#conflictavoidance

2024-05-02

Facing the difficult issues head on, making the hard decisions, saying the things that need to be said (especially the things you’re really frightened to say) is the only way to make progress. And OMG it’s terrifying but the rewards are amazing. #conflict #conflictavoidance #assertiveness #relationships

2024-04-14

#peoplepleasing and #conflictavoidance are just euphemisms for dishonest manipulation and tone policing.

Coach Pāṇini ®paninid@mastodon.world
2023-06-08

Nuance generates a cognitive load, the act of thinking is painful, and it’s human nature to find the path of least resistance.

#nuance #cognitiveload #thinking #conflictavoidance #humanism

#NicheSupportGroup Idea: support group for people who want to get more active together but aren't Intense about it or want to run marathons and shit because our childhood traumas made us very conflict avoidant

@actuallyautistic #rsd #CPTSD #conflictavoidance #adhd #ImposterSyndrome #AuDHD #bodydoubling #bodydouble #actuallyautistic #autistic #autisticadult #neurodivergent #supportgroup

2023-05-02

#Conflictavoidance coupled with #impostersyndrome means I often take the blame for things that at best I’m only partially responsible for. I do this to make others feel better about themselves. Repeatedly doing this gives others power, sapping my #selfesteem to boost theirs. It doesn’t take long before they think I’m completely useless and they’re always right. I’m most prone to this when my #anxiety and #depression has peaked. It’s quite the #selfharm and #selfsabotage negative feedback loop.

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