That doesn’t make my fear any less real, or my instinct to protect my family any less urgent. But it forces me to ask: how can we live in a place where some lives are protected and others are not? Where safety depends on your identity, your city, your side of the wall? This war didn’t just shake my sense of security. It made it clear how unequal that security is. And I don’t want my kids to grow up thinking that’s normal."