Lessons in Self-Doubt: What My First Feedback as a Writer Taught Me
In this episode of Have a Cup of Johanny, I open up about one of the hardest lessons I learned as a new writer: how self-doubt shaped the way I received my very first feedback.
Like many new writers, I just wanted people to love me and love my project. But instead of pausing and filtering through the feedback, I took it all to heart. I changed everything. And in the process, I lost the story I wanted to tell—and almost lost my voice as a writer altogether.
Here’s what this experience taught me:
✨ Why confidence is key when receiving feedback.
✨ How to pause before reacting so feedback becomes a tool, not a takeover.
✨ Why self-doubt can derail your creative process if you don’t learn how to stand in your truth.
These lessons echo deeply in my debut novel The Ordinary Bruja, where Marisol must also confront the voices of doubt and learn to trust herself.
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