#LGBTQ_

2025-06-13

Pride 2025

It’s 13th June, which means it’s almost halfway through this year’s Pride Month. I’ve been so busy that I am very late in posting about Pride 2025. I usually post something to mark Pride Month on 1st June (e.g. here). In fact I hadn’t even noticed the Pride Progress Flag flying on Maynooth Campus (between the Arts Block and John Hume Building) until today. I didn’t see anything on Maynooth’s social media about Pride either. I didn’t see the flag yesterday when I left the Science Building and assumed it wasn’t there. It was however raining heavily so my view may have been obscured by the rain on my spectacles, so I went back today to check. I am relieved it is there, as we need such symbols now more than ever.

With its origins as a commemoration of the Stonewall Riots of 1969, Pride remains both a celebration and protest. It’s more necessary than ever now because of the sustained abuse being aimed at trans people from all quarters, including those in political power and those sad losers who have nothing better to do that spend all day tweeting their bigotry on social media. Bigots will always be bigots, but the lowest of the low are those that masquerade as some sort of progressive while spouting their hate and prejudice.

Someone asked me the other day whether we still needed Pride. I replied that I think Pride will be necessary for as long as there are people who are annoyed by its existence. As well as a celebration and a protest, Pride is an opportunity for us all to show solidarity against those who seek to divide us. Though many LGBTQIA+ people in many countries – even those that claim to be more liberal – still face discrimination, hostility and violence, Pride Month always reminds me of how far we’ve come in the past 50 years but also serves as a reminder that the rights we have won could so easily be taken away. As I get older, I find I have become more and more protective towards younger LGBTQ+ people. I don’t want them to have to put up with the crap that I did when I was their age.

Latest issue of GCNlist of patrons

To mark this year’s Pride I decided to become a patron of Gay Community News, a free magazine that is, I hope, a vital resource to for the Irish LGBTQ+ community. I hope to take part in the Dublin Pride March on 28th June too. More generally, I would like to wish all LGBTQIA+ people around the world, but especially staff and students at Maynooth University, a very enjoyable and inspiring Pride 2025!

#GayCommunityNews #GCN #History #lgbt #LGBT_ #LGBTQ_ #LGBTQIA_ #Pride #StonewallRiots

2025-06-08

Nanaimo Pride Parade 2025

I always love a good Pride parade, and this year’s did not disappoint. Lots of shining happy people waving flags. Click on the arrows to see the slideshow.

#humour #LGBTQ_ #Nanaimo #Photography #PrideParade #Society

2025-05-20

Happy anniversary!

For 30 years, the chorus has been a place for gay men to gather, support each other and express themselves in song. The chorus will close its 30th anniversary year with its first concert at Sacramento’s Memorial Auditorium, a single performance that will highlight the history of the community, with cameos by leaders of local LGBT organizations. The show also will showcase the Sacramento Children’s Choir and will benefit Sierra Forever Families, which specializes in helping foster children find their forever families.

Sacramento Gay Men’s Chorus Celebrates 30th Anniversary – capradio.org

#lgbtq_ #music

Ferocious Designs appears on new ‘Rock Against Hate’ compilations benefiting LGBTQ+ causes

Artwork for Rock Against Hate, volumes 7 and 8 (Artwork by Dw Dunphy for BlowUpRadio.com)

Ferocious Designs, the music project of Central New Jersey-based songwriter Brian Kelley, has contributed two tracks to the latest releases in BlowUpRadio.com‘s Rock Against Hate music compilation series. Rock Against Hate, volumes 7 and 8, will be available starting Friday, June 6, and all proceeds will benefit The Trevor Project and No More Dysphoria, respectively.

These latest releases will coincide with BlowUpRadio.com’s Rock Against Hate “Pride Month” Special, featuring live performances and selections from the compilations, starting at 9 a.m. EDT on Friday, June 6. The special will repeat every six hours through that weekend (June 6-8).

For more information, and to donate and listen, visit RockAgainstHate.org.

Also appearing on Rock Against Hate, Volume 7, is the late LGBTQ+ trailblazer and icon, Jill Sobule, who contributed a live version of her song “America Back” shortly before her untimely passing on May 1.

“It is a profound and bittersweet honor to appear on Rock Against Hate, Volume 7, alongside Jill Sobule,” said Kelley. “Jill performed at a very small venue less than 20 minutes from me in Central New Jersey in early April, and my wife and I nearly bought tickets to see her before realizing we couldn’t make it that night.

“I am a big fan of Jill’s work and her advocacy, and I’m proud to be taking part in a project she also supported,” added Kelley.

Kelley contributed a stripped-down version of his song “Peace of Mind,” featuring longtime friend and collaborator Christian Beach on acoustic guitar, for Rock Against Hate, Volume 7, benefiting The Trevor Project. The song, in its original form, appears on the 2023 album, Looking for the Light.

For Rock Against Hate, Volume 8, benefiting No More Dysphoria, Kelley submitted a “techno demo” of “It’s All Around You,” a song that appears in a more guitar-driven, power-pop format on his recently released EP, Off You Pop!

“We are seeing so many attacks on the LGBTQ+ community from the regime in power and its minions,” said Kelley. “My song ‘It’s All Around You’ is about trying to survive this fascist nightmare by finding strength and hope within one’s self and in the community and support systems around you — and these compilations are a small way for artists like me to help out and be allies in this fight.”

https://youtu.be/nHU3TBezORs

#benefit #BlowUpRadio #fundraising #indie #LGBTQ_ #music #NJ #NoMoreDysphoria #Pride #PrideMonth #RockAgainstHate #TheTrevorProject

Artwork for Rock Against Hate, Volumes 7 and 8 (BlowUpRadio.com)

In Pictures: Swansea Pride 2025

A colourful parade through the city centre was followed by an afternoon of live free entertainment in front of the Guildhall.

Swansea Pride is organised independently but supported by Swansea Council and Elliott King, Cabinet Member for Culture, Human Rights and Equalities said: “I want to thank everyone who came along to watch the parade or turned out to be part of it.

“Every year our city offers Swansea Pride a warm welcome and it this time it was brilliant with wall-to-wall sunshine.”

Swansea Council leader Rob Stewart said: “It was an amazing and colourful day. The afternoon of events at the Guildhall and Brangwyn Hall were full of energy and showcased the best of Swansea. It is really important for our communities that events like this take place every year and it keeps on growing.”

#featured #LGBTQ_ #Swansea #SwanseaPride

Swansea Pride

Swansea Pride parade and festival returns on Saturday

Once again, the festival is free and an open invitation is extended to all.

The annual parade is set to depart from Wind Street at 11am and will make its way along Oxford Street and St. Helen’s Road to the Guildhall.

A stage will be set up in the car park at the front of the building hosting live entertainment between noon and 7pm.

There will also be food and refreshment stalls as well as traders selling a range of items and merchandise.

Just like last year, the Swansea Pride Community Zone will be indoors in the neighbouring Brangwyn Hall with lots of information stalls from organisations, support services, charities, community groups and some craft traders as well.

Swansea Pride is organised independently but supported by Swansea Council.

Council Cabinet Member for Investment, Regeneration, Events and Tourism, Robert Francis-Davies said: “Once again the council is proud to be supporting the hard-working volunteers who do such a great job in making Swansea Pride the inclusive celebration that it is.

“This year is shaping-up to be as good ever and we are very grateful to them.”

Elliott King, Cabinet Member for Culture, Human Rights and Equalities, said: “Swansea Pride is one of the highlights of the year for the Pride community. It’s a opportunity to celebrate our city’s diversity in a carnival atmosphere of music and colour.

“The main stage will be outside the Guildhall and will offer live entertainment throughout the day.  The Brangwyn Hall will host the Swansea Pride Community Zone, with lots of information stalls from organisations, support services, charities, community groups and some craft traders as well.”

