Money might not be able to buy me love, but it sure helps keep the lights on!

Name the most expensive personal item you’ve ever purchased (not your home or car).

What I buy often isn’t available in stores, which brings to mind that song, “My Love Don’t Cost a Thing.” I’ve experienced pain that soaked my pillow with endless tears, leaving me feeling like I lost a part of my very soul. It’s tough when you realize that what we all desperately need is a true sense of identity—something you can’t just fake until you make it, no matter how much you might want to. Heartbreak, constant disappointment, and the harsh realities of life can really make you start questioning who you are. That’s why, whenever I see clips of people struggling or trying to improve themselves, I don’t rush to judge or play the role of Judge Judy. I understand their pain all too well, and I genuinely hope they find the help they need as soon as possible.

I used to be that woman who thought that an expensive bag or a lavish vacation would numb the pain and fill the void inside me. But loving yourself is just as important as sharing a part of yourself with someone else. If you can’t accept and love yourself, you won’t truly see or appreciate the efforts of others. I had to seek help; I faced my demons instead of running away and resorting to endless dating and fleeting moments of pleasure to feel better. It became exhausting. I remember crying so hard that I could feel the weight of my tears, those lukewarm tears filled with pain. Psychotherapy has been the most precious gift I’ve ever given myself. It’s helped me grow, appreciate love, and love someone special without any expectations—just to love him and feel good about being so deeply in love with this man who truly deserves it.

They say that the more you grow, the more your perspective shifts. I chose to find myself first, to heal old wounds, and to bury them. I wanted to find someone who could listen without judgment. In today’s world, it’s tough to find that kind of love. We keep searching, yet we set the bar so high that it feels impossible to reach. I’m learning to settle down for less. Prison of my own selfishness made me reevaluate whether the standards I set for myself are realistic, healthy, and smart, or if I’m still chasing after pain when love could be right next door.

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The art of giving a F**k

Do you need time?

It’s that time of year again when we start reflecting on everything that’s happened. January feels like it was just yesterday, and this year has truly been a rollercoaster. I recently shared some thoughts with someone who feels the same way, and we agreed that every year has its ups and downs. But what really matters is that we made it through—both of us did.

The world can feel so dark, and we often ignore what truly matters while we keep chasing after things that don’t fulfill us. We find ourselves in relationships that come with strings attached, expecting our partners to carry the weight of our needs. We pursue careers with the mindset that we want to be like those who have already made it. We’re constantly seeking validation, setting the bar impossibly high. The economy is a mess, with inflation swinging back and forth.

The news is filled with stories of genocide, war, and people hurting each other. And then there’s Gen Z, always coming up with the next big trend. It’s all chaotic, and no matter how much we try to ignore it, we’re all affected in one way or another. It feels like a lose-lose situation, and it’s hard to look forward to the coming year. Yet, there are still some perks waiting to be shared. What I really need is to get on my knees and surrender to the Lord, asking for His intervention.

I could take a vacation and post a smile for the ‘gram, but if my soul isn’t at peace, what’s the point? My faith has been my anchor this year; I’ve fought battles that made me question, “What on earth is this generational curse?” A wise person once said, “If it doesn’t happen to you, who will it happen to?” The glitz and glam aren’t always what they seem.

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Lately, I’ve been feeling a strong connection with the Holy Spirit, guiding me to specific scriptures. For the past month, I’ve found myself reading the same passages every morning without even realizing it until today. I absolutely love the Psalms, especially chapters 23 and 24, and I often hear a voice leading me to other verses within that book. It’s been a month of this beautiful journey, and I can’t help but feel joy in becoming a woman of God—humbled and obedient, building an altar for Him.

I’m not rushing to other scriptures without the guidance of my counselor. During a tough time in the hospital, when I faced serious health challenges and even collapsed, I found myself saying, “Father God, I submit; I surrender.” Those powerful words were my offering to my Maker, acknowledging that I couldn’t do it all on my own. That moment truly changed my life. It doesn’t mean I’m free from challenges, but I now face them with the authority that God has already seen them. All I can do is tell Him, “You are my shepherd; I exalt Your name, for Your name is above every name.” I bring my challenges before His holy name, asking to drink from the cup of living water. One of the Psalms I read daily for repentance is Psalm 51, and for conviction, I turn to Psalm 7.

