#deconflation number who gives a fuck but its true;
#guilt is the generally unexpressed or addressed internal shame of chosen actions known have caused or intended to cause harm
#remorse is the use of knowledge of causing harm to take personal accountablity and action in healing the wounds inflicted
you didnt fall in because of your #intelligence.
...you allowed them to use your own #vanity and #arrogance against you, because it felt good at the time.
#Remorse Is Holding You Back
https://www.buddhistdoor.net/features/remorse-is-holding-you-back/
#Regret often stems from a desire to escape future punishment or #negative consequences. It is rooted in #selfpreservation; an instinctive reaction to the fear of #repercussions that might arise from our #past actions. Remorse centers on acknowledging the hurtful impact that our actions may have had on others. It is a more profound, empathetic response that arises from a place of compassion and understanding.
BDG feature: Remorse Is Holding You Back -- Margaret Meloni considers a Buddhist perspective on regret and remorse
🔗 Read here: https://tinyurl.com/5y7d4hxn
#Buddhism #Buddha #BuddhistPractice #Regret #Remorse #Suffering #Joy #Equanimity #PaliCanon #Spirituality
Today's Daily Scripture Picture: Inner Sacrifice
Psalm 51:17 – “A broken spirit is my sacrifice, God. You won’t despise a heart, that is broken and crushed.”
#scripture #bibleverse #heartbreak #broken #spirit #crushed #repentance #remorse #sacrifice
#MAGA Gets #Buyer's #Remorse | #Coffee, #Eggs, And #PotatoChip #Prices Spike - @colbertlateshow.bsky.social The Late Show with @StephenColbert: https://youtu.be/lGEEtQvusfA?si=0xH3fwFMiAnkb5Zd
🌱 Today’s #DailySutta:
AN 2.108: Remorseful
“For these two, defilements grow.…”
Read the sutta
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#defilements #remorse #taints #AnguttaraNikaya #Theravada #PaliCanon #RealBuddhaQuotes #Suttas #Dhamma #Buddhism #Buddha
"Remorse we can feel. Regret is what we live. But consequence is what lingers" - Futurist Jim Carroll
Let's talk about the science of regret.
I mean, why not?
It seems like a timely topic.
And I've most recently covered The Science of Stupidity and The Science of Mistakes.
So why not The Science of Regret?
I'm on a roll here. Buyers remorse and all that.
What should we know about regret? What should we understand about its nature, impact, and how our brains process it? After all, we might find ourselves around people (at this moment in time, in particular) who are deep in their emotions of regret, and are now thinking about the consequences.
First, what is the definition and nature of regret? I asked Google Notebook after pulling in a large number of articles and YouTube videos related to the science of regret.
"Regret is a negative emotion stemming from a disappointing life event, unchangeable choices, or things said that can't be taken back. It is a painful experience that includes blaming ourselves for a bad outcome.
Ok, that makes sense.
It went on:
- It's a complex emotion involving sorrow and responsibility for the consequences of one's actions.
- Regret is related to choice; it is felt when a wrong decision is made and one wishes they had decided differently.
- Feelings of regret show increased activity in the medial orbitofrontal cortex of the brain.
OK, since it might seem there is some regret unfolding around some areas of the world right now, faster than ever before, what can we understand about the emotions of those who are going through it? The answer is ... um ... interesting.
How Regret Differs From Other Emotions:
- Regret involves comparison and blame, differing from disappointment, which lacks the element of personal fault.
- While guilt is responsibility for specific wrongdoing and shame is a feeling of being flawed, regret combines elements of both, along with a desire to rectify harm.
...along with a desire to rectify harm... that sounds promising.
But wait. There's a lot more about the science of regret that might help you understand today's world.
**#Regret** **#Consequences** **#Psychology** **#Reflection** **#Remorse** **#Growth** **#Decisions** **#Emotions** **#Learning** **#Redemption**
A quotation from :Mignon McLaughlin
True remorse is never just a regret over consequence; it is a regret over motive.
Mignon McLaughlin (1913-1983) American journalist and author
The Neurotic’s Notebook, ch. 4 (1963)
Sourcing, notes: wist.info/mclaughlin-mignon/75…
#quote #quotes #quotation #consequence #guilt #motivation #regret #remorse #results #selfawareness #selfcriticism #shame
A quotation from Hugo, Victor:
«
One can no more keep the mind from returning to an idea than the sea from returning to a shore. For the sailor, this is called the tide; in the case of the guilty, it is called remorse. God stirs up the soul as well as the ocean.
»
Full quote, sourcing, notes:
https://wist.info/hugo-victor/74130/
#quote #quotes #quotation #guilt #remorse #shame #guiltyconscience #conscience
To Not Learn And Overcome Your Regrets Can Be A Regret Itself. See #ThoughtsAndObservations about #Regret on Linkedin at https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/learn-overcome-your-regrets-can-regret-itself-michael-temkin-5lqac/
#disappointment #introspection #remorse #sorrow #contrition
it’s all in the horse
regret really or remorse?
(not the same of course)
#haiku #poetry #writing #WritingCommunity #PoetryCommunity #regret
The Man With No #Remorse
Behind the desk, spurious
Trophies of forgotten things,
Meant to remind the viewers
Of some glory that never existed.
The fists on the table, the sounds
Of the demagogue on wood from
Forests he never owned that he
Razes with fire from foreign weapons.
The eyes fixed at something past
Our shoulders, the attempted
Intimidation of peacekeepers. He’s
Dead inside with his political rage,
The man with no remorse.
#MastoPrompt #Poetry #Writing #Politics
- What's wrong?
- I'm sorry I ate your last pickled onion.
- Ha, and now you're suffering #remorse.
- Not exactly. It's indigestion.
The #MastoPrompt for Monday 14 October 2024 is:
The poem or story can include the prompt word or be about the prompt word.
@ me, if you like, or just include the #MastoPrompt tag (to allow people to follow or filter their feeds), or keep your work to yourself - all the options are good as long as you're writing.
If you're including an image please do include alt-text so I can boost your post.
#Writing
#SmallPoem
#Poetry
#Fiction
#MicroFiction
#SmallStories
A quotation from Miller, Arthur:
«
TOM: I don’t know, maybe all one can do is hope to end up with the right regrets.
»
Full quote, sourcing, notes:
https://wist.info/miller-athur/16680/
#quote #quotes #quotation #contrition #error #meaningoflife #regrets #remorse #sin #sorrow
A quotation from Millay, Edna St. Vincent:
«
Thus in the winter stands the lonely tree,
Nor knows what birds have vanished one by one,
Yet knows its boughs more silent than before:
I cannot say what loves have come and gone,
I only know that summer sang in me
A little while, that in me sings no more.
»
Full quote, sourcing, notes:
https://wist.info/millay-edna-st-vincent/71885/
#quote #quotes #quotation #alone #deserted #grief #love #past #remorse #silence