Council leader Rob Stewart, said: “This free event is one of many event  highlights  this year and there is an open invitation for people across Swansea and beyond to come along and enjoy what is always a great carnival atmosphere.”

A full list of acts, activities and other information can be found at www.swanseapride.co.uk

#Guildhall #LGBTQ_ #Parade #Pride #Swansea #SwanseaCouncil #SwanseaPride #WindStreet

Swansea Pride Parade

“This Could Save a Life”: BBC Three’s Jake Devline-Reed champions new support group for Gay & Bi men across Wales

As part of Mental Health Awareness Week, 27-year-old I Kissed A Boy star Jake Devline-Reed from Swansea has teamed up with Welsh men’s mental health not-for-profit Helpu to launch a new online support group for gay and bisexual men right across Wales.

Following the success of their Cardiff-based Gay & Bi Men’s group, and backed by NHS Wales Executive on Suicide Prevention and Self Harm, Helpu is expanding its reach by launching a fortnightly Wales wide online men’s group, starting Monday 18 May. 

Jake’s involvement marks a powerful moment for LGBTQ+ mental health in Wales, where recent ONS statistics show the need is urgent. LGB+ people are 2.5 times more likely to self-harm. Suicide rates are over twice as high as those of heterosexual people and bisexual people face the highest risk.

The new online group is said to offer a safe, confidential space for gay and bisexual men to connect, share, and support one another.

No stranger to the challenges of mental health and suicidal thoughts, Jake Devline understands the power of connection. “I’ve been in that dark place where you feel like you can’t talk to anyone — where suicidal thoughts creep in and isolation takes over. For me, connection was everything. That’s why I’m backing this group. It gives gay and bi men a space to be real, be heard, and realise they’re not alone. Sometimes, just knowing someone understands can make all the difference.”

Ian Smith, Director of Helpu believes the initiative is vital. “Our gay and bi men’s groups exist because too many men still feel isolated and unable to speak openly. These spaces allow men to connect without fear of judgment — and that kind of support can be lifesaving.”

With much of Wales being rural, accessibility is a major barrier to mental health support. Helpu’s new virtual group format is designed to break that barrier — reaching men wherever they are.

Phil Scully from Helpu said: “As someone living with a chronic illness, I know how hard it can be to attend events in person. That’s why I’m proud we’re launching an online group — to reach those who need community in a different way.” 

Michael Cameron, Group Facilitator from Helpu added: “So many of the men who come to our group have never spoken openly about how they feel — not even to their closest friends. What we offer isn’t therapy, but it is powerful. It’s about being seen, being heard, and realising you’re not broken or alone. That kind of connection can be a turning point.” 

Helpu will hold sessions online fortnightly at 7pm from Monday 18 May.

#LGBTQ_ #mentalHealth #Swansea

Jake Devline-Reed

🔮 Historia del Tarot (Parte 2): Mitos, símbolos y magia según María Luisa Honey

María Luisa Honey, una figura clave en la exploración del tarot francés, mostrando su conexión con esta práctica mística.

En esta segunda parte de la historia del tarot, publicada originalmente en la revista Kena, la escritora Beatriz Espejo entrevista a María Luisa Honey, una mujer fascinante que nos abre las puertas al enigmático mundo del tarot francés. 🃏

Este tarot no solo incluye símbolos tradicionales, sino que se adentra en el arte, la mitología, la astrología… ¡y hasta en la historia de Napoleón Bonaparte! 👑🔥

Prepárate para descubrir lo que significan algunas de las cartas más potentes y misteriosas de este mazo único. Spoiler: hay drama, magia, traiciones, pasiones oscuras y hasta representación LGBTQ+. 🌈

Barajas originales del tarot francés, revelando sus complejos símbolos y significados.

💀 La muerte violenta: Aquiles y Héctor

“En el tarot francés, la muerte violenta aparece representada por una pintura en la que Aquiles arrastra en torno a los muros troyanos el cuerpo inanimado de Héctor.”

Esta imagen no solo habla de violencia literal, sino de rupturas emocionales profundas, pérdidas que transforman, finales inevitables que dan paso a nuevos comienzos.

🍎 La discusión: Paris y las diosas

Cuando Paris, rodeado de diosas, lanza una manzana gritando “¡para la más bella!”, no solo inicia la Guerra de Troya… también deja clara la energía de esta carta: conflictos, celos, competencia y caos emocional. 😬

🌳 Entrada a una vida mejor: El jardín de las Hespérides

Un oasis entre tanto caos. Esta carta representa esperanza, paz y una nueva etapa luminosa. Ideal para cuando has pasado por algo difícil y al fin ves la luz al final del túnel. 🌞

👯‍♂️ Amistad verdadera: Cástor y Pólux

Los gemelos mitológicos representan lealtad, complicidad y apoyo incondicional. Si te sale esta carta, piensa en esas amistades que son familia del alma. 💖

⚔️ Salir bien librado: Agamenón y Menelao

Los hermanos, saliendo del campo de batalla, simbolizan superación de obstáculos y éxito en medio del caos. Aunque parezca imposible, vas a lograrlo. 💪

🕊️ Abuso de confianza: El rapto de Helena

La escena del rapto de Helena no es romántica, es un llamado de atención: engaño, traición y manipulación emocional. Cuidado con quien te rodea… no todo lo que brilla es oro. ⚠️

🧪 Protección mágica: Medea y sus polvos

Medea, famosa hechicera, aparece recibiendo dinero a cambio de ciertos polvos mágicos. Esta carta sugiere protección poderosa, rituales, brujería ancestral y pactos secretos. 🕯️✨

🐂 Pasiones oscuras: Júpiter y Europa

Cuando Júpiter, disfrazado de toro, rapta a Europa, el tarot nos habla de deseos incontrolables, encuentros ocultos y emociones intensas. 🔥
Si esta carta aparece, no ignores tus instintos… pero tampoco te dejes llevar ciegamente.

📦 Todas las penas: La caja de Pandora

La famosa caja de Pandora simboliza penas de todas clases, pero también la persistente chispa de la esperanza. Aunque todo parezca perdido, siempre queda algo bueno por rescatar. 🌩️➡️🌈

🕵️‍♂️ Secretos revelados: Mercurio

Mercurio, el mensajero de los dioses, representa noticias importantes, revelaciones, secretos que salen a la luz. ¿Estás lista para enterarte de lo que no sabías? 📬

🏆 El premio mayor: El vellocino de oro

Una de las cartas más deseadas: la conquista del vellocino de oro. Aquí hablamos de éxito rotundo, logros épicos y recompensas merecidas. ¡Vas por buen camino! ✨

🦁 Napoleón y la carta del León: poder, orgullo y redención

En honor a Napoleón Bonaparte, nacido bajo el signo de Leo ♌, se diseñó una carta muy especial:

Hércules estrangulando al León de Nemea.

Pero no termina ahí. En la misma carta también aparecen dos escenas:

  • 👑 Napoleón coronando a Josefina
  • 🎖️ Y condecorando a uno de sus mariscales

Todo esto simboliza lo siguiente:

Por muy mal que estén las cosas en este momento, te rehabilitarás ante el crédito ajeno.
Una carta que promete rescate de tu reputación, incluso en los peores momentos. ✨

🌈 Inclusividad inesperada: el cometa parado en tierra

Una carta en este tarot muestra un cometa detenido en tierra, y su significado es claro: homosexualidad.
Sorprendente para su época, este tarot demuestra una visión inclusiva y simbólica de la diversidad. 🏳️‍🌈

🕰️ Predicciones cumplidas: la derrota en Waterloo

Napoleón creía en las cartas, y según cuentan, le advirtieron que un retraso sería fatal.

