#FragileMasculinity

Kevin Karhan :verified:kkarhan@infosec.space
2025-06-09

Obviously, none of these "#AlphaMale" shit will ever work, because if it did it would, then it would kill their business model.

  • Just like with any "partner search sites" or 3rd party "#Antivirus", they don't profit from solving a problem but from keeping you subscribed.

That's literally the truth.

And it's really #cringe af!

youtube.com/watch?v=eE9gE7E556s

2025-05-23

I do think the correct answer to the issue of disposable straw waste is to just quit using straws. The overwhelming majority of straw users (like me) simply don't need them.

Some people reach that conclusion through the weakest, most fearful, most fragile, and in the end, the _wimpiest_ chain of reasoning imaginable.

irishstar.com/news/us-news/rep

#uspolitics #fragilemasculinity

Headline: Republican congressman says he doesn't drink from a straw as 'it's what women do'

On my daily walk yesterday I saw a shiny new, black, big bubba truck with the word 'BOURGEOIS' adhered over the side windows, with the 'E' in 'blue lives matter' flag colors and design (i.e. the middle line of the 'E' was blue, the rest striped black and white).

Oh, the #ShitSemiotics of #FragileMasculinity in #Murica .

2025-04-11

Great paper. 62 countries. N>33,000.
Across cultures

  • Hostile and benevolent sexism are almost always correlated

  • Hostile and benevolent attitudes toward men also almost always positively correlated

#culture and #patriarchy do their thing, pushing everyone toward rigidly-defined gender roles, partly with Benevolent Sexist ideas like "Women are pure and wholesome" and "Men are caring breadwinners." Neither of those is universally true, and both are only applied in certain situations. In other situations, the hostile sexism comes out, e.g. "Women are dishonest sluts" and "Men are violent abusers."

Culture is a bastard in most cases.

Bosson et al. 2021

(edit: everything in this post is from the intro/literature review)

#psychology #PrecariousManhood #FragileMasculinity #GenderRoles #sexism #misogyny

Joint endorsement of hostile and benevolent gender ideologies is theorized as essential for maintaining the gender hierarchy in which women and men hold unequal power while also depending on one another to meet important goals (Glick & Fiske, 1996, 2001). Indeed, cross- cultural studies indicate that HS and BS are almost universally positively correlated (Glick et al., 2000), as are HM and BM (Glick et al., 2004). Thus, cultures that endorse more hostile ideologies about both women and men also tend to offset these negative views with more flattering, benevolent ideologies about each gender group, with medium-to-large pair-wise correlations between these ideologies (rs=.34-.69; Glick et al., 2004).
2025-04-11

Excellent paper that I missed back in 2021.

Bosson et al. (over 100 authors), #PecariousManhood in 62 nations. N > 33,000. This is some great stuff.

sci-hub.se/https://doi.org/10.

#crossculturalresearch #research #psychology #genderroles #FragileMasculinity

Joint endorsement of hostile and benevolent gender ideologies is theorized as essential for maintaining the gender hierarchy in which women and men hold unequal power while also depending on one another to meet important goals (Glick & Fiske, 1996, 2001). Indeed, cross- cultural studies indicate that HS and BS are almost universally positively correlated (Glick et al., 2000), as are HM and BM (Glick et al., 2004). Thus, cultures that endorse more hostile ideologies about both women and men also tend to offset these negative views with more flattering, benevolent ideologies about each gender group, with medium-to-large pair-wise correlations between these ideologies (rs=.34-.69; Glick et al., 2004).
2025-04-01

A friend recently told me about cycling while female. When she overtakes men it is apparently not uncommon for them to yell something dumb or start pedaling like mad to keep up, or even create dangerous situations in their eagerness to overtake her again. Sounds exhausting.
#cycling #fragilemasculinity

2025-03-07

Q: How long until DOGE tries to change the Enola Gay to the Enola Straight to match up with Republican fear of diversity?

A: About five hours ago.

#doge #fragilemasculinity #dei

2025-03-03

Ich arbeite in einer gemeinnützigen NGO, deren Motto „Nein zu Gewalt. Für ein freies Leben!“ lautet. Na klar haben wir zu jeder Demo gegen rechts oder den Fall der Brandmauer in HH mobilisiert. Merz stellt jetzt zivilgesellschaftlichen Aktivismus in Frage, weil er mitgemeint war

Degrowth or Extinctionecosurrealism@jorts.horse
2025-02-28
Viktor Glukozavr Kurochkinglukozavr@mastodon.gamedev.place
2025-02-26

There is something about it. People are forced into horrible things when they feel they are not enough.

youtu.be/ol4X6oc-tz8?si=vMTgGA

#masculinity #fragilemasculinity #society #broculture #psychology

2025-02-21

#FYI #AdamConover #FragileMasculinity #Zuckerberg #Musk #insecuremen

Sit down. Mandatory watching. ESPECIALLY for Men.
No, you are NOT zapping away, you look till the end!
You learn and then practice.
Thank you.

(Started out as a Zuck and Musk bashing and ended up being a very thoughtful and correct analysis, what went wrong in our society AND how we fix it.)

youtube.com/watch?v=ol4X6oc-tz8

Random #Tesla observation about Musk's "#CyberTruck" a.k.a. the Incel Camino.

I was shocked he didn't call it the "Model XY".

#IncelCamino #XY #ModelX #ModelY #ModelXY #Musk #moron #FragileMasculinity #ToxicMasculinity

2025-02-17

Vance's direct reference to Greta Thunberg in his #msc2025 speech makes once again clear, that the #climatejustice movement and all the efforts undertaken by women over the last years against #patriarchy did hit a nerve and were on point! We are witnessing the lashing out of white supremacists with #fragilemasculinity under pressure that are pouring billions of dollars into recruiting young men for their heartless ideologies. We're up against a huge machinery and just saying the left failed and has no plan as some do lately is wrong and just feeds their narrative.

˜”*°• Papigoe 🏳️‍🌈 🏳️‍⚧️KiltedQueer@mstdn.social
2025-02-06
2025-01-26

"But when I see middle-aged billionaires – Zuckerberg isn’t the only one – exhibiting the signs of fragile masculinity that I’ve observed among young adult men and adolescent boys, I can’t help but wonder what the country’s future holds."

/by #AdamStanaland

channelnewsasia.com/commentary

#Cologne #ClimateJustice #StopPatriarchy #FragileMasculinity #YouthForClimate

Purple🐘Purple666
2025-01-16
2025-01-16

Being a psychologist on the internet can be very frustrating.

1/4: Fragile masculinity (actual theory) vs "Fragile masculinity" (twitter version)

#psychology #poppsychology #pseudoscience #language #terminology #frustration #ackshully #fragilemasculinity #precariousmanhood

image of a stylized heart with a banner wrapped around it reading "I'm not sorry about your fragile masculinity""Is your fragile masculinity too vulnerable for my fabulousness?" --Sophie LabelleA South Park screenshot of a character holding a doll. The image is tagged "Please show me on this puppet where Greta hurt your fragile masculinity"Photo of a man's back. He is muscular, has flowers in his hair, and has "Your masculinity fragile?" written on his shirt.
Purple🐘Purple666
2025-01-14

La fragilité des ces mecs…. « Elon Musk tente de se faire passer pour un pro sur Path of Exile 2, et ça dérape »

numerama.com/pop-culture/18811

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