Thinking about how I've said the 90s was culturally gripping the mic and stammering, "Hi I'm Bob and I'm an alcoholic," where maybe we didn't do anything about systemic social and cultural issues, but took the necessary first step and admitted we had a problem. Which empowered later generations to start doing something.
Leaning full into the 12 Step metaphor, in the 90s we began the fearless and searching moral inventory which got even more fearless and searching when social media empowered us to communicate these ideas more rapidly and without filters.
I know 12 Step programs have a bad rap, largely due, IMHO, to them being abused in some places but not all. But if you read the steps, other than some of the God stuff (GenX definitely skipped step 3 because we assumed nothing would restore society to sanity), the larger part of society has been following the 12 Steps for the last three decades.
It's the making amends steps that the other part of society is fighting as hard as it can.
If we are a collective mind, fascism is like the injured ego feels unbearable shame and pushes back with waves of deflection, denial, and destruction.
While the rest of us are the other part of the mind saying no, no we need to push through the discomfort and apologize, change our life, and make up for the past, and make our future actions right.
I'll follow this with the steps so you can compare.
(I wish I'd written this better but my editing brain is tired. I just wanted to get this idea down.)
(I feel like I could rewrite these to apply to our societal reckoning. I can relate the God aspects to having faith in our fellow man to do what is needed. Because that's the point of those steps, allowing you to let go of what you can't change while remaining hopeful. But you still have to do the work.)
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