Por eso, decidió comenzar la batalla de Waterloo una hora antes de lo planeado, pero aún así, una demora lo llevó a la derrota.
📉 El destino ya estaba escrito… y las cartas lo sabían.

📏 Las cartas originales: pequeñas, precisas y mágicas

Las barajas originales del tarot francés medían solo 8 centímetros, eran prácticas y fáciles de manejar.

Cada carta incluía:

  • 🔭 Un plano astral
  • 🔤 Una letra
  • 🖼️ Tres grabados

Eran conocidas por dar noticias exactas.
Después se creó una versión más pequeña: el famoso Lenormant, que María Luisa Honey manejaba admirablemente. 🔮

🎴 ¿Cómo se consulta el tarot?

Barajas de tarot francés: símbolos y misterios del arte adivinatorio.

Cuando alguien quiere hacer una pregunta concreta, hay un método especial para obtener respuestas claras:

✋ El ritual de barajar

  • Se barajan las cartas siete veces.
    El 7 es un número cabalístico:
    • 7 días de la semana
    • 7 colores del arcoíris
    • 7 palabras dijo Cristo en la cruz
    • En 7 días Dios creó el mundo 🌈🙏
  • Luego, se extraen tres cartas clave:
    • La número 9la indestructible (el 9 aparece en todas las multiplicaciones)
    • La número 13la fatalidad
    • La número 21la recompensa

🙌 ¿Con qué mano partir?

  • Con la mano izquierda si deseas que intervengan los afectos 💓
  • Con la mano derecha para preguntas comerciales 💼

✂️ Cómo partir la baraja

  • Muchas personas la parten diciendo: “Por mí, por mi casa, por mi porvenir.”
  • Otras dicen: “Por las tres fuerzas: el espíritu, la materia y lo que se ignora.”

🎭 Porque la mente juega un papel importante: si crees en el tarot, se convierte en un espejo profundo del inconsciente.

🃏 ¿Y la baraja española?

Aunque es la más popular, también existe la creencia de que, como se ha usado mucho para jugar, a veces “no dice la verdad”.
Pero eso ya es tema para otra lectura… 🧐

✨ El tarot como espejo de la humanidad

Desde héroes griegos hasta emperadores históricos, pasando por hechiceras, cometas y cajas malditas… el tarot francés retrata la complejidad humana con arte y misticismo.

Cada carta cuenta una historia. Y según María Luisa Honey, el tarot no es solo para adivinar el futuro, sino para leer el alma. 🌌

🗨️ ¿Te gustó esta segunda parte de la historia del tarot?

Guarda este post, compártelo con tus amig@s brujit@s y dime en los comentarios:

#Brujxs #CartasDelTarot #Esoterismo #HistoriaDelTarot #Lenormand #LGBTQ_ #Mitologia #Napoleon #Simbolismo #Tarot #TarotFrances

Tarot francés antiguo con ilustraciones de cartas que representan diferentes escenas mitológicas y simbólicas.Retrato de María Luisa Honey, sentada en un sofá, luciendo un atuendo claro y con un peinado clásico.Un conjunto de cartas de tarot francés, mostrando diversos símbolos y figuras mitológicas, dispersas sobre una superficie. La imagen destaca la estética visual del mazo, representando elementos del arte y la mística.

Five fave lesbian/sapphic love songs of alt/indie rock

Obviously, we all have individual tastes in music. As a male listening to this genre, these five lesbian/sapphic love songs share common threads with all other great love songs — they contain a heartfelt emotional vibe, feature well-written and evocative lyrics, and include great instrumentals that help draw the listener into the soul of the tune.

Of these five fave songs, three are by Canadian artists, one is by an Irish band, and one is by an American group. Peace & love!

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“Holy Show” by Pillow Queens (Ireland) –

“I’ll roll you up and crack you open
We look like a couple of teens
Just hanging back and holy ghosting
Apologise and leave”
– Pillow Queens

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fvHd0vId3uo

“How To Breathe” by Momma (United States) –

“What a tender place to be
In her arms, I flirt with Heaven
Angels bring her down to me

She taught my body how to breathe
She taught my body how to breathe”
– Momma

https://youtu.be/JT17GDAC_-w?si=PcqINQsmrND0E31Y

“Constant Craving” by k.d. lang (Canada) –

“Maybe a great magnet pulls All souls to what’s true” – k.d. lang

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IZ4ANwlDb58

“Edge of the Earth” by The Beaches (Canada) –

“She’s a fire sign
And I don’t really know what that means
I’m a cold night
And I wanna be close to the heat
I don’t want to get burned
I don’t want love like that
But I can’t go any further ’til I start coming back”
– The Beaches

https://youtu.be/FTsHU7RxuGQ?si=s8yCA-8ea0YmiaIk

“Closer” by Tegan & Sara (Canada) –

“All you think of lately is getting underneath me
All I dream of lately is how to get you underneath me”
– Tegan & Sara

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GJCFnqrYfcU

#altRock #Canada #gays #Ireland #kdLang #lesbians #LGBTQ_ #love #loveSongs #lyrics #Momma #music #PillowQueens #sapphic #songs #TeganSara #TheBeaches #tracks #tunes #women #writing

😱 El día que Dawson’s Creek habló de empatía y homofobia… ¡en los 90s!

📺 Temporada 2, episodio 15: mucho más que drama adolescente

Estaba echándome un maratón de Dawson’s Creek (porque sí, soy esa morra nostálgica) y llegué al capítulo 15 de la segunda temporada, y OMG… no esperaba terminar llorando con el corazón apachurrado 😭.

Este episodio no solo trata sobre el drama adolescente clásico. Va más allá: habla de identidad, homofobia y empatía. Y todo eso… ¡en una serie de los 90s!

🏳️‍🌈 Jack aún no sale del clóset… pero ya lo están juzgando

Al inicio del episodio, Jack aún no decía abiertamente que es gay, pero ya se notaba la tensión. Todo se acelera cuando Jen, que está saliendo con un tipo llamado Tyson, se enfrenta a una situación súper incómoda..

🙄 El «open mind» más falso del mundo

Tyson es de esos que se dicen «mente abierta», pero sólo de dientes para afuera. Dice que es religioso pero bien selectivo con lo que cree. Y claro, se le va encima a Jack diciendo que «eligió ser gay» (insertar ojo en blanco aquí 👀).

Jen se enoja —y con justa razón—. Le dice que la sexualidad no se elige, y que lo que está haciendo es juzgar desde su ignorancia. El ambiente se pone tenso… hasta que llega la señora que menos esperábamos.

👵 La abuela de Jen y su inesperada sabiduría

Estaban todos en casa de la abuela de Jen, que es súper religiosa, y Jen ya se imaginaba que iba a ponerse del lado de Tyson.

Pero nop 😌.

La señora se avienta una frase que, honestamente, se siente adelantada a su época:

“Sólo Dios puede juzgar a Jack. Como a todos nosotros. Lo que tenemos que hacer es tener empatía.”

🎯 Directo al corazón. En una serie de los 90s. En voz de una señora religiosa. Qué joya.

💔 Y lo más fuerte: Jack sale del clóset con su papá

Como si todo eso no fuera suficiente, minutos después del episodio, Jack le confiesa a su papá que es gay. La escena es súper emotiva. Se le rompe la voz, se le quiebra el alma… y a una también 😭. No es una salida del clóset ideal, pero es real, vulnerable, y valiente.

💬 Reflexión final: esto sigue siendo tan actual

Este episodio de Dawson’s Creek salió hace más de 20 años, y sin embargo, el mensaje sigue siendo urgente y relevante.