I even put myself on trial, saying, “Father God, convict me, judge me. If I’ve done anything to displease You without knowing, I accept Your judgment. But I beg You, Father God, to pardon me and vindicate me through the blood of Jesus.” Amen

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From Embers to Dawn

Beneath the coals, a flicker dances—
A heart aflame, yet shadowed trances.
One breath, I’m scorched by fevered light,
The next, adrift in endless night.

No Plan A stitches fractured dreams,
No B can chart these jagged streams.
I clutch the threads of trust, undone—
A tapestry spun by the Holy One.

The grill’s fierce heat, a fleeting high,
Then ashes choke the silent cry.
Laughter fades where echoes dwell,
In hollows, sorrow starts to swell.

Depression’s tide, a thief unseen,
Unmaps the world that once was green.
Yet in the void, a whisper stirs—
A psalm of dust, a prayer deferred.

How else to grasp this tempest’s weight?
But palms upturned, I abdicate.
Mercy, etch my name in grace,
Lift me where the phoenix dares to face

The storm. Let embers, cold and scarred,
Become the stars Your hands unbarred.
For in the wreck, where hope seems slain,
Your dawn ignites the sky again.

This poem weaves duality through fire and shadow, surrendering control to divine trust. It mirrors the chaos of depression while anchoring in faith’s quiet promise.

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Pensamiento de Oscar Iglesias «Hay que derogar la ley Mordaza»

El presidente del Gobierno me parece un tipo poco de fíar, en eso coincidimos muchos españoles, pero no en los mismos motivos que alude la derecha y la extrema derecha de lo que porque yo pienso que no es persona honesta, Pedro Sanchez no es un psicopata ultraizquierdista dictador como repiten mucho la ultraderecha y gente de la derecha de este país como Ayuso y compañía, en absoluto, ni es el peor presidente de España en los últimos años como afirma la ultraderecha de VOX, el sigue mas bien la estela de los últimos presidentes, en el sentido que olvidan muchas promesas electorales, y una de ellas es la derogación de la ley Mordaza (Ley Orgánica 4/2015) que además prometió, muy seguro de si mismo él, en un mitín del PSOE que en cuando llegara al Gobierno la derogaría.

Y por supuesto que no lo ha hecho, no cumplió, aunque el año pasado han acordado con Bildu suavizar bastante la Ley Mordaza, pero la promesa de derogar no lo ha cumplido.

Esta Ley Mordaza aprobada con el gobierno Rajoy, ha sido un gran retroceso en las libertades y de nuestra democracia en nuestro país, una ley que incluso viola derechos fundamentales proclamadas en la Constitución Española de 1978, con esta ley se vulnera gravemente el derecho a la protesta pacifica, y esto además es un instrumento para blindar a las elites empresariales y políticas en este país frente a las movilizaciones sociales legitimas además con sanciones desproporcionadas y aumento de la represión.

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Welcome to rainbow nation 🌈 maafrika dzonga

Write about a few of your favorite family traditions.

South Africa is a tapestry of cultures, languages, and traditions. In our remote villages, every gathering feels like a family reunion. As an African woman, I cherish our belief that it takes a village to raise a child. Uninvited guests at celebrations are a norm; we embrace everyone as family. When we mourn, the community unites, often slaughtering a cow to honor the departed. We don’t worship the dead, but we express gratitude for their impact on our lives. During Easter and December, we gather, light herbs, and share stories of our ancestors, believing they watch over us. Our homebrew beer fuels laughter, singing, and dancing, sometimes for three days straight.

In our tight-knit communities, we care for one another—checking in when someone is sick or facing hardship. We have stokvel societies to support each other financially, ensuring no one is left behind. Church strengthens our bonds, reminding us of our shared faith. In our language, we say, “umuntu ngu muntu ngabantu,” meaning we are who we are because of each other. This is the essence of ubuntu—humility and togetherness.

We brew umqobothi, our homebrew beer, and cook goat with pap, creating a feast that lasts for days. These gatherings are not just about food; they are about connection, sharing stories of our triumphs and challenges. We support each other in times of need, ensuring no one is left behind. Our stokvel society strengthens our bonds, pooling resources for funerals and community needs. Church unites us in faith, reminding us of our shared humanity. As we say, “umuntu ngu muntu ngabantu” – a person is a person through other people. This is the essence of our community, where we thrive together.

