When Love Lingers: Posturing Yourself in the Waiting Season
Waiting is an inescapable part of the Christian journey. Whether it’s waiting for a promise to be fulfilled, a prayer to be answered, or a season to change, believers often find themselves in periods of uncertainty and longing. In these seasons, it’s easy to feel abandoned, overlooked, or frustrated. Yet, Scripture offers profound insights into how believers should posture themselves when love lingers, and waiting seems interminable.
Embracing the Posture of Faith
The first step in posturing oneself during the waiting season is adopting a posture of faith. Hebrews 11:1 reminds us, “Now faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see.” Faith is not merely believing that God will act but trusting in His timing and His ways. Like Abraham, who waited for years to see God’s promise fulfilled in Isaac (Romans 4:20-21), believers must hold fast to God’s promises, knowing that He is faithful.
Faith in the waiting season also means actively seeking God. Isaiah 40:31 declares, “But those who wait on the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings like eagles, they shall run and not be weary, they shall walk and not faint.” Waiting on the Lord is not passive; it’s a time of renewal, of drawing closer to Him, and of being strengthened for what lies ahead.
Surrendering to God’s Timing
Another critical aspect of posturing in the waiting season is surrendering to God’s timing. Ecclesiastes 3:11 says, “He has made everything beautiful in its time.” Often, the difficulty in waiting arises from our desire to control outcomes. We want answers now, solutions immediately, and blessings without delay. However, God’s timing is perfect, and His delays are not denials. Surrendering means releasing our timelines and trusting that God’s plans are higher and better than our own (Isaiah 55:8-9).
Overcoming Emotional Barriers to Obedience
The waiting season can evoke a range of emotions—fear, doubt, impatience, and even anger. These emotions can become barriers to obedience, preventing us from fully trusting God and walking in His will. Fear, for example, can paralyze us, making us afraid to take steps of faith. 2 Timothy 1:7 counters this with the assurance that “God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.” Believers must confront fear with God’s truth, allowing His love to cast out fear (1 John 4:18).
Doubt is another formidable barrier. Like Thomas, we may struggle to believe when we cannot see. Yet, Jesus gently admonished Thomas in John 20:29, saying, “Blessed are those who have not seen and yet have believed.” Doubt is a natural part of the human experience, but it should drive us deeper into God’s Word, where faith is strengthened, and truth is revealed.
Impatience often leads to disobedience, as seen in the story of Saul, who, out of impatience, offered a sacrifice instead of waiting for Samuel (1 Samuel 13:8-14). This act of disobedience cost him his kingdom. Impatience can tempt us to take shortcuts or compromise our values, but it’s essential to remember that God’s best cannot be rushed. Waiting with patience is an act of trust and obedience.
The Reward of Faithful Waiting
When love lingers, and the waiting seems endless, believers must remember that there is always a purpose in the waiting. James 1:4 encourages, “Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.” The waiting season is a time of refining, growing, and preparing. It’s where faith is deepened, character is developed, and intimacy with God is cultivated.
In conclusion, waiting is not a waste of time. It’s a season where believers learn to posture themselves in faith, surrender, and obedience, overcoming the emotional barriers that threaten to derail them. When love lingers, and the answers are delayed, may we be found faithful, trusting that in due time, God will make everything beautiful in its time.
Apostle Clay Cofield Author | Entrepreneur | Counselor
Richmond, Virginia
claycofield@gmail.com
Share this:
Customize buttons
#Christians #God #spiritual #spiritualGuidance #waitingOnGod