A bit unsure what the question is here. If your looking for people to talk to about NSFW stuff, then one of the 2 communities are probably not your best bet, as most people in very general blanket style communities are just looking to get their creep on. I have found the most in depth conversations I have had about NSFW stuff is women friends who are married. For context I am a male and married. But with the sexual tension removed you can have some great convos.