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Ever stop to think why everyone’s walking around like they got the weight of the world on their shoulders? Like, for real, when did we all sign up to be in this non-stop, high-stakes game of who can be the most stressed out? It’s about time we talk about this imaginary law that needs to be passed ASAP: Not Being So Damn Serious. And no, I ain’t just talking about throwing in a casual Friday at work or some happy hour that barely scratches the surface of chilling out. I’m talking deep, societal level of “take it easy.”

Why the Hell Are We So Uptight?

Look around, and you’ll see it everywhere—people hustling left and right, eyes glued to their screens, brows furrowed like they’re trying to solve world hunger while standing in line for coffee. The mantra seems to be: if you ain’t stressing, you ain’t progressing. But hold up, when did turning our chill mode off become the default setting for success? It’s like we’re all programmed to believe that being serious 24/7 is the ticket to the big leagues.

The Chill Law Proposal

Imagine a world where chilling is not just recommended; it’s the law. Sounds outrageous, right? But think about it. A law that mandates not being so damn serious could be the game-changer we didn’t know we needed. We’re talking about mandated chill zones, relaxation quotas, and fines for being too uptight. Picture this: “Sorry, sir, you’ve exceeded your limit of frowns today. Here’s a ticket. Now go watch some cat videos and lighten up.”

Energy Vampire Alert: Is Someone Draining Your Vibe?

The Realness of Relaxing

Now, I know some of y’all are thinking, “But wait, life’s tough! There’s so much to do!” And yeah, I get it. We’ve all got bills to pay, dreams to chase, and dramas to deal with. But here’s the thing: taking life too seriously ain’t doing us any favors. It’s like trying to run a marathon with a backpack full of bricks. Dropping some of that seriousness could actually make us more productive, creative, and, dare I say, happier.

How To Not Be So Damn Serious

So, how do we start incorporating this “chill law” into our daily grind? First off, we gotta start by not sweating the small stuff. Missed a deadline? It’s cool, there’ll be another. Someone cut you off in traffic? Let it slide; maybe they’re rushing to a bathroom emergency. It’s about embracing the flow of life with a grin rather than a grimace.

The Impact on Society

Imagine a society where everyone’s a bit more relaxed. Where success isn’t measured by how much you can brag about being busy, but by how well you can balance the hustle with the chill. We’d be looking at a world with less burnout, more innovation (cause let’s face it, the best ideas come when we’re relaxed), and a ton of happy, well-adjusted folks.

So, what’s the verdict? Are we ready to not be so damn serious? To embrace the chill and take life with a grain of salt? Let’s make it our personal mission to lighten up a bit. After all, life’s too short to be uptight all the damn time. Chill out, laugh more, and remember—the best moments often come when we’re just vibing, not stressing. Let’s make “Not Being So Damn Serious” the new law of the land.

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Disclaimer:
“This post is a fun jab at society’s strictness. It’s about questioning norms and embracing a lighter approach to life. Take it with a pinch of chill.”

https://thunkdeep.com/chill-law-not-being-so-damn-serious/

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If you had the power to change one law, what would it be and why?

A law for people to worship me  every day because I’m the most adorable bird ever.

https://marjolasanimals.wordpress.com/2024/02/12/if-you-had-the-power-to-change-one-law-what-would-it-be-and-why/

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There are many laws I’d like to change. There are many that exist that I would just like to see enforced. What was that amendment to the Constitution of the United States that made insurrectionist ineligible to run for President again? It would be nice to see a law like that enforced, wouldn’t it? As for changes, maybe something about making the wealthiest class of people in the US pay their share of taxes. Something like that could be fun, I think. 

The one law I would change though is not actually a law yet, it’s a Supreme Court ruling about the constitutionality of various laws that passes responsibility to the states. I would like to change that situation so that there is a Federal law in place, possibly even a Constitutional Amendment. The law would state that individual women are responsible for their own health care decisions and the government can fuck right off. If a woman wants to have an abortion she can. If a women does not want to have an abortion she does not have to have one. Simple. The decision for any personal healthcare question belongs to the individual. 

Like I said, simple.

Hey AI thing, generate an image of a Jedi Knight making decisions about her healthcare.

https://robertjames1971.blog/2024/02/12/laws-change/

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