#focusOnWhatMatters

Barrie Evansbemsw
2025-10-29

Clarity often comes not from adding more… but from letting go of what no longer matters. Choose what deserves your attention and release the rest.

Wisdom is the art of knowing what to overlook.
Cyber Tips Guidecybertipsguide
2025-10-17

Many Americans feel that neither of the two major political parties represents them anymore. It’s not apathy; it’s exhaustion. Focus on what you can control; peace beyond the noise. 🔗 zurl.co/11JW6

person-AIzpersonAIz
2025-02-22

🔊 From morning meetings ☕📞 to evening entertainment 🎶📺, sound shapes our daily experiences. 🎧✨

That’s why we’ve designed our technology to seamlessly integrate into your lifestyle. 🏃‍♂️🚗🏡 What moments in your day would benefit from clearer sound? 💬👇

The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins: A Mindset Shift for Dealing with Life’s Challenges

Life is full of obstacles, unexpected twists, and moments where others’ actions can leave us feeling frustrated or stuck. But there’s a mindset shift that can make all the difference in how we navigate these challenges: The Let Them Theory.

The Let Them Theory is simple yet profound: when people act in ways that disrupt your plans or challenge your peace, let them. Let them be who they are. Let them make their choices. Let them reveal their priorities. And most importantly, let their actions be about them, not you. This perspective frees you from the burden of trying to control or fix others, allowing you to focus on what truly matters: your own resilience and growth.

Why “Letting Them” Works

When you embrace the Let Them Theory, you’re practicing acceptance, not defeat. It’s about recognizing that you can’t control other people’s actions—only your reaction to them. By letting go of the need to manage how others behave, you create space to redirect your energy toward your own goals and well-being.

This mindset has helped me in countless ways, particularly when I’ve encountered obstacles or felt the sting of others’ opinions. For example, in my writing journey, I’ve faced criticism that could have derailed my confidence. Instead, I let those critiques sit where they belonged—with the people who made them—and kept moving forward. By “letting them,” I stayed resilient and focused on what I could control: improving my craft and sharing my stories.

How to Apply the Let Them Theory

  1. Let Them Be Themselves: Accept that people will act according to their own beliefs, values, and limitations. Their behavior is a reflection of them, not you.
  2. Let Them Have Their Opinions: Whether it’s a negative critique or unsolicited advice, let them express their thoughts without internalizing them. You don’t have to agree or adjust your path to accommodate their views.
  3. Let Them Make Mistakes: Allow others to learn (or not learn) from their choices. Resist the urge to fix or save them, and focus on maintaining your own path.
  4. Let Them Walk Away: If someone chooses to leave your life or disengage, let them. Trust that those meant to stay will, and those who leave are making room for something better.

Resilience Through Letting Go

When you stop expending energy on things you can’t control, you build resilience. Challenges become opportunities to grow rather than reasons to give up. This doesn’t mean you won’t feel hurt or frustrated, but it does mean you’ll learn to process those feelings in ways that empower you rather than drain you.

Moving Forward with Purpose

The Let Them Theory is not about passivity—it’s about prioritizing your peace and staying aligned with your goals. The next time you face a challenge or encounter someone who disrupts your flow, pause and ask yourself: Can I let this go? If the answer is yes, then let them. Let them act, let them speak, let them be. And then, return to what matters most: your growth, your joy, and your journey.

Resilience isn’t about avoiding obstacles—it’s about learning how to navigate them with grace. Let’s make this year the one where we let go of what we can’t control and focus on building a life filled with purpose and progress.

Check out the book that gave me this nuanced insight on The Let Them Theory

#buildingPeace #emotionalResilience #focusOnWhatMatters #letThemTheory #mindsetShifts #overcomingObstacles #PersonalGrowth #resilienceMindset #selfImprovement

Jason Elrod :cupofcoffee: :donor:jasonelrod@infosec.exchange
2024-12-20

@triciakickssaas I hear you on this.

