parents: you're not autistic/ADHD, we would have noticed
really? you seriously missed the:
* not answering teachers when my name is called
* annoying stimming behaviors
* increasing anti-social behavior
* my strange hatred of warning labels and clocks
* my obsessive interest in things like weather, Harry Potter, watching movies over and over again
* anxiety that got exponentially worse in the private Christian school
* how much I hated going to school
* my constant dissociative stare at nothing
* how i hated doing things that weren't fun
* my poor social skills
* how I hate going to places I'm not familiar with
* how much I hate loud noises like vacuums and lawn-mowers
* how many of my least favorite foods were a texture issue
* how I cannot keep a job because customer service makes me want to literally die
seriously?
you missed all that?
or is the more likely case that you preferred to ignore it and say I was just a brat?