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🔎 HAVE YOU SEEN HIM?
Phokham Khamnivong, 43, missing since Feb. 15.
Vulnerable. May need help.
Your share could bring him home.
👉 https://tinyurl.com/393b8m2f
#AnchorageAlaska #MissingPerson #MissinginAlaska #FindPhokham #CommunityMatters #APD

Good Idea: Build Community in resilient spaces

https://www.joanwestenberg.com/communities-are-not-fungible/

Communities aren’t just collections of people, they’re built over time through countless small acts of trust, shared history, and daily interactions. You can’t just move everyone to a new place or recreate the same online platform and expect the same bonds to form. The real value of a community is in the relationships themselves, and once disrupted, that network of connections can’t be exactly rebuilt. Every decision that uproots people (physically or digitally) has a cost that can’t be measured.

#CommunityMatters #SocialCapital #UrbanLife #DigitalCulture #RelationshipsMatter

This is part of our history fighting for cannabis rights in Canada.
One of the community fundraisers that helped support the constitutional court case that led to ACMPR.

Real people. Real patients. Real change. 🌱🇨🇦

#CannabisHistory #MedicalAccess #CommunityMatters #PatientRights
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8Xc08gFD1gc&list=RD8Xc08gFD1gc&start_radio=1

This is part of our history fighting for cannabis rights in Canada.
One of the community fundraisers that helped support the constitutional court case that led to ACMPR.

Real people. Real patients. Real change. 🌱🇨🇦

#CannabisHistory #MedicalAccess #CommunityMatters #PatientRights
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8Xc08gFD1gc&list=RD8Xc08gFD1gc&start_radio=1

It’s been awhile… but I’m still here.

New roles, a new decade, growing kids, and a whole lot of life in between. Tell me—what are your ittybitty updates lately?

#itsbeenawhile #ittybitty4life #momblog #smalltownlife #nonprofitlife #turning30 #communitymatters #realmomlife #lifeupdates #bloggers #nevadacounty #ittybittyave

http://ittybitty4life.com/2026/01/22/its-been-awhile/?utm_source=mastodon&utm_medium=jetpack_social

🌏 𝐖𝐨𝐫𝐥𝐝 𝐑𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐠𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐃𝐚𝐲 🌏

Today, we celebrate diversity, understanding, and respect for all faiths. At Cashin Mortgages, we value the unique perspectives and communities that make our world richer.

#WorldReligionDay #DiversityAndInclusion #RespectAllFaiths #CashinMortgages #CommunityMatters #CelebrateDiversity

Today we met with our chosen charity for 2026, CAYSH to take the next steps in our partnership 🤝

Hearing firsthand about their impact on supporting young people facing homelessness across South London was powerful

More to come 💙

#CAYSH #YouthHomelessness #CommunityMatters

🚨 We need YOU to be a SAFETY ALLY! 🚨 Want to make your community safer AND have a chance to win an awesome prize this November? Here's how to join: ✅ Like this post ✅ Follow Dover Kent MPO ✅ Share this safety message Once you've done that, drop a "DONE" in the comments below! 🙌 The BEST part? You’ll be helping spread safety awareness and making a real difference in your community. 💛 Let's do this together—become a Safety Ally today! 🚦 #SafetyFirst #CommunityMatters #DoverKentMPO

RE: https://mastodon.social/@CosmicCollective/115831267153236186

Look for the sparkly people(yes, even those of us in black sparkle😉)

#sparkleandshine #sparkle #alternative #community #communitymatters #findyourtribe #goth #alt #witch #witchy #pagan #weirdisgood #weirdisjustasideeffectofbeingawesome

Strategies for Building Relationships That Transform Your Life
https://wp.me/p84YjG-a2p
#HappinessHabits #SocialWellbeing #MeaningfulConnections #FriendshipGoals #CommunityMatters #ConnectionTips #WellbeingStrategies #HealthyRelationships #LifeTransformation #zsoltzsemba

https://zsoltzsemba.com/happiness-blueprint-building-relationships-transform-life/

The Happiness Trilogy: 3 of 3-Part Blog Series

You Need More Good Friends!

A Roadmap To Friendships

Understanding that relationships are the foundation of happiness and health is one thing; actually building and maintaining those connections in our busy, distracted modern lives is another challenge entirely. The Harvard Study of Adult Development doesn’t just tell us that relationships matter; it provides a roadmap for cultivating the kinds of connections that truly transform our lives. Here’s how to put that research into action.

Start Where You Are: Assessing Your Current Connections

Before building new relationships, take an honest inventory of your existing ones. The Harvard research suggests quality matters far more than quantity. Ask yourself: Who can I call at 2 AM if I need help? Who really knows me? Whose company genuinely energizes rather than drains me?

This assessment isn’t about judgment; it’s about clarity. You might discover you have fewer close relationships than you thought, or that some connections have drifted due to neglect rather than incompatibility. You might realize certain relationships are actively harming your well-being. Understanding your current landscape is the first step toward intentional change.

Consider keeping a simple connection journal for two weeks. Note your interactions: who you spend time with, how you feel afterward, and whether conversations go deeper than surface pleasantries. Patterns will emerge that help you understand where to invest your energy and where boundaries might be needed.

