#enm

2025-04-22

@der_schrank Da kann ich mich nur anschließen. Ich erlebe Menschen die poly leben als deutlich verbindlicher, eben weil dazu per se viel mehr Offenheit, Empathie und Redebereitschaft gehört, als zu einer monogamen Beziehung wo (achtung, ich übertreibe) "eh alles klar is".

Echte #ENM is definitiv etwas, das den von dir erwähnten Vorwurf des nicht verbindlich seins so nicht verdient. Und ja, es gibt sie, diejenigen, die das als Ausrede nutzen für Schindluder. Genausoviele nutzen aber auch die Ausrede "Ich hab grad keinen Partner" fürs Fremdgehen.

I am so FUCKING SICK AND TIRED of stories where polyamoury would have fixed this ending in ways other than being fixed by polyamoury. WHY MONGOMAOUS SOCIETY! WHYYY!?

#polyamory #enm #ethicalnonmonogamy

donthatedontkilldonthatedontkill
2025-02-25

Ever since returning back from the Netherlands, I've been so happy. I feel like one of those cartoon characters that floats around and sings because they're lovestruck.
Well, pushing aside about 24 hours of missing them.... (Me? Miss someone? That's rarely ever happened and was a very new experience!)
Just got time off and a ticket to go back at the end of March.
(Please bear with me. 🙃)

donthatedontkilldonthatedontkill
2025-02-23

What an amazing week and some change with these guys... Sometimes when you least expect it, amazing people come (back) into your life and despite the hurdles, you've got to seize the moment and do what you can. Counting the days till I can go back and see my boys next month. ☘️

Three baldies ready to go cause nighttime mayhemthree bald men posing for a picture, the right one kidding the center one's cheek, the center one with his arms around the other two
donthatedontkilldonthatedontkill
2025-02-17

I've had the most amazing polyaffirmative weekend. Exactly what the doctor ordered. Hung out with an old, dear friend that I love immensely and his situationship. We all felt something special immediately.
Cuddle puddles, compersion and connection. ❤️❤️❤️

three men, strangely all bald, under people club lighting, smilingthree men, still all of them bald, one in the middle while the other two on either side kiss his cheeksthree men, you guessed it, bald, but one is wearing a hood. smiling for the camera in the streets of Amsterdam
rickmckeemusicrickmckeemusic
2025-02-15

🥂 Cheers to the many loves and many kinds of loves in our lives.

Unbelievably thankful for five years with 
this person who continually encourages 
and inspires me so. I love you with all of
my heart.

To be queer is to be released from heteronormative expectations, and we 
hope for everyone across the spectrum 
to feel this freedom to — ethically and consensually — love in the way that 
fulfills them. 

“Compersion” (the opposite of jealousy)
is joy that comes from another’s
happiness. For us, life feels its most 
honest and rich when each relationship 
can be what it naturally is: platonic, 
romantic, the beautiful in-between. 
There is no ownership in love.

CHEERS to a day celebrating love’s
infinite forms.  🤍
2025-01-18

I’m ecstatic that I’m getting to spend the weekend with my girlfriend…it’s been too long! I hate that we live in different cities, but we’ve been further apart in the past, so I try to appreciate we’re closer now than we’ve been in a while.

#ENM #nonmonogamy #ldr #longdistancerelationship

Honey Swirl - SwingosphereSwingosphere
2025-01-06

🌟 Is swinging right for you? 🌟

Curious about stepping into the swinging lifestyle? From communication to boundaries, explore the questions that help you decide.
Dive into our latest post now at swingosphere.com.

swingosphere.com/is-swinging-r

James Robertsjroberts@noods.fun
2025-01-05

New server, new intro!

Moved to a new instance, since my old is shutting down. Checked out Mastodon when Twitter became a Nazi hellsite and have been enjoying it ever since. This instance is mostly for me to explore polyamory and explore more of my sexual side. I'm demi by nature but enjoy learning about what others are into.

#polyamory
#cnm #enm
#demisexual

2024-12-27

"Why Open Relationships Are A Bad Idea — No Matter How Good They Sound"

I skimmed the article. The argument is mostly like this:

"I cannot generate compersion. Therefore, opening up a relationship would be torture for me, and thus, no one else can do it. Kthxbai!"

#polyamory #cnm #enm #nonmonogamy #compersion #mononormativity

worldcrunch.com/culture-societ

🏳️‍🌈Alexeinalex@chaos.social
2024-12-10

Hi #38c3 !

We are #RelationshipGeeks, an initiative to create a community of beings, interested in ethical relationships free from societal norms.

Since yesterday our assembly was green lit, I wanted to invite you to drop by and hang out with us at congress.

We've prepared an interesting program* of workshops and conversations that I'll introduce in future posts under the above hashtag.

Stay tuned ;)

*) significant parts of this will support English
#Polyamory #RelationshipAnarchy #RA #ENM

Relationship Geeks logo. A heart symbol embedded in computer circuit lines. Within the heart, there is an infinity symbol created out of more circuit lines. The logo is colorful on a dark purple background and gives of a happy, geeky vibe.
🏳️‍🌈Alexeinalex@chaos.social
2024-12-10

Hi #38C3 !

Wir sind #RelationshipGeeks, eine Initiative um chaosnahe Menschen mit Interesse an ethischen Beziehungen jenseits gesellschaftlicher Normen zusammen zu bringen.

Da gestern unsere Assembly zugelassen wurde, möchte ich euch heute einladen, auf dem Congress bei uns vorbei zu schauen.

Wir haben ein interessantes Program aus Workshops und Gesprächsrunden entworfen, über das ich nachher unter obigem hashtag mehr schreibe.

Stay tuned ;)

#Polyamory #RelationshipAnarchy #RA #ENM

Relationship Geeks logo, ein Herz eingebettet in Leiterbahnen, in ihm befindet sich ein Unendlichkeitssymbol bestehend aus Leiterbahnen. Es wirkt geeky und bunt.
2024-12-05
L'Osservatorio - EsteriOsservatorioEsteri
2024-11-18


Mikheil (|EPP): "C'è il pericolo che il mondo democratico si allontani dalla Georgia nel suo insieme e rivolga le sue simpatie agli abcasi".

@OsservatorioEsteri

L'Osservatorio - EsteriOsservatorioEsteri
2024-11-18


Mikheil (|EPP): "Bloccando la legge russa sulla colonizzazione, gli abcasi hanno fatto il lavoro di tutta la Georgia. Tuttavia, c'è un pericolo nella vittoria degli abcasi: con la loro lotta conquisteranno la simpatia dell'Occidente. Questo ci obbliga semplicemente a condurre la nostra lotta verso la vittoria nel resto della Georgia".

@OsservatorioEsteri

2024-11-16

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