if you want to find me i'll be putting up info on wheretofindme.com/@robin soon

sometimes someone can make a big fuckup and it doesn't mean they're not a really good person

sometimes someone can be totally right about something and still be an insufferable creep who's safer to stay away from

i'm not smart enough to relate it to anything going on but it's been sticking in my head a whole lot the last couple of months

it's funny, i liked fedi a lot, but i've seen what trying to care about it did to my husband, and I'm probably gonna bounce too. if you want to get in touch with me i'm gonna leave this up, drop a dm or reply, but like, this shit is unhealthy and i can't keep assigning it priority in my life

i hate the argument of "just block them" if someone posts triggering content because:
1. not everyone can or will have the means of knowing whos going to post what content. especially if its someone you follow boosting someone you dont follow.
2. this implies someone must see triggering content first, and then block someone. this is like, an extremely shitty situation that puts the traumatized person responsible for themselves
3. we talk a lot of shit about wanting to protect vulnerable people but cant even decide if CWing triggering stuff is something we should do
4. blocking 3/4 of the people on a platform because not CWing certain things is the norm, is ostracization of the traumatized lol

PSA: Never leave your #ThinkPad unsupervised...

I saw someone the other day boosted into my tl saying "ugh I don't block people but I might have to if y'all don't start cwing this thing" and like... yes? you should? blocking someone is not a moral decision. it isn't weighty. if you hate seeing my posts then the only person you are harming by not blocking me is yourself

I love this picture.

imagining telling theodore roethke about microplastics

@evan @fakemaxkeeble which in turn was likely inspired by the 1995 essay and later book "Bowling Alone" https://www.amazon.com/dp/B003DYGOO6/ because culture is always an ouroboros

when you legume, you make a leg out of you and me

"Sixteen Turning Sticks" by Takamichi Ito

@Manurweibling "i'd be bi all over again, if i could turn back time"

@Manurweibling "maybe i'm bi" is the bisexual's way of renewing ourselves, like wedding vows

if you ask me where this came from i cant tell you but if you’re curious this option is and has always been open to you too

what if i became a chaos witch. like, as a gender thing, but also as a actual job title, and again as a joke, and also a fursona too, but further as an aspirational goal, and finally again as something i begrudgingly admit was never once ironic

@flowerenby this is incredibly relatable and calming to see in practice by characters in media imo

@Manurweibling 👁️ 👀 👁️‍🗨️ :buttwhat: :eyes_fast: :eyethink:

@Manurweibling i imagined eyes instead of flowers and honestly that's a Look in itself