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"Louie lied to himself a lot, and I think he started to believe his own lies. My dad would say, "God, that guy! I asked him a question and he never answered it." He dodged questions by making you think that he answered it, and talking about so many things that were, like, on the subject but off the subject, and diverting everything to something else. He bragged a lot, and you never knew what was fact or what was fiction."
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
- how are you feeling?
- that's a loaded question…
i'd appreciate if someone warned me before…
wow, i didn't remember this text from 2014.
i guess "some things never change" :blobshrug:
i find it curious that i have all these problems (& more) & i still have a high sex drive.
not sure if it's a blessing or a curse :blobtilt:
https://www.instagram.com/p/DToL4DFjJBw/
those who want to change & better themselves, chase it & make it happen. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kf0rPU7zy7Q
"eu acho que não tem nada mais moderno, ainda mais pra 1813 - que é quando o livro foi publicado - do que essa reafirmação feminina da jane austin, de fazer um homem admirar uma mulher pelo o que ela é e não pelo o que ela tem ou pelo o que aparenta ou finge ser. um homem que reconhece nela uma parceira a altura, alguém com quem ele pode conviver de igual pra igual."
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C_G4N-Db25M
one more h**** day
"don't let somebody be so comfortable with your trust that they always betray you, and they allow themselves to be distrustful to you because they know you're still going to show up" - isaiah frizzelle
*sigh*
why do you have to be that mental?
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/IhXPRURm0g0
"i convinced myself that he was someone that he wasn't (…) i hate that i felt ashamed for having loved so deeply. because it wasn't reciprocated (…) it's better to experience this kind of love, even if it hurts at the end. i know it's for the better. i'd be miserable with him. i still love him."
not long ago, i was her 🤧
"(where you put) your attention literally changes your perception of reality."
not to mention that we are governed to some degree by our unconscious which keeps sending us all sorts of unpredictable messages that will change the scene anyhow."
Dr. Orna Guralnik
"Why do people think when they get in relationships they stop learning & studying their partner? People grow, change & evolve all the time.
- One of the things that happens in relationship is that our perception of our partner can get fixed. And while our partner is growing we don't really wanna see it, there's something about it that might be threatening or alarming to us and that's when the relationship starts freezing. People are changing and growing all the time,
what other people see. Most of the time, the facts of the story are not really what's interesting. So arguing about facts or distorting facts is somewhat of a waste of time, because what's interesting is what matters to each person about the story they're telling. So if someone is distorting a story, what might be interesting is not arguing about the fact of what happened, but how does this person experience the story they're talking about?" Dr. Orna Guralnik
"My bf distorts/changes the story about bad things that happen to him and I can't take it.
- There are many reasons why people distort/change things. Some of it might be actual conscious distortions because they might feel shame, or they might feel embarrassed, or they wish things were different or better. But then people constantly distort their own histories and their own stories because of defenses, because they're uncomfortable with things, and they have different take on reality than
the little cracks they escalated
before you know it is too late
for making circles and telling lies
you're moving too fast for me
and I can't keep up with you
maybe if you'd slow down for me
i could see you're only telling lies, lies, lies
breaking us down with your lies, lies, lies
when will you learn?