I start with petting my golden retriever on the regular as he kinda gets life in general. :)

That said, 2024 is going to go down as a rough year on the personal front for me. I made a post over on LinkedIn last week on the topic and listed out the 12 top of mind things that have been helping me in this context.

linkedin.com/posts/thejasonelr

#MindsetMatters #Resilience #FocusOnWhatMatters #BePresent #LifeLessons #Leadership #IntentionalLiving #TimeIsPrecious #SelfCare #LeadWithKindness

🟡Michael Clifford Cartermikecarter
2024-12-15

High Achievers Travel Light, Shedding Unnecessary Burdens to Maintain Speed.

This artwork bursts with energy, radiating a sense of raw intensity and athleticism. The central figure is dynamically outlined, with bold black and red strokes creating a sense of tension and motion. The vibrant palette—dominated by primary colors like yellow, red, and blue—suggests an explosive moment of action, perhaps a player in the midst of a powerful throw or swing. The sweeping, chaotic brushstrokes expand outward, evoking a feeling of movement and impact that extends beyond the figure. The contrast between the vivid yellow background and the cooler blue tones provides depth and dimension, making the figure feel alive within the abstract scene. This piece celebrates the untamed force and passion of sport, creativity, or personal expression, with its dynamic composition inviting viewers to feel the motion and intensity rather than merely observe it.
2024-12-09

What if you focused on creating instead of worrying? 🌟💡

"Instead of worrying about what you cannot control, shift your energy to what you can create." 🔥 Empower yourself by focusing on possibilities, not problems. 💪

#Motivation #CreateNotWorry #FocusOnWhatMatters #EnergyShift #PositiveMindset #TakeControl #EmpowerYourself #Success #GrowthMindset #ActionOverFear

Alison Bladhalisonbladh
2024-11-26

Be mindful of where your energy goes. Only invest it in what truly matters. 💡✨

Skills for Online Success 🤔upgrades_in_conscience
2024-10-22

Are your big goals slipping away? 🎯 You’re focusing on urgency, not long-term consistency. Shift your focus to what really matters. 💡
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Skills for Online Success 🤔upgrades_in_conscience
2024-10-13

Too Much on Your Plate? That’s Why You’re Stuck
Overwhelmed by your never-ending to-do list? The secret to success isn’t doing more - it’s doing less, but with laser focus. Simplify to amplify. 🎯
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2024-10-02

🧵 4/7 They Stay Happy and Focus on What They Can Control
Instead of wasting energy on things outside their control, they channel their focus into actions they can influence. This perspective helps them maintain happiness and positivity, no matter the circumstances. #FocusOnWhatMatters #PositiveEnergy

WBCOM DESIGNSwbcomdesigns@me.dm
2024-08-18

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#SupportTeam #CustomerSupport #PolicyUpdates #FocusOnWhatMatters #TeamWork #BusinessSuccess #SupportHeroes

JavriolJavriol
2024-02-20

"People's actions can seem bewildering, even nonsensical. Life is short—too short for trivial arguments, unnecessary conflicts, or dwelling on what doesn't concern you. Focus on your path, your goals. Don't get dragged into needless negativity. "

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2023-12-30

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Through My EyesVDandavate@mas.to
2023-12-22

Moments slip away
Intentional living
Seize irreplaceable time

Your time on earth is finite yet profoundly valuable. How you choose to spend each fleeting second represents what matters most - abeautifulmess.substack.com/p/.

#TimeIsPrecious #StewardItWell #IntentionalLiving #LiveOnPurpose #ABeautifulMess #SeizeTheDay #PreciousMoments #TimeManagement #WorkLifeBalance #BePresent #Mindfulness #FocusOnWhatMatters #InvestInPeople #QualityOverQuantity

N Jay Sorensennjsorensen
2023-10-12

Coach Ron Rivera of the Washington Commanders emphasizes the importance of focusing on what's truly important rather than what's merely interesting. He values creating a positive culture built on character, accountability, attitude, and preparation. 🏈👥 cnn.com/2023/09/07/sport/poppy

John Masud Parvezjohnmasudparvez
2023-09-07

Remember that avoiding all distractions is not always possible or desirable. Some distractions may provide valuable breaks or creative inspiration. The key is to strike a balance and ensure that distractions don't derail your progress toward your most important goals.

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