Have been thinking for some time about whether it's permissible to bring about a #TransformativeExperience for someone else when that person doesn't know or resists it happening.

I mean transformative experience in the technical philosophical sense from LA Paul: and experience by our values and preferences change. On Paul's account, it already looks like we can't make a #RationalDecision about whether to choose a trans. exp. (on regular #DecisionTheory), but what about on behalf of others?