@holyramenempire

I need to reflect on this more, but I am not optimistic that such a resource exists.

Some background on why I say that. I am relatively old, and I started researching trans stuff in the 1970’s the golden era for gatekeepers.

At the time, it would hurt your chances for care if you weren’t het. Also at the time was the expectation that you’d cross over, fade into cis-land and be on your own (not “isolated”, a bit of nuance) in obscurity.

So from a historical perspective, the “being not queer enough” was baked into the original plan from those times.

I realize that I am old and things change. So I don’t know what the current transhet experience is.

If a gathering of resources doesn't exist, then it’s time to start a hashtag #TransHet to start gathering them.

I am not sure what the resources will look like, but maybe you or that guy could DM me to discuss.

Ok trans fediverse! I need your help!

I'm a straight trans woman, and my timeline is largely sapphic! It's time to even the balance a bit!

So if you've got any queer/trans content that my straight but queer ass might enjoy, please spam me with it! Memes, people/hashtags to follow, stories, I don't care what it is, I'll take it all :)

#trans #sexuality #queer #transhet

In my never-ending quest for content I can listen to while I do household chores, I'm looking for #recommendations for #transfeminine #YouTubers who ARE NOT monosexual lesbians, #bi / #pan or #transhet ONLY please. I have PLENTY of content from transbians already.

#youtube #transwomen #transwoman #nonbinary #bisexual #pansexual #trans #transgender #transsexual #queer

I'm thinking about calling this "compulsory transheteropessimism". 4/3

#bi #bisexual #biromantic #transhet #trans #transgender #transsexual #transfeminine #transwomen #transwoman #transgirls #transgirl #biphobia #transmisogyny #heteropessimism #victimblaming #stigma #passiveaggressive #passiveaggression

Any #attraction I feel to a cis man is characterized as a transgression I've committed against my "community" for which I should apologize and do penance by performing #heteropessimism and self-loathing and enduring passive-aggression, mockery, and victim-blaming. 3/3

#bi #bisexual #biromantic #biphobia #transhet #transgender #transsexual #transfeminine #transwomen #transwoman #transgirls #transgirl #transmisogyny #stigma #victimblaming #passiveaggressive #passiveaggression

Any #attraction a cis man feels to me, a trans woman, is framed as a character flaw and a red flag. That attraction is #pathologized and #stigmatized even by my own "#allies" and "fellow" #queer and #trans people. 2/3

#bi #bisexual #biromantic #biphobia #transhet #transgender #transsexual #transfeminine #transwomen #transwoman #transgirls #transgirl #transmisogyny #stigma #stigmatizing #stigmatized #stigmatization #pathologize #pathologization #pathologizing

I genuinely don't know which I find more frustrating, the way I'm treated as a #trans woman for being #attracted to any cis man, or the way any cis man is treated for being attracted to me. 1/3

#bi #bisexual #biromantic #biphobia #transhet #transgender #transsexual #transfeminine #transwomen #transwoman #transgirls #transgirl #transmisogyny #stigma #stigmatize #stigmatized #stigmatizing #stigmatization #pathologized #pathologize #pathologization #pathologizing

"#Grindr is terrible!"

Yeah but it's the only app that's ever gotten me laid.

It's the only app where the people who hit on me are mostly men instead of bi-curious cishet women.

So it's the only app where I can tell myself that maybe people see me as a woman.

#onlinedating #dating #hookups #hookingup #dysphoria #genderdysphoria #transhet #bi #biromantic #bisexual

I FEEL THIS IN MY BONES ALL THE WAY DOWN TO THE MARROW

https://www.tiktok.com/@kateisdeflate/video/7162591023187889454

#transhet #bi #biromantic #bisexual #trans #transgender #transsexual #transfeminine #transfem #transfems #transwomen #transwoman #transgirls #transgirl #socialmedia #tiktok

OK so be real with me is eightpoint yet another online transfeminine enclave where everyone's a total lesbian except for me? Am I once again the only boy-crazy bisexual in residence with an insatiable appetite for both 🍆​ and 🥒​? Do I need to add a content warning for "het" when I post guy-on-girl? Let me know if I'm not alone.

#bi #bisexual #biromantic #transhet #trans #transgender #transsexual #transfeminine #transwoman #transwomen #queer