#LearningDisability

Neath care leader’s ‘Sunday dinner’ idea brings families together – and earns him award nomination

For Rob Hayward, food has become much more than a meal – it’s a way of reconnecting people with learning disabilities to their loved ones.

Rob, who works as a peripatetic service manager with M&D Care, came up with the idea of hosting “Family Sunday Dinners” inside the service’s homes. The concept is straightforward: once a month, two families are invited to sit down with their loved ones for a traditional roast, prepared by chefs and served in a homely dining room.

For many of the people supported by M&D Care, this was something they had never experienced before. Complex needs and behaviours that challenge had often made shared mealtimes too difficult in the past.

“One of the mothers told me it was the first time she had ever sat down and had a meal with her child,” Rob said. “That really brought home how important this was. We just wanted to create a safe, welcoming space where families could share those moments together.”

Transforming family life By applying Positive Behaviour Support (PBS) principles, Rob and his colleagues worked to reduce the triggers that had previously made mealtimes stressful. Structured routines, sensory adjustments and tailored support strategies helped people feel comfortable and in control.

The result has been described as “life‑changing.”

Rob Haywood
(Image: Mandy Jones)

Abbi‑Lee Bevan, M&D Care’s business development director, who nominated Rob for the award, said:

“For the first time, families were able to sit down together and enjoy a meal with their loved ones in a homely, welcoming environment. What was once considered ‘too risky’ became a cherished tradition, strengthening family bonds and creating a true sense of belonging.”

A career built on care Rob has worked in social care for 18 years, starting as a PBS practitioner before moving into management. In his current role, he supports specialist homes across Neath, Port Talbot, Swansea, Ceredigion and Carmarthenshire.

He admits he was “shocked” to be nominated in the Leading Practice in Learning Disability category at this year’s Wales Care Awards, but says the recognition is a privilege.

“I absolutely love what I do and feel I’ve found a career for life,” he said. “I’m passionate about making a difference, and I’m lucky to work with colleagues who share that same drive.”

Celebrating the sector The Wales Care Awards, organised by Care Forum Wales, will take place at Cardiff’s Holland House Hotel on Friday 17 October.

Mario Kreft MBE, Chair of Care Forum Wales, said the awards were about recognising the dedication of frontline staff:

“Every single one of our finalists is a winner. The event underlines the importance of the social care sector – it is the glue that binds our communities together.”

Rob’s Family Sunday Dinners may have started as a simple idea, but for the families who now gather around the table, it has created memories they thought they might never have.

Rob joins a growing list of inspirational local finalists we’ve featured this year, including a Port Talbot care home worker described as a ‘social care Oscar’ newcomer, a Swansea grandfather who turned redundancy into a new career in care, a Pontardawe cook who brought tears of joy with her catering success, and a Swansea care worker whose creativity has made residents’ dreams come true.

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#Care #careAwards #CareForumWales #FamilySundayDinners #LearningDisability #MDCare #Neath #PositiveBehaviourSupport #WalesCareAwards

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Dysgraphia! a lesser-known and even less understood learning disability! it impacts handwriting and writing in general and i rarely ever see it discussed. in my case, it makes handwriting very physically taxing and, if i don't watch myself, literally painful. remember this disability when you expect entities to write, especially by hand!

#disability #learningDisability
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Again and again, we are shocked by the treatment of learning-disabled people. Yet we never learn from the past | John Harris theguardian.com/commentisfree/ #Learningdisability #VirginiaWoolf #Disability #Society #UKnews #Books

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Avoidable deaths in adults with learning disabilities | Our research | Scottish Learning Disabilities Observatory

"...Young adults (25-34 yrs) with learning disabilities are 9 times more likely to die of treatable causes of death..."

Difficult to read. Shocking stats here in Scotland.

sldo.ac.uk/our-research/determ

#LearningDisability #Disability #Scotland #Mortality #Health

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University of Kentucky: Hatcher developing tools to support people with Dyscalculia. “Dyscalculia is not a well-known disability, which means that people who experience it have limited help. Jay Hatcher aims to change that. Dyscalculia affects a person’s ability to work with numbers and do math. Hatcher, a software engineer for HDI, is developing an app called Ucalculia, which aims to […]

https://rbfirehose.com/2025/01/18/university-of-kentucky-hatcher-developing-tools-to-support-people-with-dyscalculia/

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With #LearningDisability #learningdisabilityweek coming up next week, here's a talk I gave on a mindmap alternative which is already proving useful to people with dyspraxia #learning #Neurodiversity

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Recap if you're new: I'm an ex-news reporter, social affairs corr, housing ed, 20yrs a Guardian writer. Now I write/edit freelance, mostly on #LearningDisability Book: Made Possible. New book, 2025. I chair Sibs, UK charity for disabled people's siblings. I parent teens and I'm Raana's sister⬇️

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There is a lot of underdiscussed ableist bullshit in #academia ( #AcademicChatter ) this paper highlights. But there is an interesting and important thing there - at least 10% of academics in #STEM (with a PhD) have a #LearningDisability !
Don't let LD stop you from aiming high
nature.com/articles/s41562-023
(I actually think there is a lot of under-reporting there; high intelligence can mask for some LD)

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💡 Exploring the Intraparietal Sulcus (IPS) and its connection to dyscalculia reveals its crucial role in numerical processing. Dyscalculia, a learning disability, is linked to impaired function in the IPS, affecting the Approximate Number System (ANS). Understanding Weber's Law helps explain how numerical distinctions are made. Enhancing awareness can improve educational strategies for those affected. #Dyscalculia #NumericalProcessing #WeberLaw #IntraparietalSulcus #LearningDisability 💡

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@teamseaslug instagram.com/reel/C_0ssPfsG0w too

zeroes.ca/@broadwaybabyto/1131

And #disability #disabilityPrideMonth #accessibility #EaseOfAccess #sensoryImpairment #learningDifficulty (which is not the same as) #LearningDisability except some people also use #SpLD and #neurodivergence in a group could be one #neurodivergent person etc.

