"This lack of intimacy among male friends may feel normal, but it isn’t. Until the 20th century, it was not uncommon for men in this country to openly hold hands, sit on each other’s laps in public and write each other passionate letters." (🎁) https://www.nytimes.com/2025/05/25/magazine/male-friendships.html?unlocked_article_code=1.OE8.q0fA.HwqpVKiaLYML&smid=nytcore-android-share