A veces las series del pasado tenían más coraje para decir verdades incómodas que muchas actuales. Y esta en particular nos dejó un recordatorio que vale oro:

La empatía nunca pasa de moda.

🧠 ¿Tú viste este capítulo?

Si también te pegó directo en el pecho como a mí, déjamelo en los comentarios 🥹
¿Crees que hoy las series tratan estos temas con la misma sinceridad? ¿O ya no se arriesgan igual?

#DawsonsCreek #JackMcPhee #LGBTQ_ #PopCultureMx #SeriesNoventeras #TVDeAntes #TVLGBTQ

2025-04-16

SIR’s CLAW 25 Travelogue: 16 April 2025

The journey to CLAW 25 begins by stumbling around the house at 3:30AM & making the first cuppa the day…The Pup & I are boarded; Vegas, here we come for a three-hour layover. Coffee is finally kicking in.

SMF 》LAS

There used to be a time when traveling by air was a chore, something akin to getting a teeth cleaning or sitting through a gender reveal party. A day of balled fists, jaw clenched, and B-grade, expensive food, travel was never an adventure & I’d wonder how those handsome businessmen with their phones and suitcases could do it all the time. As I’ve gotten older, I’ve come to appreciate the journey; even the preparation. Packing is now a ritual, a rite to begin something new, an escape from the day-to-day be it a weekend with my Daddy or a week-long excursion in Cleveland.

The ride to the first airport was smooth. Check-in & passing through the checkpoint were smooth as well. Grabbing coffee & chow for my Pup were smooth. There’s something to be said about scheduling & planning things in advance. Once we got to our first gate, I excused myself to don my Leather (vest, boots, belt, wristbands), feeling once more myself. I confidently marched my way through the airport even though it was 5:30AM.

SIR’s view enroute to Las Vegas; HE enjoys the window seat…Ingressing Las Vegas

Inbound for Vegas

LAS 》CLE

With a nearly three-hour layover, I decided to break out the laptop & do some work for BLUFSF. Namely setting posts up summarizing the April edition & announcing next month’s. Easy work but a great distraction from the airport hustle & bustle. Post were drafted, edited & scheduled to go live while we’re in the air.

Met a couple of fellow Leatherfolx to form a little Leather Contingent before boarding the flight. It’s nice to run into fellows. Next stop: Cleveland, OH.

CLEVELAND

We’re no longer in Kansas, Toto.

Last year, Cleveland had a friendlier vibe. This time around, things appear to have soured as we experienced no less than four unfriendly Lyft drivers. Each apparently having their own respective bad days.

The hotel is 20 minutes away from the conference center which is also 20 minutes way from the Leather Stallion. Every location is an island so folx will be forced to shuttle, rideshare, or rent a car. We’ve spent perhaps $125 on rideshares alone and CLAW hasn’t officially started. Ultimately, we decided we’d rent a car seeing as how the I-X is next to the airport.

Dinner was an exercise in acceptance and resignation. “The Bistro,” as it’s billed, is located in our hotel and provides casual American cuisine. It’s basic, it’ll do. At least it would’ve done had it been decent. The Pup and I spent $45 for lukewarm sandwiches (burger/chicken) and mediocre fries. The sandwiches were supposed to come with lettuce and tomato; however, that was just a little too crazy. So, what we got were bare proteins on greasy brioche buns. Not even a smattering of the promised garlic aioli. The Pup cleaned his plate while I left a hefty portion for Mr. Manners.

Now comes the part that might make folx uncomfortable but I experienced a couple of things that capped off a pretty disappointing day.

First, the Dickoff Party at the Leather Stallion. The ride from the hotel was too long, long enough to kill any energy left from the day. Upon arrival, it was clear the Pup and I were two cherries in an apple pie. Addtionally, I had no lighter for cigars and the Stallion didn’t carry matches or any ability to make fire at-will so we stood around. After a bit, I leaned over and whispered to the Pup, “I’m not feeling this.” He agreed and we left in the fourth Lyft of the day. At this point, it was around 8PM PST and we’d been up for nearly 15 hours. Rather than shoulder the weight of being one of the very few POCs in the party, it was time to call it and return to base. Surely, this would be capstone for a day of disappointment, right?

As it’s said, “But wait, there’s more!”

Growing up Indigenous, it’s nothing new to experience racism, veiled or overt. From being followed in off-reservation music stores by staff to hearing emphatic, “These fucking Indians should go back to the rez and stay there!”, being Other and set apart are par for the course. It’s as usual as breathing or watching the sunset; I’ve learned to recognize racism when it occurs.

So, my Pup and I were browsing a meager, overpriced “market” at the hotel at ~1:30 a.m. (Folx who know me know I’m almost always hungry, ready to encounter a surprise turkey dinner with all the fixins at any moment.) when the hotel worker walked in, looked at us, and asked, “What are YOU doing here?” No salutation, no professional friendly demeanor, just a question infused with hard intent.

You see, my Pup is Latinx, I’m Indigenous so we’re are completely POC and we know division when we sense it. This was division, as if we’d wandered out from the backwoods across the way looking for free food. True, we weren’t dressed for a white tie fish fry, it being one-fucking-thirty in the morning, but we’re were dressed. We’d seen non-POC buy from the market with no issues and that was only few minutes before we “invaded” the place.

We answered the man’s question, “We’re browsing…for food.”

“Oh…well, you can order food from the Denny’s down the street.”

Us: “…but we’re here now and hungry.”

“Here, I’ll give you a paper so you can order.”

Us: “…okay…”

We took the paper and returned to the room. Me giving a resounding, “What the fuck was that about?”, as the elevator doors closed. The Pup was silent and I had entered Hangry SIR territory.

Getting to the room, the discordant day finally hit me: The 3:30AM wake time, the air travel, the unfriendly Lyfters, the horrible dinner, and the Stallion party. This encounter topped the dirt cake and I’d had it.

The Pup looked on as I unloaded my frustration before I declared, “Fuck this. He can’t treat us like that. I’m going back down to say something because this has been one of the worst days so far.”

We headed back downstairs and approached the front desk. He stood there with a false courteous smile, “How can I help you?”

Me: “Are we allowed to shop here? Because you made it seem like we were not allowed to be in the market. I just need some clarification.”

He appeared taken aback yet unfazed responding with, “Oh, I’m sorry you got that impression because I didn’t mean that.”

Ahh, yes, the celebrity apology. Always a hit.

The Pup asked, “Is this place open 24/7?”

“Yeah.”

“Okay, we’re going to buy something then.”

“Okay, sure.”

The selection was meager, an overprocessed food selection. I grabbed a ginger ale, chips, and beef jerky. The Pup paid in cash which sent the hotel guy into a huff. He owed us $0.02 in change and we watched him in an even huffier huff find two pennies. Sliding them over the counter, the Pup accepted them. He thanked us, I didn’t responded and we padded back to the room so I could devour the snackage.

To the privileged reader, there may appear to have to been nothing wrong with the exchange. However, for anyone who has experienced a lifetime of discrimination, the reality is quite different. That’s the benefit of privilege, you get smoother rides and aren’t hassled by hotel workers just for standing in a market. You can visit places without experiencing sideeye or outright disdain because you simply look different.

