How do I overcome social conditioning to confront assholes?
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Yesterday, I went to the coop with my friend. Arriving at the same time as us was an old white person [coded: woman] wearing a Barbie-pink MAGA baseball cap with a small US flag patch on it.
The coop is a hippy/liberal grocery and social space. I was safe, and in a culturally supportive environment. My friend is a disabled martial arts badass, who could protect me if it came to that. That hat, and the smug face under it made me angry. Which probably it was supposed to.
Despite my anger and desire to confront her, I didn't. I felt stifled by a lifetime of "be polite," "don't embarass your friend," etc.
I'm working on some strategies for overcoming this and know there must be other people here who are/have struggled with the same thing.
What's worked for you?
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#Anarchists #Psychology #SocialConditioning