Almost exactly two years ago, at #37c3, I stumbled upon someone with a different definition of "CNC" than mine. We then spent the entire day talking to people in the #kinkygeeks area and found out that indeed people disagree pretty strongly on what the word actually means.
This has been brewing in my ever since, and after talking to lots of people I've decided to replace my usage of the term CNC with "pseudo non-consent (PNC)" and "meta-consent", depending on the intended meaning

