We learn to love when we learn to listen. It can be easy sometimes to talk about our ideas and problems to others, but we must take the time to listen as well. Even if the problems of others feel insignificant to our own, the way people handle experiences can be wildly different. What might seem easy for you, may be extremely difficult for others.
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Make sure you are drinking plenty of water, get up out of your chair and try to touch your toes, practice counting your numbers when you do. Dedicate at least 10 minutes to cleaning up the space around you.
You do not need to seek validation in the things that make you happy. If the clothes you wear make you happy, then wear them. If the activities you do make you happy, then do them. If anyone tries to strip that happiness away through their disapproval, do not let them.
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Hello little ones. Is there an important thing you need to do that you keep putting off? Maybe its that trip to the dentist or maybe its a trip to the store to get the thing you need to fix that something in the house. Maybe its an important school paper that would be better done now than later. Just like getting a diaper change, your games can wait. You'll feel alot of better knowing you've got it done.
As always, stand up and try to touch your toes and say your numbers.
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Hello little ones. A gentle reminder to clean the crumbs out of your toaster and your air fryer. NEVER stick anything metal in the toaster and make sure your appliances are unplugged before cleaning. If you have a big, have them show you how to do it.
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If you aren't feeling well, try your best to still make sure you drink plenty of water and get plenty of rest, even if you do not feel like you can. If you are feeling depressed, do your best to make positive motions like brushing your teeth or taking a shower. Something as simple as clearing the cans or cups from your desk can be a victory. Treat each small thing as a win. End the day knowing you've accomplished something that pushes you in a better direction.
And as always, Get up out of your chair and reach for your toes, count to 10. Practice a language you don't know. Don't let yourself sit for too long.
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Remember to always wash your hands after going potty. If you change your diaper, also make sure to wash your hands. You can help stop the spread of germs and keep yourself from getting sick. Singing Twinkle Twinkle Little Star while washing your hands will make sure you wash for the appropriate amount of time.
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I refer to myself as a “lifestyle Little”, and that my little/regressed age is 2-3 years old. I thought I’d take a minute and breakdown what those statements mean, specifically TO ME (I can’t speak for all Littles, lifestyle or otherwise).
To me, “Lifestyle Little” means that the most authentic version of myself is my little side. This is where I’m happiest, this is where I feel the most completely unmasked, and this is where I feel the safest. As a result, I’m trying to make this the space where I live the majority of the time, at least to some degree. It means when I can’t fully present as little because of cultural reasons (i.e. when I have to be big bear to go into the office, deal with family/parental units, traveling), I find some ways to not completely separate from being little. For example, part of my work “uniform” for office days includes having one of my pacifiers in my pocket, with the paci leash clipped to the outer edge of the pocket. This way if I need a moment to recenter/touchpoint, I squeeze the nipple of the paci even through my pocket, and it reminds me that I’m ok and I’m safe.
Now what do I mean by my “regressed age is 2-3 years old”?
First, clothing. If I have my preferences, the majority of the clothing that I wear, design wise, would not appear out of place for a toddler. Shortalls are some of my favorites. Bright colors (especially Tie Dyed stuff), prints with things like cars, animals, dinosaurs, Disney characters, patches with logos and such on them. Bottoms with snaps in the crotch for diaper changes are generally good. Preferred PJ’s are sleepers (either footed or unfooted), but 2 piece pjs with similar designs on them are good.
Second, in reality not just fantasy, I am mostly not potty trained. I make it to the potty about 80-90% of the time for messies. For bladder its about the exact opposite. I’m in diapers most of the time. The only real exceptions are showers (obviously), work (occasionally, usually when I’ve got a really big meeting and upper management is involved), the gym, and SOMETIMES for doctor’s appointments. If I’m at the bar, in full big bear regalia/dress, there’s almost certainly a diaper under my kilt. Any time I’m going to be away from the house for more than 4-5 hours, I carry a diaper bag with me (or stuff for a change in the other bag I’m carrying). I CAN go undiapered without too much difficulties, though it does take mental effort & energy to not wet automatically in that scenario. I’m not intending to change this, I’m not interested in even playing at potty training. If anything, the proportion of time I make it to the potty for messies may decrease.
