In what world is a 13 year old boy responsible for his adult mother's decision to abscond with his 10 year old sister? Is the columnist high? #BadAdvice #ParentalKidnapping #FamilyDysfunction It's possible this dad is a victim. It's also possible the wife and daughter were victimized by the father, hence fleeing and his own extended family keeping their whereabouts a secret. Whatever the case, this is a shitty response. Blech. https://www.nj.com/advice/2024/07/best-of-dear-abby-my-ex-disappeared-with-our-10-year-old-daughter-on-the-advice-of-our-13-year-old-son.html