My #SexualKink was to have sex with one woman, have such a great relationship that it lasts a lifetime and fun, joy and happiness are created from the relationship (mutually satisfying).
From age 17 to age 50, that was an #Idealist perspective I took very seriously. #LikeAVirgin very first time metaphor comes to mind.
Alas, I think those days are over a long time ago.