Fun fact: if you're enby, you don't have to do the hunger games

We don't have the spoons for a detailed post. We've written other posts recently giving updates on some of our struggles, but we needed to get the thoughts out of our head before sleep tonight 🥺😔

We're realistically facing a situation very soon where we'll officially be told that we're not going to get any gender-affirming surgeries from NHS England whatsoever, making the last nearly 5 years of trying to progress through this dehumanising, anxiety-inducing, decorating, belittling, gatekeeping, outdated process completely worthless :Sighing_Face:

We already had to accept we could never get FFS.

We tried twice to convince them to give us VFS, but they said no, and gave us no actual further voice training help.

We knew that trying to get PPT vaginoplasty would be a longshot, but we never expected:

• to have PPT basically badmouthed during a consultation;
• to hear basic PIV or scrotal flap techniques described as the "gold standard" (!!!) for genital reconfiguration surgery (GRS);
• to be told that the only surgeon who'd see us is one we'd never, ever trust or want anywhere near us, especially after having specifically requested another surgeon (the only one we'd trust in the UK for GRS); and
• that we'd need to go back begging to our gender clinic -- which no longer responds to our emails at all -- to try to convince them to submit a funding request for a basic standalone bilateral orchidectomy and scrotectomy... which would have been required anyway as part of PIV or vulvoplasty!!!

We've reached the point where we don't think we can get any joy from seeing other trans+ folks' joy and euphoria from making progress in their own transitions, particularly surgeries, as we can't help but feel so painfully sad crushingly jealous and upset that we cannot get even the most basic care after waiting even longer 😔

And nope: we've zero chance of being able to ever even fund the cheapest of surgeries privately.

Apologies for the sad dump. We needed to write it all out to have any chance at getting to sleep soon :BlobCatSad:

#EOEGS #NHS #NHSEngland #FuckTheNHS #FuckEngland #FuckTheUK #GenderAffirmingSurgery #GenderAffirmingHealthcare #gatekeeping #trans #transgender #NonBinary #TransFem #GRS #GenderDysphoria #transition #PPT #PIV #FFS #VFS #orchidectomy #FML

Rescuing Tiffany Savage, the scientist spy! Why doesn't *she* get her own game?
More Deus Ex at:

https://twitch.tv/lanatheraven

#Trans #NonBinary #VTuber #Streamer #Twitch #VideoGames #DeusEx

#Nonbinary people exist. #Bisexual and pansexuals exist. Nobody's *mere existence* should ever be up for debate. #GlitchArt saved today in 2021

🌻 Schönen Donnerstag, Community! 🌻

🗓 Donnerstag, der 29. Januar 2026 - ein neuer Tag!

📊 Community-Check:
👥 261 Menschen
💬 45914 Tröts
📈 175.92 Tröts/Person

✨ Deine Existenz ist Widerstand. Jeden Tag, an dem du authentisch lebst, bist du mutig.

🌍 Du suchst eine queere Mastodon-Heimat? https://lsbt.me ist ein aktiver, liebevoller Safe Space mit echtem Community-Gefühl. Wir freuen uns auf dich! 🤗

☁ Wetter-Update: -1 bis 2°C, Bedeckt. Wintervibes! 🧊
📍 Berlin -1°C • Hamburg -0°C • Köln 1°C

💭 Gedanke des Tages:
"Je jünger ein Land, um so mehr bemüht es sich darum, eine Geschichte
zu haben.
-- Friedrich Sieburg"

Auf einen großartigen Donnerstag! 🎉

#GutenMorgen #Trans #NonBinary #Pride #YouAreLoved #WeGotYou

Sorry, guys. Diamo's gonna have to go solo tonight.

https://chaturbate.com/b/queenofwhiteice #streaming #cammodel #gaming #nonbinarynsfw #nsfw #nonbinary #shooter #jiggle #boobs

Agender #nonbinary be like...

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Me

Art by deceased_bunny created for gutter-bunny

#furry #art #nonbinary #enby #trans

Posting a hashtag dump so I can find and connect with similar folks!

#lgbtq #nonbinary #neurodivergent #leftist #disabled #disabilityrights #blacklivesmatter #freepalestine #TransRights #antifascism #anticapitalism #sustainability #solarpunk #permaculture #herbalism #anime #scifi #poetry #watercolor #nature #weightlifting #datascience #geography #travel #languagelearning #dataprivacy #disasterpreparedness #selfdefense #minimalism #mariekondo #cats #witchcraft #paganism #geneology #weaving #mmo

Teapot

https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/37665266

Having to change one's plans for life is normal. For nonbinary people without anything resembling a "road map" in life, course corrections are a given.

But that's okay. Such changes leave room for creativity and discovery, which is part of what living is about.

#NonBinaryPositivity #NonBinaryPride #NonBinary

A Chinese character for non-binary gender is being added to Unicode, ≈ X也 - CNN

https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/37651912

It took some doing, but we finally get to meet Morgan Everett!
More Deus Ex at:

https://twitch.tv/lanatheraven

#Trans #NonBinary #VTuber #Streamer #Twitch #VideoGames #DeusEx

I'm #GenderFluid and #NonBinary, but the fluidity tends to win out for me.

I hate #winter. #Nature is fucking #cold, and you can’t even go #outside to #relax.

If it’s not obvious, my favorite thing to do is spend time in nature.

:flag_genderfluid: :nonbinary_flag:

oh it's me, alright.

#enby #nonBinary

The session with the therapist yesterday lingers in my mind. They used terms such as "social transition" and "hyperfocus" without my prompt. It felt so good: now this is a person that talks my language. I'm comfortable sharing intimate things with them.

#NonBinary #psychotherapy

All clothing is unisex if you stop being a little bitch about it. #nonbinary

So make sure to join me next time, as we continue to explore LGBT identity, by the numbers.

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#LGBT #Nonbinary #Queer #Trans #Transgender #Genderfluid #Agender

Woman and Man, have appeared in the Gender Census, in one form or another, nine times.

Girl and Boy have appeared in the Gender Census, on their own, three times.

Woman’s average is 12.7%.
Boy’s average is 11.7%.
Man’s average is 10.5%.
Girl’s average is 10%.

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#Woman #Boy #Man #Girl #Nonbinary #Gender