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Fri. Dec. 5, 2025: Still Baking

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Friday, December 5, 2025

Last Day of Full Moon

Neptune, Chiron, Uranus, Jupiter Retrograde

St. Nicholas/Krampus Night

Sunny and bitterly cold

And here we are, at the end of another week!

Online meditation group was good yesterday morning, and Charlotte was happy.

After breakfast, I mixed up the batter for the batches of molasses spice cookies and set them in the fridge to chill. The jar of molasses used to be enough for two batches plus a little to use in cooking. This jar barely had enough for the two batches. I loathe shrinkflation. But there is allspice in these cookies (along with cinnamon and ginger) which always makes me happy.

By the time the batter was mixed and the dishes done, it was time for the #FreelanceFriends chat over on Bluesky. That was a lot of fun. I wound up sending the Chocolate Crinkle recipe to a colleague who made them that very afternoon!

When that was done, it was back to the kitchen, and rolling and pressing the cookies before baking. By rolling, I don’t mean with a rolling pin – I don’t do those cookies any more for the platters. I roll them into little balls and press them down with a sugared glass, which gives them a sparkle.

The anti-fatigue mat helped, so my back wasn’t quite as unhappy as it would have been, but still, after 12 dozen cookies, ow.

Set them to cool, got a little research done on the historical mystery, so I can dig back into that soon. Tried to read an acquaintance’s cozy mystery, but about 40 pages in, one of her characters that I’m supposed to like, used “witch” as a slur against another woman, so I’m out. You’re not cute, you’re not inclusive, you’re not a feminist if you use this slur. It’s not a valid substitute for “bitch” in a cozy. It’s derogatory towards women, and get out of my life.

So that series is a no-go for me.

Cooked dinner (no leftovers finally, yay). After dinner, we packed the cookies in tins and put them in Tessa’s room, by the porch door, because that’s the coolest room. We also closed the door between Tessa’s room and the rest of the house, because it was set to be -6F overnight.

Bea has gone from being feral to asking for tummy rubs, which is just adorable. She’s not quite a lap cat yet, but she will sit next to me on the sofa, so she’s lap adjacent. She will get there. She just turned 3.

I wound up taping a garbage bag at the gap at the top of one of the windows in my office, because it slipped down and I couldn’t get it back up. In spite of newish windows, every time someone slams a door downstairs (which is, basically, every time they go in or out), the top of  a window slides down up here, so I’m always running around climbing on things to get the windows back up. No, there’s nothing maintenance can do about it, at least not if I ever want to open one of the windows from the bottom again (which I do, in summer). I was worried it wouldn’t matter taping a piece of plastic up, but it made a big difference. No Arctic winds zooming through my office.

Slept so well that I overslept, waking up a little before 7 AM. Again. Tessa Was Not Amused. Again.

But I got everyone fed, and then Tessa coached me through yoga, as she now likes to do.

I dreamed about large green and black spiders, which I learned are lynx spiders. Why I dreamed of a spider I didn’t know existed, who knows? Trying to find an interpretation that’s not AI-generated has been a challenge.

I’m hoping the car will start without a problem this morning. I have the usual library errand, and then I’m getting the last few things for baking (and basic groceries for next week), and then running to Williamstown for the last few things on my gift list. I also have to stock up on parchment paper and wax paper. I ran out of parchment paper with the last tray of cookies yesterday. I need to remember to start stockpiling that over the summer.

I have three more kinds of cookies to bake over the next three days (one kind a day is sane), and packing the boxes to send off, and doing the domestic cards this weekend. I want to get things to the post office on Monday, and start delivering cookie platters, so that will be done next week.

It’s a big push this weekend, and it might not all get done, but we’ll get done as much as we can.

Then, I can focus on any ghostwriting coming in, the historical mystery, and the textile piece. And finishing the decorations, so we can enjoy the holidays!