Third, my emotional regulation is not very good, especially when I’m unmasked. I get frustrated and moody easily when things are difficult. At the same time, I can swing from that to happy and silly very quickly. Having someone bap me when I’m struggling, putting my paci in, sending me to the corner for a few minutes for a timeout to recenter helps A LOT.
Fourth, my comfort items are very analogous to that of a toddler’s. My stuffies, particularly Pooh and Kirby, are very important, and I definitely need one or more of them nearby. Paci within arms reach is good, ideally clipped to my clothes. Blankie is good. When I’m nervous and need to be doing something with my hands, I often fiddle with a Fischer Price fidget cube. Its not unheard of that it ends up in my mouth.
Fifth, I like being treated like a toddler in small ways. Having my diaper subtly (or not so subtly) checked by the bigs around me is good. Having one of the bigger kids or bigs with me have me hand their hand while crossing the street. Having my clothes picked out for me. Being given something to do to entertain me. Being teased a bit here and there as long as its not malicious. I DON’T like having my food ordered for me that’s a hard limit.
I don’t normally engage specifically in “Toddler-type activities”. I do enjoy things like coloring, watching cartoons, playing games, playing with toys, stuff like that. But a lot of my activities are normal “Adult” type activities, just done while I’m in little space. I play “adult” video games, like Civ, Battletech, WoW, FFXIV, Zelda, Mario, Metroid, etc. I like playing adult board games too. I read adult-level books, cook on my own, do my own chores (mostly). My cartoons are usually anime, and my movies are stuff like Star Trek, Oppenheimer, Marvel, etc.
A big point that I do want to bring up…just because I’m regressed to the age of a toddler doesn’t mean that my mental capacity/capability is also diminished. My BRAIN is still fully capable, and still contains all of my experience, knowledge base, and training. It might be coming out in in a lisp around my paci, from a bear wearing toddler clothes, but I’m not a “dumb baby”. Don’t treat me like one. Unless someone’s triggered my hypnosis training key words, but that’s a separate case altogether >.> I’d keep that in mind around littles in general actually. You might be surprised at how many times you’ll walk into a cub gathering, and, for example, run into several cubs engaging in a conversation discussing the linguistic and phonetic differences between “hard palette” and “soft palette” languages, and how those differences can create significant challenges for native speakers of one type of language in learning the other type of language.
So that’s one part of me in a nutshell. If you got any questions, feel free to ask, I’m gonna try to be an open book.
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Hello little ones. Are you making sure you are taking care of yourself today? If you have been sitting down for too long, try standing up and touching your toes. Try to get around and move if you can. Too much sitting is bad on your body and will make you feel bad. When stretching you can practice your numbers or your ABC. Try saying numbers or letters in a different language to work your brain. When you don't know the letter or number, it can make you feel very small.
Lets make a world where the pains of our past do not haunt the relationships of our future.
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Hello little ones! 💕 #NurseryHour
If you have any pets. Send me a picture of them! If you don't tell me what pet you would want and what you would name them. Show me your furry friends!
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Hello little ones.
If you are not already in bed and it is passed your bedtime, you need to get in bed immediately. Your games and TV shows can wait. You can play and watch them tomorrow. You need your sleep to grow up big and strong.
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🛑 LITTLE ONE 🛑
Do one thing right now to take care of yourself. You can choose something like:
-Brush your teeth.
-Stretch and touch your toes.
-Wash your face
-Choose to eat a fruit or vegetable instead of chips or other salty snacks.
Every little thing can build to a bigger thing. We must try the best we can.
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Take regular breaks, drink water.
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🧸🧸🧸 GO HUG YOUR PLUSHIE RIGHT NOW. Tell them one bad thing you have been feeling this week. Tell them one good thing you have felt this week. Hug your feelings into them and remind yourself we all have GOOD DAYS and BAD DAYS. But things always get better if we let them.
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The little inside of you is cute if you know kindness.
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You know better than to put that garbage in your body. Lets try eating one of these instead: 🍓🍒🍎🍉🍑🍊🥭🍍🍌🍋🍈🍏🍐🥝🫒🫐🍇🥥🍅🌶️🫚🥕🍠🧅🥦🥒🥬🫛🫑🥑🍆🧄🫘🌰🥜🍳🥚🐟🥗🍚🍵🧃🥛🍼
You can do that can't you?
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