I don't like the term sex repulsed. I'm not repulsed. I can hang out at an orgy and just do a little "parallel play." As they are all fucking and I read a book and occasionally chat with naked ppl around the snack table. I've never felt so ok being around sexual activities and being included without needing to do anything I don't want. It's so nice to have a polite chat about somebody's fetish & their arts and crafts but not have that taken for a reason I am totally a freak and I'm so into that.
The allosexuals who get cold feet arguing in the couple rooms are more repulsed by sex than me. They have so many weird hangups. Many of them resent their eyeballs being exposed to any too ugly fat hairy naked people but will also resent their partner is exposed to anyone too pretty.
It honestly seems a very *allosexual* thing to assume *repulsion* is the reason I wouldn't ever fuck anyone. I get that some aces will feel that way, that's valid and everything. but sex indifferent doesn't really seem to sufficiently stress that I'm not gonna fuck you.
then again, what does? does anything, ever get people to stop trying to fuck me?
they're concerned I'm insecure about my body. but I'm so not. I'm so tired. I know people like my body and my face. I know this and maybe the hopes I will sit thru their favorite show are the only criteria. They will NOT stop telling me I'm hot, pretty, sexy, etc unless I tell them to quit multiple times and get irritable about it.
I can tell many people who bother me with their attractions are just completely starved for attention so like, why would their desires be validating?? Just shut up. If you are really that lonely, shut the fuck up about how hot I am. I might talk to you and be a friend to you if I don't think you're still trying to flirt.
#aroace