Sometimes I think defining #BPD highs and lows with #FavoritePeople as "idealization" and "devaluation"
misrepresents the nuance of intensity, situation, and our feels/responses.
This might be a little jumbled, I'm parsing these thoughts for the first time.
As BPD people aren't a monolith and there are a few "subtypes" of presentation,
there's an inherent explosiveness assumed by most people & docs W/O BPD
and if you have #QuietBPD like me, you may lack.