I experienced this growing up, I get it even now. I’ve felt it while I’ve been in Leather. It’s human nature to discriminate. So, how do handle this? Well, I enact a few lines of code from SirWolf.exe:

  • Walk with intent & quiet confidence: I know where I’ve been and I know where I’m going. Stay out of my fucking way. I won’t hurt you but I will sternly tell you to step off.
  • Treat the environment like a Leather bar: I’m here to take up my own fucking space. If you want to get my attention, get it. I don’t cruise, I don’t flirt, I here to learn, smoke, play, and maybe fuck but that doesn’t mean I want to do any of these things with you.
  • I’m comfortable being alone: While the Pup is doing his Puply duties, I’m on my own and I’m okay with that. At events like CLAW, I’ve learned how to be alone and not feel lonely. I don’t need company, sometimes I don’t want it. It depends on the moment I’m in. In this life, I’ve adapted to being a part from and am comfortable solo.
  • I welcome the brave ones: There are few folx who approach me even though the “Fuck Off” vibes are high. These folx I tend to welcome in conversation; interestingly, these folx often have actual things to talk about that are mostly worthwhile. I also commend the young man who is brave or foolhardy enough to approach SIR even after I’ve made it clear I’m not biting. A good boy might be rewarded. Maybe.

#CLAW #CLAW25 #CLAWChronicles #Cleveland #IAmSirAaronWolf #LeatherCommunity #LeatherEvents #LeatherPhotography #Leatherman #LGBTQ_ #MyJourney #Photography #SirAaronWolf #SirWolf #SirSStatus #TravelingLeatherman #Travels

2025-04-07

The Lady’s Companion, period comedy from Spain

The Lady's Companion (Manual para señoritas) is a little bit Bridgerton, a little bit Jane the Virgin, a little bit Fleabag, and a little bit plain old romcom. Set in Madrid in the 1880s in an upper class world where young ladies had companions who chaperoned their every interaction with the opposite sex, we follow one chaperone named Elena (Nadia de Santiago) whose job is finding suitable husbands for three sisters. […]

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Nadia de Santiago in The Lady's Companion
2025-03-27

It's publication day!

Enwogion o fri: Diversity Project 2023-2025

Our free #DiversityProject anthology for the #Bywgraffiadur has just dropped on KC Works. Over 40 authors contributed more than 60 articles about the most fascinating people in #Welsh #history you could possibly imagine.

We've covered #BAMEHistory #LGBTQ_ and #DisabilityHistory, #WomensHistory, #ArtHistory, the #HistoryOfScience, #HistoryOfReligion and #Wales

Frankly, there's not a single article in this collection that's not bound to be of interest to someone.

Get your own copy here as PDF or epub. And because we're in Wales, we even offer you two versions.

English: works.hcommons.org/records/dtb
Cymraeg: doi.org/10.17613/mmwvm-ryh93

#History #BlackHistory #OA #OpenAccess

Book cover for Enwogion o fri, showing two African and South Asian students of Harlech College in the 1960s. They're reading a piece of paper -- and clearly enjoy it.

Museums launch new bilingual app to support LGBTQ+ communities living with dementia

Launching during LGBTQ+ History Month, LGBTQ+ in Wales will evoke memories of queer Welsh history, as Swansea Museum and West Glamorgan Archive Service join with other organisations across Wales to support LGBTQ+ people living with dementia in their communities.

The app package uses the real memories of community members in Swansea and Neath Port Talbot and from across Wales, as well as spotlighting key items from queer culture found in Welsh museum collections.

Created alongside National Museums Liverpool’s House of Memories dementia programme, Swansea Museum and West Glamorgan Archive Service have contributed their own items and memories to create a digital archive or LGTBQ+ content.

The main aim of this project is to spark conversations between people living with dementia and their loved ones. Using items found in the app as cues and talking points, people living with dementia can have meaningful conversations, as well as personalising the app to focus on items that hold particular significance to them.

LGBTQ+ in Wales is a digital archive of memories from Wales’ LGBTQ+ communities, with experiences of nightclubs, Pride marches, queer activism, drag acts and more. This new package is an addition to the House of Memories Cymru programme, which was launched at the Senedd in 2023.

Highlights from Swansea Museum and West Glamorgan Archive Service collections that feature in the app package includes programmes for the first gay marriage in Swansea, “Pits and Perverts” event poster, theatre programmes for drag acts and a Swansea University LGB society newsletter.

Programme cover of a show by Swansea performer Ceri Dupree part of the West Glamorgan Archive collection.A Swansea Vikings rugby jersey, part of the Swansea Museum collection.A poster publicising an event held to benefit the South Wales mining community during the UK’s 1984-85 miners’ strike, part of the Swansea Museum collection.

Other museums across Wales have supported and contributed to the project to create a selection of memory prompts from queer culture in Wales. The museums involved are: Conwy Culture Centre, Swansea Museum, National Museum Wales, Glamorgan Archives, West Glamorgan Archives, Cyfarthfa Castle Museum and Art Gallery and Museum of Cardiff.

Other highlights for people to explore include court registers, inclusive rugby team shirts and flags and memorabilia from Pride events using a mixture of audio, video and images.

House of Memories Cymru is available through National Museums Liverpool’s My House of Memories app. Alongside the dementia community, the app is co-created through the award-winning House of Memories programme and features memories from a range of community groups in the UK and further afield.

The LGBTQ+ in Wales package will contain items that relate to specific areas of Wales. Already existing items from museum collections will be brought together to showcase the country’s rich and diverse queer history.

Jack Sargeant, minister for culture, said: “This LGBTQ+ in Wales app package will be such an insightful resource, celebrating the rich history and lived experiences of LGBTQ+ communities throughout our country.

“This Welsh Government-supported initiative not only helps preserve our shared heritage but also provides an invaluable support for people living with dementia and their loved ones to connect through meaningful memories. Projects like this demonstrate the power of heritage and inclusive storytelling in strengthening communities across Wales.”

“Wales is striving to be the most LGBTQ+ friendly nation in Europe. Our LGBTQ+ Action Plan sets out steps to strengthen equality, challenge discrimination, and create a safer, more inclusive society.”

(Lead image: Swansea Council)

#CeriDupree #dementia #LGBTQ_ #Museum #NationalMuseumWales #NeathPortTalbot #Pride #Swansea #SwanseaMuseum #WestGlamorganArchiveService

The House of Memories app being usedprogramme cover of a show by Swansea performer Ceri Dupree. It’s part of the West Glamorgan Archive collection.A Swansea Vikings rugby jersey, part of the Swansea Museum collection.

Locomía vendía música e imagen, no vendía sexo.

En 1992, la icónica revista TVyNovelas entrevistó al grupo Locomía, una banda que marcó una generación con su música, su imagen extravagante y su característico uso de abanicos. Durante la charla, se abordaron temas como la percepción del público infantil y las especulaciones sobre su vida personal.

“Los niños no tienen tabúes”: Locomía y su impacto en la infancia

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9XISaOX_-_g

En la entrevista, se les preguntó si consideraban que su estilo era un ejemplo para los niños. Frances respondió con una reflexión interesante:

“Los niños son los únicos que no tienen tabúes al entender las cosas. Si les parece bueno, pues les gusta. A ellos les encanta la faceta visual de los abanicos”.

Por su parte, Manolo añadió:

“Sobre todo son muy sinceros, dicen lo que piensan sin ningún problema”.

Los rumores sobre su vida privada

A medida que el grupo ganaba popularidad, comenzaron a surgir especulaciones sobre su orientación sexual. Frances respondió rápidamente al respecto:

“Esto es absurdo, lo dicen por nuestra manera de vestir”.

Carlos, en una postura firme, dejó claro su punto de vista:

“La vida sexual de las personas es algo que debes tener de la puerta de tu casa hacia adentro y eso no les debe importar”.

Finalmente, Santos y Manolo zanjaron el tema con una frase que resonó con su esencia:

“Vive y deja vivir” – Santos.
“Locomía vende música e imagen, no vende sexo. Que cada cual haga con su vida lo que le apetezca” – Manolo.

Unas respuestas icónicas para su época

Recuerden que eran los años 90 y la revista estaba dirigida al público mexicano, que sin dudas era muy homofóbico. Es lógico que en ese contexto no dijeran abiertamente que eran gays, pero tampoco lo negaron. Sus respuestas fueron inteligentes, elegantes y sin duda icónicas para la época.

