Lmst

Anything but accept shared responsibility.
https://youtu.be/vy1Ax-qDMtg?si=q8IdKg49cw1KMEMi
#nocontact #estranged #boomerparents

Tho walking away from toxicity is typically best, this shit world is getting moreso w/ the idiocy of merely going 2 extremes/fads quickly. Tho I tout divorce immediacy in all landscapes, it's only when it's the most beneficial tactic.

Get advice: https://drhermansjr.carrd.co
#nocontact #toxicfamily

Europe and the rest of the world should end it's reliance on the united states especially if the voters insist on having a narcissist as it's leader.

#NOCONTACT #LOWCONTACT with the USA

#ChrisHedges' brutally honest reporting on #TheStateWeAreIn in the #US and what's coming elsewhere.

#GifsArtidote:
every human has the moral responsibility to act in protest and rebellion against #fascism. #fear is our biggest enemy & can be overcome by confronting your self & inspiring others with courage. #empathy, #solidarity and united struggle are our weapons of mass destruction against the system and the #BillionaireClass. #sabotage #boycotts #NoContact (meaning no engagement with the system, replacing reliance with self-sufficiency) are ways to resist. we have to ignore the old one, and build a new life outside of this system. i suggest local & global mutual aid, solidarity and community building. we don't have long.

#educate #organise #resist #press #news #GlobalNews #BreakingNews #BlackMastodon

https://open.substack.com/pub/chrishedges/p/american-concentration-camps?

Resources for people who weren't/aren't raised right:

Crappy Childhood Fairy (psychologist)
https://youtube.com/@crappychildhoodfairy
#mentalhealth #reparenting #cptsd

Support for people raised by narcissists
https://www.reddit.com/r/raisedbynarcissists/
#abuse #neglect #trauma #narcissists

Internet Parents
https://www.reddit.com/r/internetparents/

Dad, How Do I? -
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCNepEAWZH0TBu7dkxIbluDw
#parents #orphan #nocontact

Support for queer youth
https://itgetsbetter.org/
https://www.thetrevorproject.org/
#lgbt #lgbtq #LGBTQ2S #queer #trans #pride

Support for religious trauma
https://thesatanictemple.com/
#atheist #religion #cult

Today is going to be very difficult for people separate from parents to protect their mental and emotional and sometimes physical health. Don't forget to be kind today.

#mothersday #mom #dysfunction #abuse #nocontact

Qualche settimana fa ho eliminato la mia famiglia biologica dalla mia vita.
https://open.substack.com/pub/temperancearcanoxiiii/p/no-contact?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android&r=30ce01

#NoContact #Trans #TransWoman #TransJoy #Transgender

🌿 "Why Do They Come Back? A Nuanced Take on Exes Reappearing"

We’ve all been there: You’ve moved on, healed… then ping—an old flame resurfaces.

Three common reasons (and how to respond):
1️⃣ The Comfort Seeker – Loneliness, not love, drives them.
2️⃣ The Late Bloomer – Genuine growth (rare, but possible).
3️⃣ The Curiosity Test – “Is she still an option?” energy.

Full guide with psychologist insights:
🔗 https://tinyurl.com/3j6a2fhp

#Relationships #EmotionalIntelligence #NoContact

I am learning to live my life without my uncle, my grandmother, and my grandfather. No, it’s not because they have passed away; they are still alive. I am surviving and benefiting from my anxiety with them because I can’t be okay with them anymore. I can’t see any possibility of being happy with them anymore. My survival is important; it doesn’t mean I can blindly depend on them.

#FamilyEstrangement #ToxicFamily #SettingBoundaries #MentalHealthFirst #AnxietySurvival #NoContact #EmotionalAbuse #ComplexPTSD #SelfPreservation #BreakingCycles #YouAreNotAlone #GriefWithoutDeath #HealthyDistance #FamilyTrauma #SurvivalMode #UnlearnGuilt #ProtectYourPeace #NarcissisticFamily #AdultChildren #HealingIsMessy

Just realized that today makes 6 years of No Contact with my narcissist dad. Woot! 🥳🏆🙌🏻 I've never regretted my decision. #ProudOfMyself #IYKYK #NoContact #Narcissism #NarcissisticAbuse #NarcissistParent #AbuseSurvivor

#parents #parenting #abuse #trauma #traumasurvivor #cptsd #nocontact

zydiis

VERY unpopular opinion: It's your parent's job to raise you. Your adult relationship with them is their performance review.

