I added a support option to the tiers over on Patreon.
Each of the tiers has an option to either message me on Patreon or have a voice chat with me in Voxer for some length of time.
What am I looking to help you with?
Your focus.
When you focus on the problem with it, the worry, the anxiety, the doubt, the fear, the stress, or the unknown what if, it keeps you stuck. You think you can't move forward or you have to stay upset until those things are no longer there.
What if that's not true? What if you can move anyway by simply shifting your perspective away from the problems? What if you focused on the power you do have within yourself to be okay, make your own choices, and do your own thing problems or not?
The majority of the healing that I did on myself and most of what I now talk about now is focus related. I spent months in fear, pain, anxiety and stress because of what I was paying attention to. What I learned to do was simply allow life to play out, watch what happened, and realize that whether I paid attention or not the outcome was the same. If I had control and I could have fixed it, I would have. But when I didn't my job was to learn to be okay with that problem just being there. I learned to allow myself to make the choices I wanted anyway, problems or not.
When you have a goal and you want to move forward but problems show up or life offers you reasons why not, you have to shift your focus and keep going anyway. When you pay attention to those problems, you run away from it. It doesn't have to be like that. You can shift your focus. The deal is your goal or wherever you're trying to get to has to be more important to you than your fear of the problems. That's what allows the goal to override the fear. It's what will anchor you in place and allow you to stay put when the going gets tough.
I'm not promising that this work is easy. We're taught to focus on all the things that upset us all the time. I'm here to tell you that it's a lie. It's not true. It keeps you unhappy and stuck. There is a better way forward and I can help.
I'm not going to fix your problems. I'm going to help you learn to leave them there, get on with your life, make the choice you want to make, do the thing you want to do, and be okay within yourself.
If that interests you go check out the tiers on Patreon, pick one and you can message me or Voxer me immediately once you've signed up.
I'm not guaranteeing instant replies but I will reply.
If you have questions message me. Here's the link.
http://patreon.dellawren.com
Love to all.
Della
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