Locomía no solo dejó una huella en la música de los 90, sino que también desafió prejuicios con su estética y actitud vanguardista. A más de tres décadas de su auge, su legado sigue vivo entre quienes disfrutaron de su estilo único y rompedor.

¿Eras fan de Locomía en los 90? ¡Déjalo en los comentarios!

#CulturaPop #HistoriaDelPop #LGBTQ_ #moda #retro #TVyNovelas

2025-02-25

I’ll Be Right There review: when family is a comedy

I'll Be Right There stars Edie Falco as Wanda, a sandwich generation superstar. Her mom is demanding, her two kids are demanding, and her response to every cry for help is "I'll be right there." Is her life an unhealthy, codependent comedy of errors, or is it all she ever wanted? […]

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Edie Falco in I'll Be Right There
2025-02-09

“Healthcare, Not Hate” – Protestors Ask Seattle Children’s Hospital for Support

SEATTLE, WA – Over 900 people assembled outside of Seattle Children’s Hospital today, in protest of the organization’s decision to unilaterally discontinue healthcare for its transgender youth. This was the third in a series of grassroots demonstrations; attendance has grown exponentially since they began Thursday morning.

Today’s action is especially noteworthy, as this time, it was organized by the hospital’s own staff. At least a dozen healthcare providers risked professional retaliation in order to demand justice for their wards— and to publicly condemn the cowardice of their employers.

And that’s punk as hell.

Violation of Oath, or Law? Perhaps Even Both.

As originally reported by The Stranger’s Vivian McCall, Seattle Children’s Hospital abruptly canceled its gender-affirming procedures on Monday, offering impacted families little in the way of explanation or compassion. One patient— identified in the article only as Ethan, age 18, in the interests of privacy— was informed just hours before his scheduled top surgery that he would not be receiving care, after all.

Allegedly, hospital leadership abandoned both their professional responsibilities and common courtesy; failing to communicate the changes to the family and providing inadequate aftercare for what was almost certainly a world-shattering disruption to Ethan’s physical and mental health.

When pressed by the family for an explanation, representatives from Seattle Children’s Hospital vaguely gestured toward Executive Orders 14168 and 14187— the latter is deceptively titled “Protecting Children from Chemical and Surgical Mutilation”. These orders instruct government agencies to interfere with healthcare intended for trans youth, and to financially punish those organizations which continue to provide it.

Privately, Seattle Children’s Hospital1 expressed concerns that failing to comply with this order would risk the loss of federal funding. Canceling gender affirming care was presented as a defensive maneuver, outside of their control.

In other words, that the sacrifice and collective punishment of trans youth was necessary to ensure the continued care of other patients.

This argument is unsatisfying for multiple reasons. To get the most obvious one out of the way, the orders in question are blatantly unconstitutional to begin with. They’re comprised mostly of hate speech; they repeat widely debunked myths and contradict international consensus on medical standards of care; and they were authored by a bunch of Neo-Nazis. They never should have been written, and no self-respecting healthcare provider would ever willingly obey them.2

Perhaps the more surprising reason, then, is that somehow SCH managed to begin complying with them before they were written. According to The Stranger, Seattle Children’s was already scrubbing mentions of gender-affirming care from its website as early as January 16th. Trump had not even been inaugurated by that point; there were no orders with which to comply.

Setting aside the inherent immorality in withholding life-saving healthcare from human beings that need it, Seattle Children’s Hospital has apparently volunteered to do so— in advance of any valid legal requirement or credible threat.

And so today, their own employees called bullshit.

Walk With Me

Shame you missed it, but that’s okay. I’ll paint you a word picture.

(Actually, these photos are from Friday, but it’ll make sense why I didn’t take new ones in a second.)

Folks begin assembling along Sand Point Way just before noon.

Within an hour, the sidewalk outside of the Forest building is completely packed. An 860-foot wall of human signage spontaneously forms along the side of the road; it reaches all the way from 40th Ave, to the corner of NE 50th St.

A sheet of poster-board reads: TRUST TRANS KIDS. Another: DO NOT OBEY IN ADVANCE.

People begin crossing the street to make room for more.

At quarter after one, organizers test the day’s chants with the crowd. Call, then response. When trans rights are under attack, what do we do? Stand up, fight back.

A live band plays behind me. The tuba player has, by some feat of witchcraft, suspended the word “PRIDE” across the open bell of their instrument.3 Meanwhile, commuters contribute an unceasing, manic stream of car horns from the intersection. The crowd seems re-energized by each cycle of the traffic light.

As the main event begins, eight speakers assemble beside the nearby bus stop. Fliers are distributed to the crowd, requesting that attendees refrain from photographing, filming, or tagging the speakers on social media, in the interests of their continued employment. A few of them have the luxury— and the security— to speak plainly on the record, but not all of them will. I re-attach the lens cap to my camera.

The first speaker is a psychology fellow, who invokes Bell Hooks. They patiently explain what we all already ought to know; that trans healthcare is life-saving and necessary. They draw from their professional experience to name something which will eventually become the day’s theme; deserving. Children deserve this standard of care which is being denied them.

Speaker number two is the parent of a transmasc child, whose life was immeasurably improved by access to transition care. They describe their son’s struggle with self-harm, but only in service of highlighting his subsequent love of life.

“I will never forget the look on his face when he woke up from that surgery,” they say, “[It was] unadulterated joy.”

A sticker on the side of the organizer’s megaphone says “PROUD AS FUCK”. They hold it up for a young speaker named Fern— she can’t have been older than 10. I’m grateful that kids are being given space to speak for themselves, rather than merely spoken about.

Fern delivers her speech from a stepladder. She says she has already experienced discrimination. Fern recalls being forced to change pre-schools; apparently her teacher was unwilling or unable to work with a trans child. Fortunately, Fern seems to have processed that this problem was never hers to own. I’m grateful for that, too.

She encourages the audience to live authentically— to celebrate what makes them different. In this moment, the absurdity of the situation is inescapable. We’re all here today because there are grown-ass adults in the world that still need to learn this lesson, which even a child can grasp. Remember that whenever these adults express disgust at transgender people, they are not talking about an abstract concept, but a child like this.

Fern’s address is brief. She closes with this simple wisdom:

The only way to make peace is to be weird.

And I’m like, amen kiddo.

Next, a healthcare representative who wishes to remain anonymous. They confront the stakes head-on, and with precision:

This is a fight that is bigger than us. It is bigger than Seattle Children’s Hospital. (…)This is a fight against fascism, and a fight for humanity.

This speaker challenges the reasoning of Seattle Children’s Hospital— the decision to trade the well-being of trans children for that of cisgender ones. They assure the audience that they understand the risks of defying a trans healthcare ban. Personally so. They tell us about their sibling, who is a patient at this hospital. His life depends on the continued availability of Medicaid.

You would think that such a family would have an interest in maintaining that coverage at any cost. You might expect such a family to be risk-averse. You would be wrong.

This is the line we draw in the sand. We are being bullied by the federal government to bow down or else. But if we bow down now, who will they come for next? Will they hold federal funding over our heads, to stop providing care to your children next?

(…)This moment is where we take a stand. This is the moment we refuse to let an executive order determine who is worth treating, and who isn’t. Healthcare should be determined by evidence-based practice, not the words of a politician. We stand up against discrimination today, so that you don’t have to tomorrow.

And then they read that poem about who the fascists came for and in what order. You know the one. Yeah, that one.

The fifth speaker is not only a healthcare worker, but a union member representing United Food & Commercial Workers Local 3,000. They read a petition, which you can find here, calling upon Seattle Children’s Hospital to reverse their policy.