Welcome! I’m so glad you’re here.

#goldenchildunleashed #goldenchild #scapegoat #narcissisticmother #narcissism #covertnarcissist #enablingparent #flyingmonkeys #toxicfamilyabuse #dysfunctionalfamily #childhoodtrauma #trauma #traumasurvivor #generationaltrauma #emotionalabuse #emotionalneglect #triangulation #nocontact #codependency #boundaries #peoplepleaser #perfectionism #lowselfworth #triggers #emotiondysregulation #complexPTSD #cPTSD #healing #recovery #musingsofarecoveringcodependent

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#spanking #childabuse #trauma #substanceabuse #addiction #ptsd #cptsd #anxiety #depression #mentalhealth #mentalillness #suicide #nocontact

rewinn

My father whipped his five boys, as Tucker Carlson recommends.
What were the results?
- I left home at the age of 13 and never looked back.
- Two of my brothers died of substance abuse problems.
- My other two brothers tried raising their kids the way he did; as adults, none of their kids speak to them, and I don't think they're allowed to see their grandkids.
LESSON: It is normal to hate people who hurt you.

tattwa_ms
Being spanked as a kid taught me one very important thing: how to lie without blinking an eye.

This is one of the reasons why I find awareness about narcissism important.
People who haven't experienced narcisstic abuse usually just can't believe or imagine, that someone "is like that".
They can't imagine it, when they see all the signs of someone else going through it and even without any context or knowledge about the situation, empathise with the abuser, the self proclaimed "real victim".

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k54poMS_d1k

#NarcissisticParent #Narcissism #NoContact #ParentalEstrangement

Why So Many People Are Going “No Contact” with Their Parents:

"A growing movement wants to destigmatize severing ties. Is it a much-needed corrective, or a worrisome change in family relations?" - The New Yorker
https://archive.ph/aQVsm

#nocontact #newyorker

https://www.unexplained.ie/article/1014-family-sues-hospital-after-daughters-death-went-unreported-for-a-year/ #death #strange #odd #hospital #noContact #search #missing #unexplainedie #unexplained

sent a text to my stalker mom, posted it on TikTok + it's going viral 😮

I think people really appreciate seeing how someone sets/holds strong boundaries + communicates w a toxic parent.

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTND326KX/

#nocontact #boomerparents #transphobia #transphobe #genderfluid #lgbtqia #babyshower #pregnant #pregnancy #parenting #selfcare

Hi Mom! Unblocking you just to send this message, I will not receive replies from you though. I have heard that you're assembling gifts for my baby and I am not comfortable receiving anything from you. In my experience you have never been able to give gifts without strings attached, and I am not interested in re-negotiating boundaries or having you in our lives in any way—as I first told you would happen 10 years ago when I initially cut contact.

You have had every opportunity to heal yourself; stop toxic patterns; and stop enacting homophobia, transphobia, and racism. You were not able to handle any meaningful confrontation around these issues, and you have intentionally misgendered and deadnamed me every time I've seen you since I came out as genderfluid (after very pointedly using my chosen name exactly once in each interaction). Furthermore, my partner is Black and my child will be as well. You have repeatedly supported every kind of racism from "colorblind" ideology to white nationalist politics, so I would never trust you to have a relationship with my kid.

As for a direct relationship with me, you have always required very high levels of emotional labor and support while being able to provide little in return, since you have always been too self-absorbed to center your children's needs, emotions, priorities, and lived experiences in any relationship. You have had nearly 20 years of feedback from us about what would be required to improve our relationships, and you have repeatedly chosen to ignore or misunderstand our requests, then center your own pain and grief ad nauseam. I do not anticipate ever having contact with you again outside of occasional brief interactions at family functions, which I can conduct on my terms.

Please stop buying anything for us, donate what you've acquired, and do what you need to do to accept that you will not be a part of your grandkid's life. It is a privilege that you have not earned and are very unlikely to ever be able to (though of course they can make their own decisions as an adult).

Discover when it's time to consider implementing no contact with toxic individuals to safeguard your mental well-being. Learn how to recognize the signs and take steps towards healing. #toxic #boundaries #nocontact

https://envisiontherapydfw.com/when-to-consider-no-contact-protecting-your-mental-health/

#NoContact

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