I will also add that #ShadowBanning someone sucks - without qualification - it sucks for everyone.
If #Moderators are going to be bullied by #OtherInstances and their #Users on the flimsiest of pretexts regarding "perception" of "spammy content" then I'd invite you to consider your own "content"...
I too have family and a life and do not appreciate being #ShadowBanned; less do I appreciate having to spend over 6-hours trying to figure-out and resolve your mistake.
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