#IntentionalCommunity

Careful where you end up

I’ve had a situation recently where I thought I was entering a sanctuary — a place of peace, healing, and connection — in reality, it turned out to be a glorified work camp. The experience was enlightening, in a dark kind of way.

I really love the idea of a sanctuary, a refuge from the insanity of our modern capitalist world. There are all kinds of sanctuaries. Some are totally natural, an others maybe following a specific spiritual path. Either way, it’s nice to have a place that’s far removed from employment, technology, and the rat race. There is something about just being with natural rhythms that is better

Sanctuary is a place set apart as a refuge of safety, peace, and renewal. At its root, the word means “sacred space”– originally the innermost part of a temple where one could encounter the divine, and later a place where people could seek shelter and protection..

One of my favorites is Garths Boulder Gardens, near Joshua Tree in Landers, California. It’s 640 acres — an entire square mile — of desert boulders, caves, and gardens. People have lived there in a relatively free and creative way for decades. I spent a year there myself, so I know it well.

Garth would occasionally say that if people could put in a couple of hours of work a day, that would be enough to take care of the place, but he would never really ask people directly to work. He would always leave it as a possibility or suggestion. Many visitors didn’t contribute much at all, but others worked out of self-motivation, planting gardens, building new spaces, cooking meals, or caring for others. My own contribution was to build one new cob structure every month. Over twelve months I finished twelve projects — my favorites being the Frog Oven and the Boulder Cave, both of which were used often for years afterward. Other residents had their own projects too — gardens, caregiving, cooking, smoothie-making, whatever!

Boulder Gardens is pretty remote, but people worldwide came to visit, sometimes a day, sometimes a week, and sometimes a year (as in my case). The fridges were usually full and “free game” because short-term visitors would leave behind so much food, so there was always something to eat for the seven to ten of us long term residents. Days were magical. I remember early-morning coffee and movie nights with Garth, who gave the place its soul. Garth has since passed on, but my understanding is that the mission has been to keep things as close as possible to the way he intended.

Frog Oven

So Boulder Gardens is a true sanctuary. because of the voluntary contributions and minimal obligations, it truly a unique kind of place. It honors creative energy, not forced labor. A place where people can rest, heal, and also express themselves.

But there’s a darker side. There are other places that call themselves sanctuaries but operate more like work camps. In those places you’re not really invited to rest or heal — you’re expected to put in hours of unpaid labor. The work is often presented as necessary and critical, but in reality it’s a shift away from the true spirit of sanctuary and into productivity.

I was at one of these “sanctuaries” recently, traveling there about five times in total over a couple of months. It was an absolutely beautiful location, and one of the most remote places I’ve ever been. While there, I helped out a lot. My partner and I completely cleaned out one house, then a second as well. We scrubbed and sterilized kitchens and bathrooms full of rat droppings. We moved mulch and put protective cages around trees. A front door was repaired here, a wall repaired there. Chickens were fed, goats were milked, gardens were watered — plus hours of travel time, the cost of gasoline, and even spare tires. We jumped to every request made of us.

But it wasn’t for me. The vibe of the place was made crystal clear when I got an email today saying (and these are the property owner’s actual words):

“I am a laborer on this land and anyone else that comes out here also has to wear that hat as well. This is get-your-hands-dirty hard work…. This is not going to be a good fit for you.”

So basically, if you go there you are not a guest — you’re expected to take on the same physical burdens as the landholder. Infrastructure projects are the focus. There is no invitation into silence, spirit, or rest, only into labor. Interestingly, this landlord has a PhD in Theology.

Finally, in the process of helping, I injured myself badly enough to need six stitches in my knee. And then that email came today, which quite literally added insult to injury.

A while back I read Parable of the Sower by Octavia Butler. Written in the 1990s, it imagined what California might be like in 2025, (now!) I actually wish I had never read the book because it is such a depressing novel. People were just evil. Work camps were the norm, resembling the Russian gulags. People were dying left and right, and others were enslaved with electronic collars they couldn’t remove, collars that would shock them into submission. A Trump-like figure was fanning the flames of Christian extremism.

In the midst of it all, the protagonist, Lauren Olamina, is trying to create a spiritual philosophy called Earthseed. Its central belief is “God is Change.” Out of this vision, she and her followers eventually establish a community on farmland in Northern California — a sanctuary among the collapse of a moral society, one that she hopes will carry humanity to the stars, and beyond.

I identify with her because I, along with quite a few others I know, am also trying to create sanctuary in the midst of all this chaos. I think this is what people mean when they say “this is a spiritual war against good and evil”. Though we are not in complete social collapse yet, I do see the declining trend here. I think it take maybe another generation. But Butler has positive words also, which echo across time:

“Kindness eases Change. Love quiets fear.” — Parable of the Talents

The heart of sanctuary isn’t labor camps or forced productivity, but kindness, love, and the space to rest and grow. I think it’s a vision worth holding onto, even in a world that often pushes the opposite.

https://bookwyrm.social/book/175137/s/octavia-e-butlers-parable-of-the-sower

#OctaviaButler #ParableOfTheSower #Earthseed #SpiritualGrowth #Sanctuary #WorkCamp #EcoSpirituality #SpiritualRefuge #IntentionalCommunity #AlternativeLiving #BoulderGardens

https://redecker.vivaldi.net/2025/09/25/spiritual-sanctuary-or-spiritual-work-camp/

#Sanctuary #AlternativeLiving #bouldergardens #Earthseed #EcoSpirituality #garthsbouldergardens #IntentionalCommunity #JoshuaTree #OctaviaButler #ParableOfTheSower #SpiritualGrowth #spirituality #SpiritualRefuge #spiritualretreat #WorkCamp

Garth's TeePee
2025-09-03

Exploratory toot:
Adjacent to #turtleBower planning locally, people from other areas are also starting to scheme collective/shared housing. Co-living for lil niche groups like spoonies or neurodivergents.
I wonder about a #getFediHoused tag or something as a marketplace for folks looking to start something up, or find roommates, share resources, find local connections, etc.

