How to Bore a Narcissist Into Silence
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I'm driving, stopped at an intersection, looking to turn left. It's busy, and there's no left turn signal and no gaps in traffic. Guy behind honks at me, expecting me to go when THERE IS NO AVAILABLE SPACE TO DO SO. He turns on his brights to be a jerk. I call his next move "as soon as I turn he's gonna speed around me on the right." I make my turn, he does exactly as I predict. License plate is "AI LOVE"
WOW, who could've seen THAT coming? #ai #ToxicPeople #LosAngeles #PredictableDouchebags
@staringatclouds She had resigned. Then secretly manipulated & soldiered up people, using lies. Then rejoined nonprofit only to hijack board meeting on Sunday - knowing my partner was working out of town & unable to attend. All of this toxic & unethical shit isn't how any decent nonprofit society operates. They literally gave control to a lying bully on a vengeful ego power trip; who is trying to punish my companion for enforcing his personal boundaries & refusing to let her keep attacking me out of jealousy. Never trust anyone who lacks humility, lies without blinking & uses manipulation to fool others.
Fucking disgusting person💩🗑
Fucking foolish folks who opted to side with & reward a toxic manipulator 🤮
#Nanaimo #Ladysmith #Yellowpoint #Liars #ToxicPeople #ManipulativePeople #ShipOfFools #Cowichan #VancouverIsland #Bullies #FuckThesePeople
It's pretty bittersweet how some white saviour women think they know better than the peoples in Indigenous marginalized communities that they lack lived & working experiences with, on rez & are supposed to be serving. It's foolish to ever think you'll get 100% community support on any native rez - never happened in all the years band councils were ever established. You can't be arrogant enough to think you know better than everyone else. You can't ever think you're irreplaceable too - all of us are replaceable in work arenas. You can't put your ego above bigger community needs. To do so is to put yourself & your inflated ego, over everyone else - that blocks genuine, purposeful & essential collaborative work. You choose to put greater good over your own inflated ego. That is part of true maturity.
My long thread on #EmotionalAffairs & the damages they cause will be delayed until I return from Yellowpoint trip next week. Due to heavier than expected work week & the fact that me & my companion are still having to deal with more unnecessary BS from his toxic coworker who has inappropriate feelings for him. She's resorted to trying to drag more personal business into work business - which is very unethical & unprofessional. This is someone unable to deal with their own personal butthurt feelings, unable to face real life consequences for choosing to be abusive/manipulative/dishonest in the shadows & wanting to 'punish' both of us for confronting her directly, telling her to grow the fuck up, to stop trying to drag personal biz into work biz & to get herself some therapy to stop being so shady & manipulative.
We are now both facing fugly & shady #SmearCampaign from someone who demanded that we break up, angry that we are not doing that but are staying together & standing together. We aren't going to let one toxic person, who is seriously lacking humility, to stop us from doing a lot of necessary community work.
@Aurin_the_classtraitor Extra prayers to protect my companion from more vindictiveness from butthurt person🙏. All he did was establish very clear work boundaries, end the dysfunctional emotional affair that he didn't realize he was in until she flipped out upon finding out we're dating, tell me the truth about how she's trashed me & demanded that he dumps me & remove her from his small business coordinator role. He was doing his best to separate his own business & his personal life from her. She had agreed to keep working with him to complete tasks for nonprofit that they were partway through & in less than 24 hrs, did 180 flip, resigned & now trying to drag more people into the personal shitshow that she created without being fully honest. When the bully pretends to be the victim is what we're basically dealing with.
Toxic people who feel rejected & are unhappy with their own lives are some of the nastiest, vengeful people ever. No one needed this shit in the first place. It blows my mind what lengths some people will stoop to, only to avoid taking responsibility for their own manipulative actions.
If you're not very experienced with covert abusers, especially in work related atmospheres - this may help you to not enable them.
#PersonalSafety #ToxicPeople #ProtectYourself #DoNotEnable #CovertAbuse
The toxic person took her trashy abusive self out of our lives today. It happened shortly after she got pissed off about being called out on phone call where the chief was there. She tried to deflect things & wasn't open to transparency. Then tried to emotionally blackmail my partner again & failed again. Then attempted to hold password to his business & to nonprofit society files hostage until he brought in digital creation guy & got password back. He'll be changing passwords immediately too. Everything I predicted she'd try to do - she did. Textbook covert abusers are somewhat predictable because they use the same manipulative playbooks.
#AbusivePeople hate #transparency. If you're forced to deal with them - ensure you're never alone when communicating with them. Protect yourselves & always have at least one witness around.
The only people who try to piss upon the joys, love & happiness of others, are people who are not really content with their own lives. Their energies would be better spent on making changes to their own lives instead of trying to meddle & destroy other people's lives, fueled by their own unhappiness & insecurities.