Here’s the most compelling bit:

In its public appeals to patients, Seattle Children’s vows “to help every child live the healthiest and most fulfilling life possible.” That statement does not say every child except trans children. That statement says “every child.” By denying them necessary medical care, the hospital is failing its own commitments to the patients, families, and community we serve.

In lieu of a retraction from SCH, UFCW30004 hopes to attract the attention of Washington State Attorney General Nick Brown. Incidentally, Washington filed a lawsuit just yesterday which seeks to enjoin Trump’s gender-affirming care bans. The court documents offer Seattle Children’s Hospital as an example of parties harmed by the order.5

Speaking of Nick Brown, the next presenter also claims to be working with the Attorney General. Sarah Moran is the board chair for the Gender Justice League; in her address, she scolds SCH, referencing the opening chapters of Timothy Snyder’s On Tyranny:

Seattle Children’s has broken the number one rule of dealing with authoritarians, which is: you never obey in advance.

(…)And in capitulating so quickly, Seattle Children’s is doing Donald Trump’s work for him. That is not acceptable. And not only is it cowardly, but it is an abdication of their duty to provide the health care that their patients need.

According to Moran, the Gender Justice League compiled the stories of transgender people throughout Washington, and sent them to the AG to support the state’s lawsuit. They urge the audience to continue applying pressure to their elected officials, and to steel themselves against the deluge of legislative nonsense aimed at at their noggins.

The work will be difficult, says Moran, but she is confident that we will win in the end. The crowd repeats it back to her; we will win. This might be the first time it’s been said out loud, but the sentiment was already in the air.

It has been for the last hour.

The penultimate speaker introduces themselves as a psychologist, a parent, and a trans man. And for a moment, the audience evaporates.

Know that you are not alone.

He speaks directly to the grieving trans children whose care has been suspended, and whose humanity has been rescinded. And I’m about to quote him extensively, because in my opinion this is the most important and most heartfelt message of the entire enterprise.

I want to address you as a trans elder. (…)Consider that there was a time— not long ago— that we didn’t even have the imagination to consider the context that you’re currently in… Consider that my survival as your elder is fueled by your survival.

My promise to you is that everything changes. And sometimes a good night’s sleep and a warm meal can give us the care we need to begin to just see things a bit differently.

Let’s be clear; he is not speaking to most of us. I’m transgender, and he’s not even speaking to me. This is the language of a mental health professional who has seen some shit, who understands the trauma these kids are going through, and who knows what that kind of trauma can do to a person.

He is begging these kids to survive, because he is quite reasonably concerned that they might die deaths of despair as a result of this ban.

“It’s not acceptable to me that so many of you think you’re not gonna live past 35,” he says. “So I hope that both young folks and your family hear me when I say that you are not to allow your standards of living, either in how others treat you, or how you think of yourself, to be degraded because you’re queer or trans.”

It might seem odd for a stranger to forbid you from doing something, but I do not doubt for a moment that someone needed to hear it— maybe multiple someones— and that is just emotionally devastating.

Finally, the megaphone is passed to Meesh Vecchio, president of the Seattle Education Association. If these domains seem unrelated to you, I would ask you to look again, and to look more closely.

On January 29th, Donald Trump signed executive order 14190— “ENDING RADICAL INDOCTRINATION IN K-12 SCHOOLING”. It seeks to rescind federal funding from any school which acknowledges the gender identity of its students, under the guise of “parents rights”. Framed a bit more honestly, the rights of parents who reject their children’s identity, and not the ones who accept it.

Federal funding is being wielded as a hostage in education, in precisely the same way as it is in healthcare. The target is the same, and so is the harm.

“We will not let hate erase the facts”, says Vecchio. It’s as true when applied to education, as when applied to WPATH standards of care. Vecchio’s address highlights that these fights are not separate; that erosion here foreshadows erosion there.

Then they call for something crucial; reparations. Forgive me for having such a pesky thing as a point of view, but they’re right. It is not enough to restore these rights that kids always ought to have had. At this point, they are owed more. We’re back to that theme of deserving.

Ethan, for example, deserves to have his top surgery, but that’s table stakes. He deserves more than that, for the anguish he has been caused. At this point, organizers are no longer asking for violence to stop; they’re demanding justice.

“Complicity has a price tag,” says Vecchio.

And I get that I have a vested interest in the outcome, but I’ll be damned if I don’t agree.

Focus On [Cisgender] Kids

Seattle Children’s Hospital has yet to publicly acknowledge any of this, or issue an official statement of any kind as of writing. Their last press release was in December of last year, and their social media presence has been dormant for over a week.

You should know that I have contacted SCH representatives twice now— first in person, and again via email— and received no response. If you feel that their viewpoint has gone unrepresented in this piece, I promise you it’s not for lack of trying.

According to SCH staff— who for obvious reasons wish to remain anonymous— the internal response has been equally inadequate. An email I’ve reviewed from the 7th confirms for staff that yes, they have been in contact with the AG’s office:

Seattle Children’s has been collaborating with the Washington State Attorney General’s office for the past week on a lawsuit in response to President Trump’s January 28th executive order directing federal agencies to revoke funding for institutions providing gender-affirming care to minors…

That part is useful and good to know. Cool.

Unfortunately, they follow that up by suggesting that their current policies are in full compliance with the law, and for everyone’s own good, actually.

…Given the uncertainty surrounding the executive order and its harmful effects we’re seeking clarity on the best interests of Seattle Children’s patients and families, and our workforce, so we can continue to deliver on our mission. We remain committed to caring for our patients and families who need us and engaging in life changing research, while ensuring we operate within all applicable laws.

Our hearts go out to our patients, families, workforce, and the communities we serve who have been impacted by the uncertainty of our current landscape.

Your hearts go out them, huh? From one chronic abuser of the passive voice to another, let me ask; impacted by whom? It’s true that SCH didn’t write the executive orders, and obviously it’s more productive to direct the bulk of your anger at the fascists that started all this. But it wasn’t necessary to eject one of your most vulnerable communities into traffic to save your own skin, either. At the very least, not yet.

There’s a distinct lack of ownership and professionalism here, given that they failed to inform at least one patient that their surgery would be canceled. SCH definitely had that time to prepare; we know this because they started sanitizing their website a month in advance. Surely, they had some inkling; certainly, they had some choice.

Instead of acknowledging this, they cite their policies and their mission statement, not because they have adhered to them faithfully, but as a means to deflect responsibility. It is a surrogate, a straw man, a punching bag. SCH couldn’t have hurt these people; see, it says right here they’re committed to not doing that!

As an aside, Seattle Children’s Department of Laboratories hosted their annual benefit “Beakers and Bubbly” at the Inglewood Golf Club this evening. The mission statement on that program’s website currently reads: every patient is our patient. I feel like that bit might need amending.

Anyway, hopefully the auction is lucrative enough to offset any loss in federal funding.6

Here Yesterday, Still Here Tomorrow

It’s two in the afternoon. Parents and allies wear capes crafted from trans flags. Every car horn elicits a fresh whoop from a hundred humans delighted to be alive, and in the company of someone who cares— no matter how briefly.

In a way, walking through this crowd feels a lot like attending Pride. But instead of corporate sponsorships and cheap tat, there’s a table of homemade zines. I stick around to read a few. This one— titled “Transmutation – An Early memoir”— is my favorite. The author signs, “a vegan tranarchist”.

As the demonstration winds down, the organizers say they want to try one last thing. They warn that it’s weird. They’re not sure it will work out, but what the hell, why not?

That thing turns out to be queer karaoke. They hold their cellphone up to the megaphone, and 900 people sing Pink Pony Club on the spot.

It is beautiful in its imperfection.

Eventually the protestors go their separate ways, but many of them were here yesterday, and they’ll be back tomorrow.

