I made this blog post in the summer of 2021, and posted it on my site (which I’m currently working to get my domain back for.) anyway! Here it is. Definitely not the best, but I try to do ‘one shot’ writing, so it’s minimal editing and more flow of consciousness.
It’ll take a few toots, but lemme know what you think!
my mother and I had a conversation weeks ago about if pies were still the ‘all-American dessert.’ I don’t recall what we actually ended up landing on, but the most important takeaway that I had was (and bear with me… it may seem like a hot take) that women more actively joining the workforce had a large part to play in this.
Really, up until the 1970s, women worked in the home more often than they worked outside of it. whether that was tending to children, running family businesses, or taking care of things around the house in general. There were widening opportunities for women who were educated, but even a high school education wasn’t necessarily within reach for a lot of women in the united states’ not-so-distant history.
Of course, after the war, more women joined the workforce, but it wasn’t until the 1970s that young women really expected to spend at least part of their lives working. so they prepared to do so by getting degrees that would jumpstart careers instead of degrees that would solely help with jobs.
Don’t get me wrong… I am absolutely all for the things that have been afforded to me as a woman alive in today’s day and age. I have spent the vast majority of my not-so-long adulthood traveling and experiencing the world while working odd jobs just to fund my travels. To bastardize that Blanche Dubois quote from Tennessee Williams’ A Streetcar Named Desire, I have always relied on the kindness of strangers in my travels and adventures as well. Whether that has been a warm place to sleep for a few months, offering me a job, or informing me of opportunities I could pursue.
I digress.
When women joined the workforce and the idea of a two-income family became a larger reality, suddenly there wasn’t a parent home when the children got back from school. There wasn’t a parent (read: usually a mother) home all day being a homemaker. And with children being in school as opposed to times of yore as well… even if the homemaker was home, there weren’t children home to pass most of these skills onto.
For a long time, schools had shop classes and home ec classes. I’m 28, and my middle school got rid of home ec classes the year before I started. We still had shop classes, but I can say with full conviction that I do not actively remember a single thing I learned in that class aside from ‘watch your fingers.’ My high school had a cooking class… but only one… and no shop class.
I am a firm believer that these classes started falling to the wayside when schools started pushing everyone toward college educations and decided to start ignoring the fact that we need people in the trades as well.
They told you to do your homework so you could get into college and not be a janitor.
but they forgot to tell you that the janitor makes a hell of a lot of money.
I had two beacons of inspiration for writing this post:
1. A conversation with my boyfriend
2. the storms in the midwest last week
My boyfriend, Adam, and I had a conversation two weeks ago about self reliance and self sufficiency. Being that we are millennials that give a shit about global warming and want to do our part in reducing our carbon footprint, we have been trying to figure out what all we can do going forward for the rest of this season as well as next season to cut down costs as much as possible by trying to produce for ourselves as much as we can.
My mom has passed down and continues to pass down old school homemaking traditions, but all of this got me to thinking that i’m not sure that a lot of other people my age had that same luxury. Maybe this is just something that I think because I grew up in a well-to-do suburb of Wisconsin’s largest city… that isn’t something that i’ve ruled out.
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