Prioritize Depth Over Breadth

Our culture celebrates large social networks and constant social engagement, but the happiness research points in a different direction. Having three close friends you can truly count on predicts better health outcomes than having thirty acquaintances you see occasionally. This is liberating news for introverts and anyone feeling overwhelmed by social obligations.

Focus on deepening a few key relationships rather than maintaining an exhausting roster of casual connections. This might mean saying no to large group events to create space for one-on-one time with people who matter most. It might mean having fewer but longer conversations, moving past “How are you?” to questions that invite vulnerability and authenticity.

Depth develops through consistency and openness. Share something real about your life. Ask questions that show genuine curiosity. Follow up on previous conversations to demonstrate you were listening and care. These small acts accumulate into the kind of secure attachment the research identifies as protective.

The Power of Regular Rituals

The strongest relationships in the Harvard study often featured regular, predictable interactions, weekly dinners, morning walks, and monthly book clubs. These rituals provide structure that makes connection effortless, even when life gets hectic. They remove the friction of constant planning and create reliable touchpoints.

Establish simple rituals with the people who matter most. This could be a weekly phone call with a distant friend, a standing coffee date with a colleague, or a monthly dinner with neighbours. The specific activity matters less than the regularity. What you’re really building is the confidence that this connection won’t disappear even when you’re both busy.

Rituals also create opportunities for deeper conversation. Once you’ve covered surface updates in the first few minutes, recurring meetings naturally move into more meaningful territory. There’s safety in predictability that allows vulnerability to emerge.

Practice Active Repair in Relationships

The Harvard research found that even couples who argued frequently showed positive health benefits if they felt confident they could count on each other when it mattered. This highlights an essential skill: relationship repair. Conflict is inevitable in any close relationship; what matters is how quickly and effectively you repair the ruptures.

Active repair means acknowledging when you’ve hurt someone, apologizing sincerely, and taking responsibility without defensiveness. It means reaching out after a disagreement rather than letting resentment calcify. It means assuming good intentions and addressing issues before they become insurmountable.

Many people avoid conflict or let problems fester because they fear difficult conversations. The research suggests the opposite approach: addressing issues promptly and with compassion actually strengthens relationships. It demonstrates that the relationship matters enough to fight for, and builds trust in your ability to weather storms together.

Invest in Face-to-Face Connection

While technology enables us to stay in touch across distances, the Harvard study participants built their closest bonds through in-person interaction. There’s something about physical presence, reading body language, sharing space, engaging all our senses, that deepens connection in ways that screens can’t fully replicate.

This doesn’t mean abandoning digital communication, but rather being intentional about its role. Use technology to maintain connection between in-person meetings, but prioritize face-to-face time when possible. A video call is better than nothing, but a walk together or a shared meal creates bonds that texts and emails cannot.

If distance makes regular in-person connections impossible, maximize the visits you do have. Plan longer, less frequent trips rather than rushing through quick visits. Create space for unstructured time together rather than packing every moment with activities.

Cultivate Community Beyond Close Friends

While intimate relationships are crucial, the research also highlights the importance of broader community involvement. Belonging to groups, whether religious congregations, volunteer organizations, hobby clubs, or neighbourhood associations, provides multiple layers of support and meaning.

Community involvement offers something different from close friendships: a sense of purpose beyond yourself, exposure to diverse perspectives, and the satisfaction of contributing to something larger. These connections might not be as intimate as your closest relationships, but they provide resilience through variety and prevent over-dependence on just one or two people.

Start with your interests. Join a running club, a book group, or a community garden. Volunteer for a cause you care about. Take a class. Show up consistently at the same places and allow relationships to develop organically. Community isn’t built overnight, but regular presence in shared spaces creates familiarity that often blossoms into friendship.

Be Present and Curious

Perhaps the simplest and most powerful strategy: when you’re with someone, really be with them. Put away your phone. Listen with genuine curiosity rather than planning your response. Ask follow-up questions. Notice details about their lives and remember them for next time.

Presence is increasingly rare in our distracted world, which makes it all the more valuable. When you give someone your full attention, you communicate that they matter, that their words and experiences are worth your focus. This creates safety and trust that allows relationships to deepen naturally.

Curiosity keeps relationships fresh even after years. There’s always more to learn about someone if you’re genuinely interested. Ask about their childhood, their dreams, and their opinions on topics you’ve never discussed. Treat even long-term relationships with the exploratory spirit of a new friendship.

Your Future Self Will Thank You

Building relationships that transform your life doesn’t require dramatic gestures or extensive free time. It requires intention, consistency, and the willingness to show up authentically. Start small: reach out to one person this week. Schedule one meaningful conversation. Join one community group. The Harvard research is detailed; these aren’t just nice-to-haves but essential investments in your health, happiness, and longevity. Your future self will thank you for every moment you spend building the connections that make life worth living.

#CommunityMatters #ConnectionTips #FriendshipGoals #HappinessHabits #HealthyRelationships #LifeTransformation #MeaningfulConnections #SocialWellbeing #WellbeingStrategies #ZsoltZsemba

The Happiness Trilogy: 1 of 3-Part Blog Series

Are You Happy?

