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Recently cracked egg, in the process of transition and discovering out what kind of hatchling I am. Working through stuff, and using this account to talk about some of it. Nonbinary transfem of some flavour seems to describe where I am now.

Probable ASD-haver, definite mental illness unenjoyer.

Minors DNI, because I don't want to worry about censoring myself while processing things beyond using CWs.

Will doubtless be a chaotic mess for a while, and incredibly self-involved. Sorry.

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Jen Kramerjen4web
2025-05-30

I have a low-vision student who is learning to code JavaScript. She needs a better code editor to work with, and/or some plugins to make it work better with her screen readers. What do the accessible developers recommend? **** ** **

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2025-05-29
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legally distinct octoocto@blackqueer.life
2025-05-29

:boostRequest: could you please give me a boost? :boostRequest:​​ 🥺

I'm a black plural neurospicy trans woman struggling a lot.

my plans for moving are finally in motion and I will move by the middle of the year no fucking matter what.

I've decided to keep on studying linguistics after graduating in sociology and my parents will definitely not approve it 😬

currently my anxiety is through the roof not only due to money but everything else and I've been sleeping no more than 4 hours a day and it is destroying me. It makes it so much harder to persevere and to try and pursue my objectives and project but I still am doing my best to achieve everything and I definately will.

I need help paying for my glasses replacement installments, paying for my monthly expenses and what wasn't met on the last two months because I was so burnt out that I couldn't even fundraise properly :X

thank you very much for your continued support >.<

links:

  • ko-fi - accepts paypal and stripe.
  • stripe (USD) - (for those that prefer not using paypal)

hashtags

#mutualAid #transCrowdfund #mutualAidRequest #blackMutualAid #boostPlease #transMutualAid
@mutualaid

a picture of 6 cats in total, 3 orange tabbys a black cat and two tortoise cats, eating wet food from a plethora of different bowls
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Burn This Dyspho Out 🏳️‍⚧️Testoceratops@disabled.social
2025-05-29
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2025-05-29
A drawing of a sparkly raven sitting on a branch. The caption reads, "Hey facing unknowns absolutely causes anxiety. It's not weird to be struggling right now."

If you’re not following @Willow then you really should be.

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Willow, Venus Pirate 🏳️‍⚧️Willow@chaosfem.tw
2025-05-29

Riding the Avalanche

#ThingsYouCantUnsay

Every time I acted from my masks, I placed a stone. One for each mask.

Every second I breathed, I acted from my masks.

Half a statistical cis lifetime of breaths built a terrifying mountain. I don’t know how tall - the plain below has been hidden below the cloud layer for a very long time.

When I tore off the cis mask and the man mask, I felt so free.

What I didn’t understand was I had other masks, the manifestations of other closets, and that those were just as toxic to me.

I didn’t mean to build up a life that was based on erroneous assumptions about who I am, but I did, because in a society absolutely dedicated to preventing you from knowing yourself, avoiding the hermeneutical injustice of creating relationships based on mistaken assumptions is difficult.

If you don’t know what I’m talking about when I say society is dedicated to preventing you from knowing yourself, then you have either my congratulations that you got lucky and fit perfectly into who society wants you to be, or my condolences on what you may yet learn about yourself and its implications for your future.

If you know, then this essay is dedicated to you.

Because when you find out you aren’t who society told you to be, you have a choice.

It’s just one choice. You only ever get the one.

In some ways, that’s nice. The choice itself is uncomplicated. It’s extremely simple, in fact.

It is: are you going to be who you are, or not?

It is a very hard choice.

I married without the understanding that I’m a traumatized, trans, asexual, polyamorous lesbian.

After coming out as trans, I experienced the ongoing stress of being in the closet. I could feel it in my body, in my muscles, in my organs. I came to understand what I feel like when the closet is present in my life.

1/3

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violet :heart_bi: :sheher:thecrushedviolet@mstdn.games
2025-05-28
Meme with dog holding a Frisbee in it's mouth, refusing to give it to the hand reaching for it from off panel.

Caption reads "The World during Mental Health Awareness Month"
Dog's text reads "Please be aware. No Resources. Only Aware."
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Natasha Jay (she/her) 🇪🇺Natasha_Jay@tech.lgbt
2025-05-28

Sorry, I couldn't resist

A photo of a blackened resistor between two wires, burned out
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Radio Wave Girl🗼X00001@masto.hackers.town
2025-05-28

non smokers should be allowed to go outside and scream for 5 minutes in
lieu of a smoke break

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2025-05-28

I laughed

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JA WestenbergDaojoan
2025-05-28

I asked for dark mode as in “less eye strain” not “the collapse of shared reality and permanent democratic nightfall” just to be clear

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Hey Lovely

Tag you're it.

Time to unclench your jaw, drop your shoulders, and hydrate.
You've got this.

RT to tag the next person

Luv you

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diana 🏳️‍⚧️🦋🌱dianea@lgbtqia.space
2025-05-28
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💜 AdoraBeryl 🩷 :bunRetro:Rasp@raru.re
2025-05-28

boost this cat when they least expect it

A CAT YOU DIDN'T EXPECT
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Octavia Con Amore :pink_moon_and_stars: Succubard's LibraryOctaviaConAmore@cutie.city
2025-05-27

"To the people who gave me one-star reviews because the first book 'had lesbians.' I doubled the lesbians in this one, just for you."
~Rebecca Thorne, [A Pirate's Life For Tea]

#Books #Bookstodon

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satisfactory small womanPinballWitch
2025-05-27

Please don't just scroll past...

Disabled, unemployed trans woman who has been denied disability assistance. 100% of the money I use to eat, get meds, and be alive is from donations.

Please help me afford to be alive?

cash.app/$pinballwitch

ko-fi.com/pinballwitch

paypal.me/rachelodessas

current balance -$43.56
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Negenby Vibesmiththeynege@beige.party
2025-05-27

King Charles come to Winnipeg and arm wrestle me you coward

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2025-05-27

Certified copycat

#Caturday

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