adhd is where you plan your whole day and you're like we've got this we made sure and then you get there, you haven't slept, now you have fifteen more things to do, and all you want to do is sleep, and somehow at some point during this one day three weeks passes

more than we ever used to? yes, we have family here and a lot of them are content to drive around with minimal contact. and when mother's being really emotional about not going somewhere alone. sometimes, driven outside out of the sheer need to not be stuck. but we could probably go out every single day for most of the day if we wanted to, and we want to. we just don't. wouldn't have the energy for quite that much, but still. not going to be at some major spreading event thanks.

there's reasons, sadly, why we still don't go out much despite having a shitload of opportunities. we can't risk it all the time.

@graydon Sensible, and we'd love to do it too but it's not always safe here. perhaps there's also a comment to be made here about how we're way too used to having no choices but unsafe or unsafe in another way. (we hear if you're quick and you're observant you can avoid some of the shitbirdery but we are not fast, and can't observe people making faces, which is usually your warning)

Honest opinions please. People still taking precautions about covid (masking or limiting social contact) are:

mount mush?

#photography #mushtodon

feather, therily: aww, i'm gonna pet you in your goddammit!
feather, two minutes later: oh i'm gonna die, because this game wants me to play minions
this is why. why what? this is just why

Two for Tuesday brothers 🐱 #fosterkittens #cats #catsofmastodon

i love you kitty but do not love pulling your hair out of my faaaace we even pull it out of our eyes sometimes, ow

cat hair, in the mouth. cries

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please help a starving #transWoman struggling with parental #abuse to stay housed. she needs to pay off her debts to qualify for safe housing. she hasn't met her goal in 4 months

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Related, many people seem held back by ‘what would people think?’ And shy away from making or creating or learning artistic or creative things.

No one cares! Make bad art! Play mediocre music!

We have all been told myths about ourselves. And we start believing it. (You are not good at art. You can’t sing)

Explore, and explode these myths. Do whatever you want that interests you.

WHITE MEN HAVE LOCKED A BLACK WOMAN IN A BUILDING IN TEXAS.

Help Kathi, a trans woman living in Oklahoma to flee the state as it's becoming unsafe for her to stay there. She's reaching out for our assistance as her income barely covers her rent, food and other necessities, which has resulted in her living paycheck to paycheck and having little to no savings. She's battled both homelessness and cancer in her life, and has struggled to find a stable job due to her (recently diagnosed) autism.

Goal: 1700/6000 dollars

Link:

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Tags: #GTFOmyState #MutualAid #TransMutualAid #TransCrowdFund #crowdfunding #crowdfund #fundraiser #fundraising

yes, we know. it's not perfect. it has problems. but so does the conventional christian take, you could certainly refine it and hammer out the problems with the thought process if you were christian and really interested in doing so. it's more doable with that one. we're not uncritically boosting it, just not trying to fix it either, because fuck going back.

re last boost: damn, if we were christian we'd probably really like that. it's still an interesting take. and one we like a lot more than the ones we got when we were trying and realizing it could never be over and over to fit into our dad's religion.