Okay love… let’s go there for a second.

What are you pretending not to want?

Not what’s realistic.
Not what’s socially acceptable.
Not what’s easy to explain at social gatherings, to your friends or family.

But what you actually want.

The life that would make your whole body exhale in a great big sigh of relief.

The thing you secretly crave but haven’t let yourself say out loud.

The dream you keep brushing off because… “what if it doesn’t work out?”

Yeah. That one.

Here’s the thing:

Not naming it doesn’t make it go away.

It just makes it louder - in the background.

In your restlessness.
In your resentment.
In that sense of almost, but not quite.

So here’s your permission slip:

✨ You don’t have to chase it.
✨ You don’t have to explain it.
✨ You don’t have to justify it with strategy or logic.

But you can name it.

You can want it.

And you deserve to have space to hold it, even before it becomes real.

We practise that kind of honesty inside Worthy & Rising - my free rebel community.

If you’re ready to honour you truth, come join us.

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Upcoming events:

🌕 July 10 @ 11:30 CEST – Full Moon in Capricorn Reflection

🌘 July 18 @ 19:00 CEST – Conversations, Reflections & Book Club

🌑 July 24 @ 11:30 CEST – The Art of Receiving New Moon Workshop

🌔 August 2 @ 11:00 CEST – Saturday Morning Meditation


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For a long time, I didn't really truly know what shadow work meant.

I even thought it meant digging into wounds with a flashlight and a pickaxe.

But I’ve learned it’s more like lighting a candle and whispering,

“Okay love… I see you now.”

Your shadow isn’t a villain - it’s not here to shame you.

It’s the version of you that learned to hide, so you could survive.

It’s the spark you were told was too much.

The truth you softened to keep the peace.

The desire you swallowed to stay liked.

The wildness you caged to seem “healed.”

But it’s all still there.

You just haven’t felt safe enough to fully see it yet.

So here’s a gentle reminder:

You can just witness yourself with tenderness.
And let that be enough.

🖤

Inside Worthy & Rising, we hold space for this.

Come join us. Bring your whole self - even the parts you still feel unsure about.

You will be held.

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Upcoming online live zoom events:

🌕 July 10 @ 11:30 CEST – Full Moon in Capricorn Reflection

🌘 July 18 @ 19:00 CEST – Conversations, Reflections & Book Club

🌑 July 24 @ 11:30 CEST – The Art of Receiving New Moon Workshop

🌔 August 2 @ 11:00 CEST – Saturday Morning Meditation


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Radical self honesty means creating space for truth, and sometimes calling yourself out on your own bullshit (let me just dismantle this immediately, and say that most of the shit we carry isn't even ours... so rest assured).

Although it doesn’t mean dragging yourself through the mud, or spiralling into shame just because you’ve outgrown something.

It's spaceholding without urgency or blame.

It means asking things like:

✨ “Is this actually working for me?”
✨ “Whose voice is this ‘should’ I keep repeating?”
✨ “What do I secretly want, but haven’t let myself name yet?”

Being honest with yourself is about reconnecting with yourself. the version of you, you're craving to express.

And inside Worthy & Rising, we practise that together -
with compassion, curiosity, and just enough magic to make the discomfort feel like a doorway.

Come join us. There’s room for all of you here.

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Upcoming live online zoom events:

🌕 July 10 @ 11:30 CEST – Full Moon in Capricorn Reflection

🌘 July 18 @ 19:00 CEST – Conversations, Reflections & Book Club

🌑 July 24 @ 11:30 CEST – The Art of Receiving New Moon Workshop

🌔 August 2 @ 11:00 CEST – Saturday Morning Meditation

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There are things we never say out loud, because we’ve never had the space or the sense of safety.
Or even the language.

But silence doesn’t equal disappearance, because the body remembers stuff.

In the way we are tense. In fatigue. In those tiny moments when we make ourselves small.

Radical self honesty is about creating space for something sacred to come forward. I might sound "brutal" to be radically self honest, but really it isn't. It's gentle and curious space-holding for the whispers.
The breaths, you almost daren't breathe.
The quiet yes, or long-overdue no.

You don’t have to scream your truth.
You don’t even have to share it with the internet.
But maybe, just let it have room to exist.

Even if it’s just between you and your notebook.

...Although, you don't have to go through this alone.

We’re moving through this together inside my free community, Worthy & Rising.

You’re invited - just as you are.

✨ Join via the link in my profile

Upcoming live zoom events are:
🌕 July 10 @ 11:30 CEST – Full Moon in Capricorn Reflection
🌘 July 18 @ 19:00 CEST – Conversations, Reflections & Book Club
🌑 July 24 @ 11:30 CEST – The Art of Receiving New Moon Workshop
🌔 August 2 @ 11:00 CEST – Saturday Morning Meditation

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