If your'e a cis person who REAAAAAAAly dislikes being asked what your pronouns are, that might, just maybe, be a tiny clue that you're not quite as cis as you think you are?

Not always, of course! But something worth examining.

It's one of the reasons I think it's a terrible idea to ask people their pronouns in a public setting like work meetings. If a person is not sure about their gender identity, or trans or nonbinary, but not out in present company you're forcing them to choose between outing themselves, or misgendering themselves.

And as always YOU -- YES THIS MEANS YOU! -- ARE THE ONLY PERSON WHO GETS TO SAY WHO YOU ARE end of story.

#trans #TransLivesMatter #nonbinary #ActuallyAutistic #OKImProcrastinating #ShouldBeWriting