There are a ton of events happening all around. I’m going to pace myself and do very few. Part of it is that people are running around sick and spewing germs unmasked, and I’m not having it.  I mean, more people are still masking here than in many other areas, but too many people who are sick are not. Part of it is that I just don’t want to be running around this season. I’m grateful to be invited, but I need some quiet time before the year turns. There are things that need to be sorted out and figured out for next year, and they won’t do it on their own. I need to lay some track in the next few weeks, so that I can move forward after the holidays.

For decades, I was always sick on the holidays because I wore myself out leading up to them and took on other people’s germs. By the time the holiday hit, so did illness. I don’t want to do that anymore. So I need to adjust my schedule, and I’m fortunate enough, as a remote worker, to be able to do so. And I’m not twenty anymore, or even thirty, so I need to pace myself better.

Tonight is St. Nicholas night/Krampus. We celebrate St. Nicholas night more in our house, a family tradition. Although I must say, the photos and videos of the Krampus parades in Europe look like a lot of fun.

That’s the plan for the weekend! Have a good one, and we’ll catch up next week to see where we are.

#baking #cookies #events #freelancefriends #holidays #recipes #scheduling

Fri. Nov. 21, 2025: We Made It to the Weekend

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Friday, November 21, 2025

Waxing Moon

Neptune, Saturn, Chiron, Uranus, Mercury, Jupiter Retrograde

Cloudy and cold; incoming rain or snow

And here we are, at Friday again!

Online meditation was good yesterday, and Charlotte was delighted. After breakfast (which is after meditation), I got a decent start on the historical mystery. I’m still finding my way into it. But the body dropped (literally and figuratively) nice and early, so I think I’m in good shape.

Caught up on some email, slogged through a bunch of job listings. This isn’t the best time to get out LOIs. I mean, with the economy tanking, it’s not anyway, but right before Thanksgiving, things tend to go astray.

Have you seen Emma Thompson in DOWN CEMETARY ROAD? Perfection. I love what she’s doing in that so much.

The #FreelanceFriends chat was good, and I agreed to host a chat again the first Thursday in February, so that’s on the calendar and I can plan the questions.

After lunch, I did some ghostwriting. I didn’t get as far as I hoped, but made decent progress. Still waiting for the notes on the other projects. I hope I get at least one set today, so I can turn around and invoice before the holiday next week. Finished the book for review, so I will write and send off the review this morning, and then hope there’s something else to request. Again, I’d like to do another book this weekend, send in the review, and be able to invoice before the holiday.

Tessa and Bea are full of pep this morning and playing. It’s so cute. Bea played with one of her mice, tossing it way up into the air. It landed in one of the plants on a table, and she wasn’t sure how to retrieve it. I got it down for her, and she was so happy. She really is adorable.

On today’s agenda: the review, errands, writing, ghostwriting. Over the weekend, we will put in some time on writing the domestic cards (I’m figuring two hours each day), I will work on the textile project, I will do some housework (never-ending), and we might start some of the winter holiday decorating. Sunday afternoon, a colleague from the gallery is giving an artist talk, so I will attend that to support her. Monday, I have the Feminist Writing Community session online and then a Friends of the Library meeting in the afternoon. Somewhere in all of that, I need to get to the laundromat. I also have to sit down with the recipes for the cookie platters and make the master grocery list for the baking. If Big Y is still out of cocoa powder and baking chocolate, I will have to source it elsewhere. Fortunately, we have options in a pretty decent radius, although I might have to go down (oh horrors) to Pittsfield.

When we had snow a couple of weeks back, in that one day, there were 28 car crashes in Pittsfield. 28 accidents in a single town in a single day. I will try to avoid Pittsfield for as much of the winter as possible.

I hope I can get my errands done before the weather turns too bad. It’s the usual round of pharmacy, grocery store, library, and only one other, so I should be able to be pretty efficient.

The Sidewalk Chewing Demons are out there again, making noise and not getting things done. Urgh. Maybe they’ll be quiet by the time I get back from the errands.