I pray for folks like that to learn how to heal themselves from their own darkness. I never want to stoop to their lower levels. I've forgiven folks like this - when they take ownership of their own actions, demonstrate humility & have worked hard to change their toxic & hurtful ways. I don't blindly forgive.
#EmotionalMaturity #EmotionalIntelligence #ToxicPeople #PrayForTheUnhealed
#Bullying is fugly. It has zero place in our work or personal lives. Learn how to spot #WorkplaceBullies so you are less harmed by them. They're very #TwoFaced & not to be trusted. Their tactics are dishonesty, manipulation, gaslighting, projection & psychological blackmail. They're dangerous snakes in the grass.
#PersonalSafety #PersonalEmpowerment #AntiBullying #ToxicPeople
#ToxicPeople in #BritishColumbia preying on multiple Indigenous communities in Canada thread. Feel free to add your own, similar toxic shitbuckets of Canada to my list - which will be updated with other pathological liars running their shitgames all over BC.
This one is a mentally unstable, unmedicated bipolar nutjob who abandoned her only child & has lived out of motels/car for several years. Sex work is how she gets money. I have nothing against sex workers except for ones like her who try to traffick vulnerable young native girls & desperate older native women to get into sex work too - when they don't want to. I have a lot against ANYONE who tries to buy people with money & gifts as well - this is her way to get in with multiple naive ppl.
This #pretendian claims to be Cree. She is not #Indigenous whatsoever.
Tell the haters to kick rocks!!! #toxicpeople #haters 👏👏👏
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GPlKhb_094U
How To Get Rid Of #ToxicPeople In Your #Life
1. Identify them
2. Don’t expect them to change
3. Create distance
4. Don’t let them cross the set boundaries
5. Don’t be too nice
6. Don’t engage in endless arguments
7. Focus on how will you get out of the said relationship
8. Accept that it will take time
9. You don’t owe any explanation to them
10. Write down your thoughts about them
11. Try to avoid crossing their path
https://www.msn.com/en-in/lifestyle/smart-living/how-to-get-rid-of-the-toxic-people-in-your-life/ar-AA1vf2f7?ocid=msedgntp&pc=U531&cvid=0d6205be56e245e0800fc6ec392787d8&ei=35
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Matt Mullenweg has gone too far
In case anyone missed it, Matt Mullenweg decided to drag WordPress.org into his temper truntum over WP Engine. This is what it looks like if you want to log into WordPress.org these days:
You now have to tick a box saying “I am not affiliated with WP Engine in any way, financially or otherwise.”
Then, because was not done turning the WordPress ecosystem into a toxic hell hole, he forcibly forked the plugin ACF and renamed it SCF.
But whatever my feelings about private equity in general or Silver Lake’s management of WP Engine in particular, I care far more about the integrity of open source licenses, and that integrity is under direct assault by Automattic’s grotesque claim for WP Engine’s revenues.
Mullenweg’s ego is only negative for the Open Source community in general and devastating for the WordPress community. None of us asked for this unprofessional power trip. This benefits no one but Mullenweg. And that’s just fine for him. After all, as far as Mullenweg is concerned, WordPress is his and his alone.
“WordPress.org just belongs to me personally,” Mullenweg said during an interview with The Verge.
Matt Mullenweg: ‘WordPress.org just belongs to me’, The Verge
That’s just fine. WordPress is Open Source code. Just like WordPress was a fork of b2 FreePress or whatever comes next can as easily be a fork of WordPress and there’s not a damn thing Mullenweg can do other than scream and throw his toys out of the pram.
I suspect that he wants to go on calling WordPress open source while also ripping up what that means to demand money from the people who enjoy using WordPress for fun and profit.
But I suspect Automattic wants to have their cake and eat it too. They want to retain WordPress’ shine of open source, but also be able to extract their pound of flesh from any competitor that might appear, whenever they see fit. Screw that.
Perhaps it is time for a change of name so we can get rid of Mullenweg’s ego and get back to creating CMS and blogging software for the community.
If there are any serious proposals to fork WordPress, I want in.
#Automattic #forkWordPress #MattMullenweg #OpenSource #toxicPeople #WordPress
Signs You're Encountering Toxic People and How to Handle Them #Stoicism #ToxicPeople #SetBoundaries #PersonalGrowth #StoicMindset #EmotionalWellness ⏩ https://tinyurl.com/342yrnpp
Stoicism: How to Handle Toxic People (MUST WATCH) #Stoicism #ToxicPeople #SelfImprovement #Mindfulness #MentalHealth #StoicWisdom ⏩ https://youtu.be/Q7kYOoYWTns
@KimCrayton1
You just might find that it is easier to #love other people than to #hate them. Others will see how you #behave and will #follow your #lead
#racists #eugenists #whitesupremacists #bigots #ToxicPeople #haters #DangerousPeople #narcissists #psychopaths #murderers #torturers #oppressors #CancersOfLife!