You can follow these hashtags or similar ones and try asking there too. Best to get varied perspectives since no one individual experiences everything

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When I drop my housemate at uni (she works there), we'll often pop past McDonald's so she can get an iced coffee. I'll use the app to order for her, especially if I have points to get it for free.

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So, I make up images...
LR36 - 36 lesbian rogues
TH95 - 95 tiny hitlers
MB42 - 42 monkey butts

...I'm dreading the day I forget to translate it back to the code and just yell FIFTY FOUR OTTER DICKS at some poor customer service person trying to do their job.

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2024-08-30
Student Life Disability Services celebrates its 50th anniversary: Here’s a look back at the department’s rich history - Kyrie Thomas

[🖼 The outside of the office for Student Life Disability Services, located inside Baker Hall on Ohio State's Campus. Credit: Kyrie Thomas | LTV Campus Producer]

The outside of the office for Student Life Disability Services, located inside Baker Hall on Ohio State’s Campus. Credit: Kyrie Thomas | LTV Campus Producer

From accommodations to guidance to support, Student Life Disability Services — or SLDS — has long provided Ohio State students with the necessary resources to tackle obstacles that can accompany having a disability. 

With 2024 marking SLDS’ 50th anniversary, some of Ohio State’s accessibility experts and advocates are weighing in on the department’s past, present and future. 

Established in 1974, SLDS was originally known as the “Office of the Physically Impaired,” or the OPI. Its main focus was making campus more accessible for those with physical disabilities, according to the SLDS website.

Julia Parachini, president of the student organization Buckeyes for Accessibility, said SLDS was strongly shaped by the story and contributions of Ohio State alum Dick Maxwell. 

Maxwell — who was paralyzed in a fraternity intramural football game during his time at Ohio State — was appointed as an administrator in the university’s disability-services office in 1972 prior to its official establishment as SLDS, according to an April 2011 article from The Columbus Dispatch and the SLDS website.

“It’s the most recent iteration of SLDS; he was in a wheelchair, so his main focus was for people like him,” Parachini, also a fourth-year in health sciences, said.

SLDS, however, soon took notice of students who needed support for disabilities that were more “hidden” or “unapparent.” For instance, the department registered its first student with learning disabilities in 1977, according to the SLDS website.

“The vast majority of students that affiliate with our office have non-apparent disabilities,” said Cheryl Lyons, current director of SLDS. “You wouldn’t know just by looking at them.”

Non-apparent disabilities encompass various conditions like anxiety, diabetes, visual impairments and depression, said Saran Lendzian, a fifth-year in computer science engineering and a member of Buckeyes for Accessibility. While they may be less well-known, they’re some of the most common disabilities on campus.

“Visually, you can’t tell who has a disability when you walk into a room,” Lyons said. “You really need to assume that every room you walk into has someone or multiple people with a disability and try to operate accordingly, whether you’re teaching, reading an activity or whatever it might be.”

Despite the continual growth of SLDS, Lendzian and Parachini said acquiring enough funding and resources has proved to be a roadblock they’ve witnessed the organization tackle time and time again. 

“If they had more money to hire more staff, if they had more space, more building space to work in, they would be able to not just serve more students, but serve more students more efficiently and effectively,” Lendzian said.

Regarding the lack of funding, Lyons said SLDS’ most recent improvement involves welcoming three new access specialists to its staff — for a total of 11 — who help assist the now approximately 7,000 students registered with the program.

Additional accommodations were created during the COVID-19 pandemic when SLDS was tasked with creating a database, as well as providing resources and accommodation plans for students impacted by the virus.

“We said, ‘Well, hey, we need some kind of accommodation process for students who can’t come to class, right?’” Lyons said. “And so, we built that process to support students who had COVID at a time where you had to quarantine, definitely couldn’t go to class and people were very ill,” Lyons said.

Now, Lyons said some of the department’s biggest accomplishments are its partnerships with students on and off Ohio State’s campus — and though active Buckeyes play an important role in helping expand the office’s capabilities, there’s always room for improvement. 

“What I would like to see in Ohio State is for everyone to make sure any content they’re creating, whether digital or marketing, that they’re really considering people’s access needs,” Lyons said.

Throughout its history of name changes and accommodations, SLDS has remained committed to providing support and guidance to Ohio State’s student body, Parachini said. 

“If I was born 50 years ago, I wouldn’t be in college — just flat out, period,” Parachini said. “With my complexity of disabilities and other issues, I wouldn’t have made it to college. So, if there’s a generation of students that are coming to university with that support, then it’s great we can give them that.”

Susan Larson ♀️🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🌈Susan_Larson_TN@mastodon.online
2024-08-23
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#Parliamentary Office of #Science and Technology (POST) #MentalHealthAct reform – impacts on #autistic people and people with a #LearningDisability
#Research Briefing
Published Friday, 03 May, 2024 post.parliament.uk/research-br

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2024-04-17

People with learning disabilities 'locked up'

The organisation has launched a petition urging the Welsh government to take action.

The Welsh government denied people were being held "inappropriately".

bbc.com/news/articles/czkvl8mm

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Guys I promise dyslexia is a bitch I just want to put my feelings into text but my brain and I aren’t on one accord :(
#dyslexia #LearningDisability #Disability #MadWords

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