@saraislet yep. Most of my disadvantages are hidden, and I pass for what I want to pass for—all the same, nobody likes to be told the downsides of their plan, no matter who it’s coming from.
I’d have hundreds of “teachable moments” if anyone wanted to be taught. I’d have half of them if anyone wanted to consider what I was saying as equally credible.
It’s a damn shame, really, because I strove for over a decade to create success for everyone and the end result was so much more limited than I was offering.
I’m on burnout break and have been since July. Breaks have only helped me so much: I tried shorter term things with significant help, and when the cycle began anew…
I really, really hope you’ll find success and happiness on this path. You deserve that.