#mentalabuse

我剛剛看到一個說一個日本男人因為生氣妻子專注於照料孩子而疏忽了他,因此超過20年沒有和妻子說過一句話的圖片(直到子女找到電視台,然後和妻子溝通,由妻子發出請求去最初約會的公園談談,才撬開了這尊佛的金口)。看起來不像是假消息,於是我搜了早期的視頻。

這是2013年4月5日一個叫做探偵ナイトスクープ 的電視節目的內容,原來的標題叫:23年間も会話がなかった夫婦が 。

我看到圖片的第一反應是:天啊這是世界上最恐怖的冷暴力! 而這個妻子居然這23年裡依然和他住在一起,沒有想過離婚?!而且在這期間他們生下了第三個孩子!!!(她是怎麼接受這個冷酷的男人的性需求的?!)

當視頻裡面,這個妻子哭出來的那一瞬間,我覺得她真的好可憐,好可憐。而日本媒體都是報導「好感動」。我簡直想要大罵這男的怎麼不去死啊!(我很不想說媽寶,因為媽寶裡面的「媽」也是被社會塑造的)。

早期的視頻:facebook.com/watch/?v=65559481

早期的媒體報導 j-cast.com/2013/05/10174862.ht

一個比較詳細的紀錄 nangadekkyonna.com/archives/23

#Domesticviolence #Mentalabuse #couple

2025-04-19

@RickiTarr Glad to hear that they are no longer together. From what you wrote he was not just a narcissist but an abuser. Abusive partners break down their partners emotionally and mentally in order to control them. Sometimes it can end in rape or even murder.
If you want to depress yourself look for youtube videos by Lundy Bancroft a psychiatrist who works with abusive men trying to understand and help them.
#DomesticAbuse #MentalAbuse

2024-12-01

Although both #men & #women are affected by narcissism, women are much more prone to this life-damaging abuse(abused by both men and other women).
These are just a few words from some women who went through it and survived, some dont.

"I am very old now but I have only just discovered about covert narcissists, and realise these are the people I have had in my life all the time, from childhood. I am now on my own but others think it is because I am the awful one because I do not have anything to do with these people anymore including my own children, who turned out like their dad, a narcissist. Life feels very lonely."

"My marriage was shaky from day one, but when I said to the narcissist that we could go into counselling to try and sort things out, he said, 'Why should I do that when it isn't my fault, it's yours.' You can't discuss anything with these individuals; In the end, after 40 years of marriage, I was the one that said 'Goodbye' to our fractured relationship."

"My son was recently in an accident where he was seriously hurt but will recover just fine. My sister asked me if I cried when I found out because she cried her eyes out. Like it was a weird, creepy competition on who was more hurt. Who the hell competes over something like that? The weirdness never ends
Very low contact. I look back at what I used to put up with and can't believe I'm sane."

Literally, you will go "crazy " trying to figure them out. Life is too short...RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN.

#Trauma #Abuse [#DomesticAbuse #SexualAbuse #MentalAbuse #EmotionalAbuse #ChildAbuse #DigitalAbuse #TechnologyAbuse #GenderAbuse #Bullying #Harassment #Violence #Deception #Tragedy ] #SelfAbsorption #SelfCentredness #Selfishness #Jealousy #Envy #Hate #Bigotry #Psychopathy #Narcissism #Narcissists #Sadism #Egoism #Selfishness #Spitefulness #Wars

#Empathy #Compassion #Kindness #Love #Peace
#GenuineConnection #Awareness #Freedom #Children #Parenting #Fatherhood #Motherhood #Family #Marriages #Growth #Change #Life #World

BetterifyouneilBetterifyouneil
2024-09-29

Raymond was convicted as well of placing his hand over the mouth of a four-year-old student until the child went limp.

Witnesses reported the punishment prevented the child from breathing “to the point of him going limp.” Afterward, the boy was “unable to stand.”
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That's

What the fuck
No penalty will equal the crime.

MauraAlwyen 🐘MauraAlwyen
2024-03-21

Some evenings dealing with my brain & the trauma bond sucks. The future fakes sometimes replay making it tough
I have to remember that litterally everything she said was a lie. All of it manipulation, all for her ego
2 months of strict no contact now & this can take years to fix

MauraAlwyen 🐘MauraAlwyen
2024-01-16

Sometimes, I stumble across a video that makes me realize that due to my childhood trauma I will be alone against my desires
2 long term relationships, my kids are "mom, you have a type"
I can see what they mean
I can't change the past, only the future
I have to protect me now

2023-09-22

It hurts when you have to realize and accept that the loving and caring family you thought you grew up with turns out to be narcissistic, bullying, assholes who used you repeatedly, mentally abused and neglected you.
Living with #cptsd sucks.
#mentalabuse #cptsd #healing

2023-08-14
2023-04-09

Do any other Autistic people relate to the signs of mental abuse in this Psych2Go video?

Even if you can’t identify an obvious abuser?

youtube.com/watch?v=L01frBzlDZ

#AskingAutistics #ActuallyAutistic #MentalAbuse #trauma

2020-11-21

@RickM I need people who can use the information I have. It's kind of open source, but it will only make sense when it gets to the right hands. It's the combination to unlocking pretty much everything. You have to understand each element and be in a position to use it.
It's The Right's Achilles Heel. It's the End Boss killer.

Please share until it reaches the right hands.

"Gaslighting causes the mental condition #CPTSD. This is in #ICD-11, the international classification of diseases.
This is how Right wing governments take and keep control."

#Gaslighting
When a person, group, or organisation, on whom WE depend to supply vital need(s), violates it's victim(s), US, by repeatedly, non-consensually, attempting to invalidate knowledge, with a fallacy based, fake version of reality, by exploiting our need.
It's #MentalAbuse

Gaslighting is the knee on the neck of the world.

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