Look, I don't want to tell other people how to do the fediverse, but here's a tip some of you may find useful: you really don't need to boost every single post in a long thread. If you do, then anyone who doesn't care about the thread is going to be really annoyed, and they may decide to hide all your boosts or unfollow you completely. Be considerate.
Similarly, if you're posting a long thread it's good #fediquette to make posts after the first "quiet" visibility.
#feditips
#fediquette
I hope this thread helps members understand community needs and costs, and helps people stay mindful and intentional on instances
Many admins and mods run at little to no profit — we’re just people with all sorts of life events and struggles, managing instances with little to no help from Mastadon
It’s not just your report or feedback — it’s hundreds to thousands each week or day
We’re happy to have you! Please keep in mind community needs while you’re here
10/ 🧵 #FediGuide #Fediquette
If you don’t want rules, moderation, defederation (protecting everyone and the instance itself) and don’t realize you’re joining communities that run higher costs because of your presence
Mastadon (or other decentralized platforms like Discord that function similarly) may not be right for you
Even if you donate to instances, you may cost instances more
One bad actor heavily attacking Disabled.Social cost a community fundraiser event — we can’t do it all
9/ 🧵 #FediGuide #Fediquette
Members used to heavily posting on centralized social media platforms may not realize doing so on their Mastadon instances costs admins and mods more money, time and energy via increased demands on storage, bandwidth, and server processing power
That doesn’t mean we don’t want you to be here or post! It just means your admins and mods appreciate intentional posting (focused on community needs or news, not just ourselves) and donations that help the community exist
This is why it’s a smart business and safety decision to limit or suspend members violating rules and requests from admins/mods on different instances, who try to create instance wars and safety problems:
pitting communities against each other
migrating to new instances to post about ex instances
wanting instances to not use critical moderating tools like rules, strikes systems, admins/mods communicating issues across different instances, suspensions, defederating
7/ 🧵 #FediGuide #Fediquette
The above activities can lead to instances:
shutting down due to legal issues (why defederating from instances is vital, given different international laws)
running out of money to run the instance (especially if donating members quit due to safety issues)
admin/mod burnout and difficulty recruiting volunteers (most instances aren’t big enough to generate profit to financially pay off as a job; those that are, only some are paid, others volunteer)
Admins and mods (not Mastadon) make and uphold instance rules and moderation to reduce conflict and maintain safety
This is financially (not just legally) smart
When a member violates rules, that member may generate more engagement responses and resultingly more moderation reports — increasing financial and labor burdens of admins and mods (with less money, time, ability to focus on other tasks)
Intentional community is awareness of costs we bring to communities
5/ 🧵 #FediGuide #Fediquette
If the ratio of members to admins/mods exceeds a certain threshold (and especially if members post a lot and/or generate a lot of moderation reports) it can take more money, time and labor to maintain and moderate an instance than you may imagine
This is especially the case for members violating rules and not being intentionally mindful of the community costs of their presence and violations
What does this look like in action? Great question, thank you for asking
4/ 🧵 #FediGuide #Fediquette
Mastadon being decentalized means instance admins and moderators bear financial and labor burden of hosting, maintaining, moderation (not Mastadon)
Like you pay for growing phone storage space, admins/mods of instances cover cost increases with each new member’s presence (like Discord)
The cost burden is not fixed, and can be a lot for big and small communities depending on member size, community engagement, if instance owners can afford costs (even if you donate)
#1/ 🧵 #FediGuide #Fediquette
No one on any social media platform has a right to an account
It costs every social media platform to host a user and their content
But with centralized social media, the platform eats costs (with ads, selling your data to third parties, etc)
With decentralized social media like Mastadon, your community on your instance may donate to maintain the instance (thanks to those who do!) — if donations are short of costs, admins/mods pay
2/ 🧵 #FediGuide #Fediquette
This is why it’s vital that instances (especially big ones or even small ones with very active members who post a lot) have solid admins and mods willing to upkeep maintenance:
instance upgrades, financial updates and reports, moderation tools, increasingly more difficult new member analysis in the age of AI and increasing scams/bad actors (and bad actors attacking marginalized communities, which alone is a huge burden for smaller instances), and more
3/ 🧵 #FediGuide #Fediquette
Aus gegebenem Anlass, habe ich meine Domain-Registrierung angeschmissen und mal die folgenden Domains registriert
fediquette.de und .org
fedikette.de
und
fedirules.de
Was da wohl rauf soll...
Ich dachte an etwas wie foren-regeln.de (sollten zumindest mal da drauf 😇 ) für das Fediverse
#NeedHelp !!!
John Mastodon was overheard saying:
It's good Fediquette to put hashtags at the end of posts.
Makes it easier for both humans and screen readers to parse your text.
#Fediverse #JohnMastodon #Fediquette
This is your periodic reminder that if something makes your boosting finger itch because it confirms your priors, you should take 30 seconds to check if it's real before tapping that button.
There's disinfo on both sides of the political spectrum, folks. And if you're on the antifa side, you need to do your pay to defend facts and reality against the fascist onslaught of lies and flooding the zone with shit.
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#feditips #fediquette
Boosting other people's toots is important because it's an excellent way to make them aware of typos without actually telling them.
(Multiple choice allowed.) In heated online discussions, I am
I don't know if this is how things work for other Fediverse apps, but on Mastodon, if you reply to someone's post and remove their tag in your reply they won't be notified about the reply so there's a good chance they won't see it.
Therefore, if you're trying to have a conversation with somebody, leave the tag in.
If you're dunking on them and trying to hide your reply so others will see it and they won't, that's shitty; don't do that.
#FediTips #MastodonTips #Mastodon #Fediquette
==== PSA: PLEASE USE CWs ON POSTS RE: CHARLIE KIRK ====
Sometimes it's important to omit the use of CWs when speaking about important social and culture issues or spreading critical information
This is not that time.
Please use CWs generously. There are many, many things about this situation that are triggering or traumatizing to people. This is what CWs are made for
#fediverse #mastodon #ettiquette #fediquette #cw #contentwarnings
Replying in a language different from the post being replied to (for example, replying in German to an English-language post) is _______ .
Boosts appreciated.
Liebe Fedis,
ein Post, in dem fast jedes Substantiv mit # beginnt ist lästig und schwer zu lesen.
Ich komme meist nicht über die erste Zeile raus, oft fange ich inzwischen nicht einmal an zu lesen, wenn das Schriftbild verwaschen aussieht (starke Konditionierung bereits). Und dann ist stummschalten und blockieren auch nicht mehr weit.
Bin ich der einzige?🤔 Unwahrscheinlich.
Wenn du also gelesen werden willst, schreib die #-es lieber unten drunter.
Gerne weitersagen.
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