A child waves from the back seat of a vehicle as she leaves; it might be Fern, but I can’t tell from this distance. Whoever she is, she’s holding pink and blue balloons.

  1. Hereafter “SCH”, because I am lazy and do not care about their branding guidelines. ↩︎
  2. I actually don’t intend to waste any more words refuting their contents. Statistically, you either arrived at this article capable of recognizing the humanity of transgender people, or you have decided in advance not to do so under any circumstances.
    That said, if you’d like to read a proper refutation of these unconstitutional, pseudo-scientific pieces of hate speech, such breakdowns are readily available elsewhere. Here’s a short piece by Natasha Lennard at the Intercept to get you started. ↩︎
  3. I am embarrassed to admit how long I stood fascinated by this. ↩︎
  4. …which when abbreviated sounds like the model number of an as-seen-on-TV vacuum cleaner… ↩︎
  5. It’s unclear whether the AG’s office will separately prosecute the hospital’s conduct between now and the complaint’s resolution. Depending on how how quickly it progresses, and on the result, it may not even be necessary. I’ve reached out to both Brown, and to the AG’s Deputy Communications Director Mike Faulk, and will follow up if I learn anything useful. ↩︎
  6. Jokes aside, it looks like these folks are volunteers for a separate department, so please don’t bother them. It’s fun to tease the business side of the house for the optics, but healthcare isn’t zero-sum, and events like this probably help a lot of people. 🙂 ↩︎

[CORRECTION: 2/9/25, 6:36pm – Meesh Vecchio uses they/them pronouns. Additionally, I fixed the link for EO 14168. Both are rookie mistakes to have made, how embarrassing! Thank you for the feedback.]

Citations

Lennard, Natasha. “Trump’s Anti-Trans Executive Order is Unscientific Nonsense”. The Intercept, 22 January 2025. https://archive.ph/cQCYj

McCall, Vivian. “Seattle Children’s Postpones Trans Teen’s Surgery Indefinitely”. The Stranger, 4 February 2025. https://www.thestranger.com/queer/2025/02/04/79906101/seattle-childrens-postpones-trans-teens-surgery-indefinitely

Niemöller, Martin. “First They Came”. 1946. Republished by the Holocaust Memorial Day Trust. https://hmd.org.uk/resource/first-they-came-by-pastor-martin-niemoller/

Trump, Donald. “PROTECTING CHILDREN FROM CHEMICAL AND SURGICAL MUTILATION”. White House EO 14187, 28 January 2025. https://www.whitehouse.gov/presidential-actions/2025/01/protecting-children-from-chemical-and-surgical-mutilation/

Trump, Donald. “DEFENDING WOMEN FROM GENDER IDOLOGY EXTREMISM AND RESTORING BIOLOGICAL TRUTH TO THE FEDERAL GOVERNMENT”. White House EO 14168, 20 January 2025. https://www.whitehouse.gov/presidential-actions/2025/01/defending-women-from-gender-ideology-extremism-and-restoring-biological-truth-to-the-federal-government/

Trump, Donald. “ENDING RADICAL INDOCTRINATION IN K-12 SCHOOLING”. White House EO 14190, 29 January 2025. https://www.whitehouse.gov/presidential-actions/2025/01/ending-radical-indoctrination-in-k-12-schooling/

United Food & Commercial Workers Local 3,000. “Petition: Restore Gender-Affirming Care at Seattle Children’s Hospital!”. 7 February 2025. https://ufcw3000.org/news/2025/2/7/petition-restore-gender-affirming-care-at-seattle-childrens-hospital

Washington State Office of the Attorney General. “State of Washington challenges unconstitutional presidential order criminalizing, and ending funding for gender-affirming care”. 7 February 2025. https://www.atg.wa.gov/news/news-releases/state-washington-challenges-unconstitutional-presidential-order-criminalizing

#Activism #Antifascism #HumanRights #LGBTQ_ #Politics

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2025-02-06

Danny Beard at Future Yard

I’ve photographed Danny Beard a couple of times at events but I hadn’t seen their main drag act. It was hilarious. If you get the chance, go see their show.

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2025-02-05

Mickey Calisto at Future Yard

Ah to have the energy of Mickey Calisto. Love seeing him perform. Great gig at Future Yard.

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2025-02-03

Who will stand up for LGBTQ+ Diversity?

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The only thing that has surprised me about Donald Trump’s assault on Diversity, Equity and Inclusion is the speed with which he has imposed his bigotry on individuals and federal institutions. The first step came within hours of the Felon-in-Chief assuming office with an Executive Order intended to dismantle crucial protections for transgender people and deny the validity of gender identity itself. The new order withdraws a range of executive orders issued by Joe Biden, including those allowing transgender people to serve in the military, advancing the health and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) youth, and interpreting federal sex discrimination protections in domains like education, housing, and immigration to prohibit discrimination based on sexual orientation or gender identity. And this is just the start, and I don’t think it will be confined to the USA for very long.

The attack on LGBTQ+ rights is part of a wider assault on the Diversity, Equity and Inclusion policies intended to create a level playing field for women and minorities. The intention is to turn the Federal government into a system of oppression operated by people of Trump’s hate-filled mindset that diversity is a threat to white male privilege and must be crushed. He and his crony Elon Musk got where they are not by merit but through inherited wealth. It’s no surprise that they wish to deny others the chance to succeed.

I have addressed the question “why should we care about diversity?” many times on this blog in many contexts, though usually in science and usually in reference to LGBTQ+ rights. The obvious answer _ think – is based on notions of fairness: we should do everything we can to ensure that people have equal opportunity to advance their career in whatever direction appeals to them. But I’m painfully aware that there are some people for whom arguments based on fairness simply don’t wash. Trumpists, for example. For them there’s another argument that should work better. As scientists whose goal is – or should be – the advancement of knowledge, the message is that we should strive as hard as possible to recruit the brightest and most creative brains into our subject. That means ensuring that the pool from which we recruit is as large and as diverse as possible. In large and complex research collaborations, such as the Euclid Consortium (of which I am a member), the range of ideas and perspectives is a real asset when it comes to solving problems. The problem is that this argument doesn’t work either as they are driven purely by mean-spirited ideology and the desire to fill the institutions of state with those of a similar ilk.

The effects of the latest reactionary steps are already starting to show in the area of astronomy. The Diversity and LGBT+ channels on the Vera Rubin-LSST Slack (which is a Federal project, funded by the National Science Foundation and the Department of Energy) have already been deleted. A similar fate has befallen the Space Telescope Science Institute (funded by NASA). It seems to me unlikely that NASA itself will survive long as Musk will have his eyes on dismantling it and using its resources for his own vanity projects.

Over the past year I have given a few talks about my own career in research as an LGBTQ+ person; see for example here. In giving these talks I tried to strike a relatively positive tone, showing how LGBTQ+ rights have improved over the 40 years or so I’ve been involved in cosmological research since I started my graduate studies in 1985. I have, however, ended with a warning that the forces of reaction were gathering, and all the progress we have made could easily be put into reverse. That is exactly what is happening now in the USA.

The question in my mind is who will stand up for diversity? I can quote examples from my own life that prove that some individual institutions have never really taken LGBTQ+ bullying and discrimination seriously. Others may be genuinely supportive, but perhaps that is wishful thinking. It is notable how enthusiastically some US organizations have preemptivly cooperated with Trump’s edicts, even when paused through legal challenge. I grew up in the 1980s when the climate was filled with homophobic hate. It is naive to imagination that all that hate simply disappeared. We will find out very soon whether our self-styled “allies” have only ever been fair weather friends who will happily abandon us when we become politically inconvenient.

#ConvictedFelonDonaldTrump #LGBTQ_ #NASA #RubinLSST

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