I had a realization that there's a sort of implied social contract that parasocial relationships must stay parasocial relationships, hence it's always weird to meet someone from a fandom or what-have-you. But, I think the weirder part is, when a fandom is relatively small, especially if it's small, there's no actual reason for that separation.
Like, if you're a podcast with like five people, that is your tribe now. If you have a youtube channel with like a dozen followers, those could be your friends. It's only when the input becomes overwhelming (see: any popular youtuber's live chat) when the disconnect becomes mandatory.
Anyway, I guess it's just a #showerthoughts I had, especially back on Twitter when someone would post some drawing, get five replies, but only reply to like, one person.
Like bruh... I feel like you need to reach a certain popularity threshold before you start saying "oh wow I don't know these people" like cmon, if you have three fans of your work, you may as well be active.
#fandom #parasocial #ParasocialRelationships