Fascinating, if You Ask Me!

For nearly eight decades, Harvard researchers have been tracking the lives of hundreds of individuals in what has become one of the most comprehensive studies on human happiness ever conducted. The Harvard Study of Adult Development didn’t just follow people through good times and bad; it revealed fundamental truths about what makes life worth living. What they discovered challenges everything we think we know about success, health, and happiness.

The Surprising Power of Relationships

When Harvard scientists began analyzing decades of health data, medical records, and personal interviews, they expected to find that genetics, wealth, or career success would be the key predictors of a long and happy life. Instead, they discovered something far more profound: the quality of our relationships matters more than anything else.

People who were most satisfied in their relationships at age 50 were the healthiest at age 80. This wasn’t just about feeling good emotionally—close relationships actually protected physical health better than cholesterol levels, blood pressure, or family medical history. The strength of your social bonds literally predicts how long you’ll live and how well you’ll age.

Director Robert Waldinger, a psychiatrist at Massachusetts General Hospital, puts it simply: relationships are a form of self-care. While we invest time and money into gym memberships, organic food, and health supplements, we often neglect the single most important factor in our wellbeing—the people around us.

Loneliness: The Silent Killer

The research revealed a darker side, too. Loneliness isn’t just an emotional burden; it’s a serious health risk. The study found that social isolation has health consequences as severe as smoking or alcoholism. People who felt lonely experienced faster physical and mental decline, regardless of how well they took care of their bodies in other ways.

This finding takes on new significance in our modern world, where technology promises connection but often delivers isolation. We can have hundreds of online friends yet feel profoundly alone. The Harvard study reminds us that it’s not the number of connections that matters, but their quality and depth.

Beyond Genetics: What Really Determines Healthy Aging

The study identified six key factors that predicted healthy aging, and genetics wasn’t at the top of the list. Physical activity, absence of smoking and alcohol abuse, mature coping mechanisms for stress, maintaining a healthy weight, and having a stable marriage all proved more important than having long-lived ancestors.

For the inner-city participants in the study, education emerged as an additional protective factor. Higher education correlated with better health choices throughout life, including avoiding smoking, eating well, and using alcohol moderately.

Perhaps most encouraging, the research showed that our life trajectories aren’t fixed in our twenties. People who struggled early in life could become thriving octogenarians, while those who seemed destined for success could derail through alcoholism or depression. Change is always possible.

The Brain-Body Connection

One of the most fascinating discoveries was how relationships protect cognitive function. People in happy marriages maintained better memory and mental sharpness as they aged. Even couples who bickered frequently showed this protective effect, as long as they felt they could count on each other when it mattered most.

This brain-body connection works both ways. Marital dissatisfaction didn’t just affect mood; it actually increased physical pain in older adults. Those in unhappy relationships reported more emotional distress and greater physical discomfort on the same days, showing how deeply intertwined our social and physical health really are.

Conclusion

The Harvard Study of Adult Development offers a clear prescription for a good life, and it’s simpler than we might think. Invest in relationships. Show up for the people who matter. Build communities that support you through hard times. Take care of your body, but remember that tending to your connections is just as vital.

In a world obsessed with productivity, achievement, and individual success, this research delivers a counter-cultural message: happiness isn’t something we achieve alone. It’s something we build together, one relationship at a time.

https://www.weforum.org/videos/harvard-conducted-an-85-year-study-on-happiness-here-s-what-it-found

#Mentalhealth #CommunityMatters #ConnectionTips #EmotionalWellness #FriendshipGoals #HappinessHabits #HappinessJourney #HarvardStudy #HealthyAging #HealthyConnections #HealthyLiving #HealthyRelationships #HeartHealth #ImmuneHealth #LifeSatisfaction #LifeTransformation #Longevity #LongevitySecrets #MeaningfulConnections #PhysicalWellbeing #RelationshipsMatter #SocialSupport #SocialWellbeing #StressManagement #ZsoltZsemba

SLBS Awards Gala & Hogapalooza

Help us spread some holiday cheer! 🎁

Bring a new toy to the SLBS Awards Gala & Hogapalooza to support the JB Patriot Pantry and Foster Kids of Jefferson County. A QR code will also be available for anyone who’d like to make a monetary donation. Thank you for making a difference!

#SLBS #Hogapalooza #CommunityMatters #BBQFamily #GiveJoy #ToyDrive2025 #SupportLocalKids #JeffersonCountyMO #JBPATRIOT
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SLBS Awards Gala & Hogapalooza

Help us spread some holiday cheer! 🎁

#SLBS #Hogapalooza #CommunityMatters #BBQFamily #GiveJoy #ToyDrive2025 #SupportLocalKids #JeffersonCountyMO #JBPATRIOT
https://www.facebook.com/reel/1263937518892352/

Behind every incubator is a mother showing quiet courage and resilience 💪.
Mother of one Tanya Eglinton’s NICU journey highlights how small gestures and support can transform a challenging experience ❤️.
This Prematurity Awareness Month, let’s stand with parents navigating the NICU journey 🌻.

#CommunityMatters

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