I made my opinions very clear to my elected officials yesterday after That Thing called for the execution of members of Congress. Completely unacceptable. I’m so sick of the corruption and the lawlessness and the intentional cruelty.

Anyway, I’m hoping for a reasonable calm and drama-free weekend, even though there’s plenty that needs to get done. Have a good one, and we’ll catch up next week!

#art #books #cats #freelance #freelancefriends #life #writing

Thurs. Nov. 20, 2025: A Solid, Steady Work Day

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Thursday, November 20, 2025

New Moon

Neptune, Saturn, Chiron, Uranus, Mercury, Jupiter Retrograde

Partly sunny and cold

You can read the latest about the garden over on Gratitude and Growth.

New moon, yay, but with all these retrogrades, I want to keep it quiet and uncomplicated. There are so many posts about setting intentions and moving forward – it’s going to feel like swimming in molasses with all these retrogrades, so let’s just keep this new moon a little on the quiet side, okay? Frankly, I’m sick of all the “transformation” and “not your typical new moon” posts that have screamed at us all year. It’s been a rough year, and I want some quiet as I gear up to enjoy these holidays as much as possible. I definitely embodied a Hermit Year in many ways. (Hermit is the 9 card in most tarot decks, and 2025 is a 9 year – 2 + 2 + 5 =9)

Next year, 2026, is a “10” year or a “1” year, depending on how you want to look at it. 10 in the tarot is the Wheel of Fortune, and 1 is the Magician. So let’s use the Magician to turn the Wheel toward something better. But between now and then, let me rest, damn it.

I was absolutely exhausted yesterday. When the noise finally died down a bit in the late morning, I could barely do anything. I felt like I’d been released after a beating. It’s very unhealthy to have to be in such a state of hypervigilance all the time between the chaos just outside the building and the greater dumpster fire of the country.

I managed to get some planning done on the historical mystery, setting out some of the bones for the story. I still need to add a lot of historical details, but I want to use it like seasoning, not smother the story itself. And because it’s not an era I feel fluent in, it’s more of a struggle than otherwise. But the piece has to be set sometime before 1900, and I’m sure there will be a lot of submissions in the Victorian era, ancient Rome, and ancient Egypt. Very little, in general, is set during the reign of Queen Anne. Some is set a bit earlier, at the beginning of the Restoration, when the ban against women performing onstage was lifted. But mine is solidly during the Queen Anne years, when a group of women playwrights and actresses flourished, in spite of the odds.

I still have a lot of figuring out and reading to do, especially to cross-check historical details, but I should be able to start the piece early next week. If I can get the bones down and then layer the piece, I think I will be in good shape. Also, it’s only 5K, so I don’t want to overcomplicate it.

And I have my protagonist figured out, which helps a lot. I prefer to start from character and build the situation around it.

The anthology payment showed up in my account, which was a good feeling. It’s not a large amount, but it’s welcome.

I had a really good work session on the ghostwriting. When I’m not under a brutal deadline, I can tell myself the story first, and then go back and layer. I’m still waiting for revision notes on the three previous projects. I hoped to be able to invoice again before the end of the month. Fingers crossed that can still happen. In the meantime, I keep trudging forward, along with preparing LOIs.

Slept reasonably well, good morning routine, good 15-minute free write. For now, I’m keeping on keeping on with it. Figured out the opening, the murder, the murderer, and the motive for the historical mystery. So yes, I can get started on it soon, and then layer in the historical details as they are needed.

The Sidewalk Chewing Demons are out there making noise again this morning. Hopefully, it won’t be for too long. I have the online meditation group (provided Madame Download isn’t running it). I’m considering skipping it, but Charlotte would be disappointed, and since we won’t have it next week because of the holiday, I feel I should show up.

On today’s agenda: writing, ghostwriting, #FreelanceFriends, reading the next book for review.