Chime in if you have ideas!
#coliving #housing #intentionalCommunity #sharedHousing

2025-08-29

I just had a series of conversations where I learned Home Economics classes are apparently not a universal experience for my peers. I think maybe it's part of why I've had such a hard time living with folks, because I thought we all had the same education on basic life-skills, and I was the only one who gave enough of a rip to wash the dishes the right way.

I also didn't know it was considered regressive (when it was considered at all), as I thought it was part of an initiative to make sure folks knew how to do basic life-skills, regardless of gender.

This video definitely was educational for me:

youtube.com/watch?v=fUOdT4c3fQ

#HomeEconomics #HomeEcon #IntentionalCommunity #communityhousing #DIY #Makers #Mending #VisibleMending #TextileArts #Crafts #Cooking #Baking #Sewing

2025-08-15

Floating an exploratory balloon here. If #turtleBower needed to raise $30-$50k for a deposit on this current building, would you kick in? It's based in Ontario Canada, but if we pull this off it can be a template for other housing all over the world.
turtlebower.org/

Boosts appreciated!
#intentionalCommunity #coliving #housing #spoonies #longCovid #actuallyAutistic #disabilityJustice #cohousing #hopePunk #burnout

Tradeless EarthPrPl@todon.eu
2025-08-10
2025-07-30

My Co-Op has vacancies opening, and I'm pushing hard to find sustainability-minded folks to join! Bonus points if you got that bike bug!

malt.coop/housing/
#housing #communityhousing #CoOp #CooperativeLiving #IntentionalCommunity #LeftistPrepping #BikeToot

Rebel Life & Business Coach ✨feelgoodrebel@pixelfed.social
2025-06-25
The doors to Feel Good Rebel Academy just closed…
and I’m sitting here with such a full heart.

We’re in.

We’ve begun.

The energy is shifting already - and I know this next chapter is going to be delicious.

But if you didn’t join…

If you weren’t ready…

If life was lifing, or timing felt off, or you just needed a little more time…

You are still welcome.

You are always welcome.

We have a free space.

A sacred space.

A rebel-hearted corner of the internet that’s gentle, connective, and intentional - and it’s called Worthy & Rising.

It’s a community - for real people, moving through real life, wanting more presence, connection, and soft, honest growth.

🌓 Our current cycle is Radical Self Honesty

And yes - you can still join another reflection session.

We gather again on Sunday June 29th at 7pm CEST for a live circle inside the group.

So if you’re craving a space to land…

To exhale…

To be witnessed without needing to prove, fix, or rush your healing…

Come join us.

It’s free. It’s real. And it’s open now.

✨ Join via the link in my profile

#WorthyAndRising #FeelGoodRebel #RadicalSelfHonesty #RebelMagic #SoftPower #FreeCommunitySpace #SpiritualRebellion #MoonGuidedLiving #IntentionalCommunity #SelfTrustInProgress
2025-06-01

Dropping this with a #turtleBower tag. It's in the hood and an adjacent idea.

"Want to Buy a Home?
An opportunity for one or two people, but an idea for others."
#guelph #tenancyInCommon #intentionalCommunity

Also, hi @CloudwalkingOwl 👋

mindly.social/@CloudwalkingOwl

2025-05-26

Update on the #turtleBower project!

We have a team plunking away building a website. Will hopefully have something to share publically in a week or two. 🎉

In the meantime, I've started a fundraiser goal on ko-fi to cover some of our start up costs if anybody wants to drop a wee bit o cash. This is mostly by spoonies for spoonies, so every lil bit adds up. 💞

ko-fi.com/valerie7173/goal?g=1

disabled.social/@vlrny/1145457
#crowdFunding #mutualAid #spoonies #intentionalCommunity #housing #disabilityJustice

2025-05-21

☝️so that's the gist of it. There's a lot to do, and I can't do it alone. But there's huge potential to pull something amazing off and demonstrate a whole different way of living and caring for each other. Something that could seed similar projects if we can show proof of concept here.
If any of this speaks to you, or you have other resources I haven't even thought to ask for hit me up.
Let's do this!
#spoonies #coliving #intentionalCommunity #housing #disabilityJustice #Ontario #Canada

Tradeless EarthPrPl@todon.eu
2025-05-09

Hello, Tradeless Earth is a project promoting moneyless society.

We don't accept funds, because it's anti-trade of course.

But we need help:

• First is finding people interested in more just,equal and sustainable world to join the conversation.

• Helping us migrate our website to their own server.
If someone has to spare.

• Helping in research about the content we add on website.

*Doesn't matter if you can spare only half hour per week. Everything counts!

#Donate #Donatetimenotmoney #volunteer #volunteering #mutualaid #contribute
#Freeeconomy #resourcebasedeconomy #rbe #ubi #gifteconomy #openaccesseconomy #freeworld #eattherich #tradelesssociety #moneylesssociety #selfsufficientcommunities #selfsufficiency #diylife #selfreliance #offgrid #ecovillages #ecovillage #anarchism #anarchocommunism #communism #intentionalcommunity
#climatechange #intentionalcommunities
#antiAuthoritarianism #antiauthoritarian #antiwork
#humanity #simpleliving #sustainableliving
#solarpunk

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