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I don't write about American politics, race, anticapitalism, world affairs (wars, poverty, oppression, etc.), loneliness, bad self-esteem, or anxiety/depression, and will not add those who do so often. The same is true of those who feel it necessary to use obscenities. I am not a modern programmer or gamer, I do not use Linux, and I don't care what social network you use.*
Hello. Georgiana Brummell is not my legal name, but it is what I use. I chose it in honour of Beau Brummell. I live in New Jersey and am forty-one years old. Some of my interests include studying dandyism, nineteenth-century English grammar, Upper Received Pronunciation, the Italian language, British history, the Regency, opera, and MS-DOS and its current varients. I like coffee, tea, wine, cooking, classic literature, nature and historical documentaries, old BBC radio shows, gardening, hot weather, and playing cards and dice. I love opera, particularly singers from the 1940's and earlier, with Tito Schipa, Beniamino Gigli, Ferruccio Tagliavini, and Mattia Battistini being my favourite singers. I also enjoy English and Viennese operettas. In classical music, I like Baroque through early Romantic. I prefer antique menswear (usually Edwardian) and accessories. I love wit, wordplay, and dry humour without vulgarity, though I do enjoy adult fun. I am happily childfree and am not religious. I have been totally blind since I was two months old, due to Retinopathy of Prematurity.
I am also single and searching. If you are a single, childfree, intelligent, well-dressed man over sixty, please write to me. I will accept platonic friends twenty-one and older.

This is my journal. Anyone can read or comment, whether or not he is a member.

http://dandylover1.dreamwidth.org

This is my dating post on Mastodon, which is shorter than the one on Dreamwidth. It's somewhat similar to this one, but it contains an explanation of what I am seeking in a partner.

https://someplace.social/@dandylover1/114966815790206512

If you're on MSN via Escargot I am dandylover1@escargot.chat.

Interests

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https://youtube.com/shorts/ZuVQN1KNueI?si=3zKR_FVa_-BbxbVX

Shocking Moment: Brigitte Macron 'Slaps' Emmanuel Macron in Public - What's Really Going On?
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#MacronControversy #BrigitteMacron #EmmanuelMacron #FrancePolitics #ViralVideo #AgeGapRelationships #SoutheastAsiaTour #InternationalRelations #PublicScrutiny

Watts The Safeword has a nice video about age gap relationships:

https://youtu.be/0Tdbs3L-3s0?si=94CigriS-zHZj-mO

#AgeGapRelationships #queer

Wish me luck... I've just mentioned Benny Hill to my bf.

"Benny who????"

#BennyHill #AgeGapRelationships

Newsflash: when you shit on a celebrity **merely** because they are in an age gap relationship, you are shitting on all such relationships.

Not all age gap relationships are abusive.

I was in such relationship for 26 years with my ex-wife. I was 24, and she was 44 when we met.

Guess what? I'm still in an age gap relationship. My bf is 35, and I'm 52.

#AgeGapRelationships #celebrities

Why Younger Women Are Drawn to Older Men: Lessons in Understanding Relationships #RelationshipsExplained #StoicWisdom #EmotionalMaturity #LifeLessons #AgeGapRelationships ⏩ Full Article: https://tinyurl.com/mwazpwt2

Also, I'd like to give this to those who think "you don't care about the future, because you don't have children."

🖕

I don't have children, but I do have younger partners, and I do care about *their* future.

Yes, yes, my younger partners are queer, and ND, so the straight and NT majority does not give a flying fuck about them.

Fuck you!

#ChildlessCatLady #AgeGapRelationships #queer #neurodivergent #FuckYou

Do you love #romance? Do you love #mafiaromance #romanticsuspense and #DarkRomance?

Check out these books:
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#newsletter #books #BookoftheDay #BookishRomance #bookspotlight #agegaprelationships #vampireromance

Do you love #romance? Do you love #mafiaromance #romanticsuspense and #DarkRomance?

Check out these books:
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#newsletter #books #BookoftheDay #BookishRomance #bookspotlight #agegaprelationships #vampireromance

(Read carefully. There are no typos in the following.)

[On a blind date:]

"Hi! Nice to meet you. How old are you?"

"22."

"[Gasps]. I'm 35."

"[Gasps too.] This is going to be an age gasps relationship then."

:madjoy:

#dating #gasps #AgeGapRelationships

I've been rebelling against the patriarchy and all the devolves from it since at least 1996.

That's when I met my ex-wife. I was 24. She was 44.

"OMG! The age gap! What about kids?"

She already had kids. I did not want kids of my own. What's this fucking edict that everybody should produce children? Eh?

So I've been at it for a long time, even if I did not know what I was doing.

Now that I'm out of multiple closets as pansexual, polyamorous, into BDSM, and still thinking nothing of age gap relationships...

"Provided everybody is an adult, right?"

Yes. Why do I need to specify this? :why:

As I was saying, now that I'm out of multiple closets, it has become clearer to me that a lot of society's edicts are arbitrary rules disguised as scientific fact.

(This post was brought to you by shrooms.)

#patriarchy #ArbitraryRules #pansexuality #polyamory #BDSM #AgeGapRelationships #science

I'm now matched with a non-binary queer individual. The chat is going well.

They are 40. If we hit it off, it would still be an age gap relationship, but the one with the smallest gap so far.

(I read somewhere that 10 years or more is needed for calling a relationship an age gap relationship.)

They are also neurodivergent.

#dating #nonbinary #queer #neurodivergent #AgeGapRelationships

Yes, I liked a lady 10-12 older than I am today.

"You're kidding, right?"

No, I ain't. I say that age does not matter, and I mean it. It is just that people my age and older who are *also* into BDSM are rare.

Unfortunately, I'm not optimistic about the chances that she's going to answer me. In my profile I say "no matter your age" but I suspect she's going to take it as "I want to bed only young folks."

:headache:

#dating #AgeGapRelationships

Find out whether Ukrainian women prefer the normal or a higher age gap. https://cityofbrides.com/blog/ukrainian-women-age-gap-relationships.html

#gappedrelationship #datingyounger #agegaprelationships