Tomorrow is errand day. I probably won’t get to the laundromat until just before the holiday next week, provided there’s not another water main break.

Here’s hoping it’s a quiet day!

#astrology #freelance #freelancefriends #historicalMystery #life #spirituality #tarot #writing

Fri. Nov. 7, 2025: Hoping for a Quiet, Creative Weekend

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Friday, November 7, 2025

Waning Moon

Neptune, Saturn, Chiron, Uranus Retrograde

Sunny and cold

And here we are, at the weekend again! When we meet again, next week, both Mercury AND Jupiter will be retrograde, meaning we are dealing with 6 retrogrades. I want to stay in my blanket fort for the rest of the month, please and thank you.

Yesterday was slow going, and a lot of admin. Meditation was good, and Charlotte was happy. #FreelanceFriends chat was good. I just sort of plodded along with the work. Nothing particularly exciting going on at the home front. Just keeping on keeping on, frustrated because everything is taking longer than I would like (hello, retrogrades). Somehow, it will all get done.

A judge told That Thing yesterday that he must fully fund SNAP by Friday. No more excuses. No defying court orders. Of course, the administration is putting in an appeal. I’m telling you, they want to stop the program permanently. You know they’re going to pull the same thing again in December, claiming they used up all the money per court order in November, even though the money won’t have gone out. Since Johnson already said he’s keeping the House in recess until at least January. . .although I fully expect Schumer to cave out of spite because Tuesday didn’t go the way he wanted it to. If and when the House reconvenes, there has to be a no confidence vote against Johnson and he needs to be replaced by someone who is capable of doing the job, rather than a mere toady. Nancy Pelosi announcing her retirement is also a big deal. I often disagreed with her decisions, but I also recognize how much she achieved in her career. And it sends a clear message to establishment Democrats.

Guess I should be glad things are quiet on the home front, with all the chaos going on at the larger level. On a local level, I had some solid congratulatory conversations with my local elected officials.

And the best local news – Hexagon Bagels opened in their brick-and-mortar space! I’m so thrilled for Patrick and Nicholas. They’re open right now Thursdays through Sundays. I will have to make a foray down there to get some bagels and congratulate them in person.

I finished the second book for review, so I will send off those two reviews this morning, and then request my next assignment.

I had a good 15-minute writing session this morning, which I hope will translate into some good writing, and figured out the central conflict of a newish piece, which is always a good thing. It helps me build the rest of the piece now.

I’m off to do the errands after breakfast– grocery store, library, etc. And then it’s back to the ghostwriting. Tonight is First Friday and an opening at Future Labs, so I will be off to that, for at least a little bit.

This weekend, I plan to stay home, do housework, and get some sewing done. Some of it will be on the textile-and-text piece, some of it will be clothing. I also have to read the research books for the historical mystery and start building that, so I can write it over the next few weeks and get it in ahead of deadline (I hope).

I’m trying to be consistent with my daily marketing moments from my content calendar, and hoping that will pick up momentum over the next few weeks.

Next week will be wonky, with Veterans’ Day being on Tuesday and some stuff being shut and others not. Next week, I also have to get my mom’s COVID booster scheduled. I have a feeling I won’t get mine until early December. I have to get it before the end of the year, while I still have insurance. I’m not sure of the details of our insurances yet – I got one notification that my mom’s monthly payment is going up by 53%, but I don’t know what’s going on with mine yet. I have to contact the navigator and see if we can just stay on what we have, or if everything is about re-enrollment (which is complete and utter b.s. – if people want to keep what they have, it should just renew, not have to go through all the paperwork all over again every damn year).

Heaven forbid we have a government that does its job to make people’s lives better. We have one that’s being looted to turn it into a medieval feudal system.

Anyway, I hope to have a quiet and creative weekend. Have a good one, and we’ll catch up in the retrograde-fraught next week!

#astrology #creativity #freelance #FreelanceFriends #life #sewing #smallBusiness #writing

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