Today I got to meet Slow Loris partner K for the first time 💝
They are together at a dance weekend that is only 1,5 hour of train from me and had some downtime today. Me and K have been curious about each other sometime but living 3 hours apart has made it hard to meet until today.
We had a lovely time 💖 We mostly hung out at a café, talking and laughing with Slow Lori in the middle 😊
Looking forward to seeing each other again whenever that happens 🥰
#PolyamorousEveryDay
#Metamours
#Polyamory

The other day I realized that it is soon Slow Loris birthday. 🥳
And as recently I checked through new things from my favorite ecological clothing shop I came across some underwear I liked to see her in (because colors). But that raised some questions, like what size does she wear? 🤔
So today I have been chatting with my metamour D to see if they had more insight in what size, material and more Slow Lori like.
Turns out we have the same perception of what Slow Lori could like, so I got D's blessing. 😊 Apparently, worst case scenario, (not liking it) Slow Lori is likely to give the underwear to D. 🙃
So I am going ahead with the plan 💝
#PolyamorousEveryDay
#Polyamory
#Metamours
#BirthdayGift
#Underwear
#EcologicalClothes

Metamours can be stressful, and that's okay.
 
You are not obliged to have a relationship with your #metamours if you find it difficult. 

Your only obligation, as a team, is to find a way for your #polycule to work in a way that makes everyone happy. 

It's a simple fact of life that we will never get on with everyone, even if they are a perfect match for our partner. There are just some people whose personalities don't gel with ours. 

#polyamory

This morning the partner Slow Lori has her children with came by to pick up the younger one. So we got to talk a bit and hug twice while waiting for the child to be ready.
I enjoy getting glimses of how Slow Lori is with her other partners and as a co-parent 💖
I share my love for dogs with this partner while apparently Slow Loris long distance partner and I share an interest in birds 🐦🦢

This evening I arrived back home to Lion and our doggo.
#PolyamorousEveryDay
#Polyamory
#Metamours
#Coparenting

I truly love everyday stories about the random connections within a constellation. This story from Slow Lori really made my day brighter:
Slow Lori has spent three days with her long distance partner K. Among the things they have done together is updating the electrical parts of two lamps. One lamp K got a few years back from Slow Loris partner D. And in a "weak moment" Slow Lori had promised to fix the electrical parts as the tinkerer she is. And this week that finally happened! 💖
So now K has a working lamp that D gifted her several years ago💡
And I get to hear this story walking from work on my way to a family dinner while Slow Lori is driving home from K 😊
#PolyamorousEveryDay
#Polyamory
#Metamours
#Tinker

Has arrived home from a few lovely days with Slow Lori 🥰
She has how ever caught a cold so I expect to get it too as not kissing was not an option 😜

A fun thing about my train home is that one of Slow Loris other partners and their son was on the same train. They where going to my city to visit some family 🚂 We did not see each other as we where in different ends of the train.
I have actually been interacting a lot with their son during this visit. Sitting in the car listening to them planning the details needed before this trip and brushing our teeth at the same time for example 🙃 So it feels like I am not a scary person for one of the children at least 😊
#PolyamourousEveryDay
#Polyamory
#Metamours
#Traintravel
#Family

On the train to Slow Lori 🚂
There is darkness outside but I will pass the time with work, a phone call to my father and dinner. 🍝
While I am traveling Slow Lori will go to a birthday celebration for a metamour and then meet me at the train station.🎉
It will be a short evening as I have an early meeting tomorrow but looking forward to being back in her bed 😉
#Polyamory
#Metamours
#PolyamorousEveryDay
#TrainTravel

"Basically, a #polycule is the intra-relationship network in which #polyamorous partners relate and function to one another (and to each other’s partners, aka #metamours). Just like molecules, polycules can range in size and complexity. “Some people choose to use ‘network,’ but the core idea is that when people are in more than one meaningful relationship, the whole group is connected the way each atom in a molecule is connected,”

https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sexopedia/a37776699/polycule/

I recommend a book called dealing with difficult metamours by page turner

#polyamory #polyamorous #metamours #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia #lgbtqbooks #polyam

I recently stopped referring to the people with whom I am in relationships as my family. The term has fostered confusion, and I am always striving for clarity in my communication. For that reason, I join the ranks of those using the term #polycule.

In my situation, my partners / #metamours are friends with one another, but they are not in intimate relationships with each other. Because #polyamory still confuses a lot of people, I made a cool little chart to illustrate how my polycule looks.

This is my family, in a photo from #atlantaleatherpride a couple of weeks ago. That's me on the left, my boy @grauwolfe in the middle, and my husband Zak on the right.

We are not a #throuple, we are #polyamorous. In #polyamory terms, I am what is called a hinge, in that I am in relationships with two people who are themselves not in an intimate relationship. They are #metamours, and to my great pleasure, good friends.