#bitterness

2025-06-11

I'm in search of a philosophical cure for #bitterness. I'm afraid of becoming #bitter. I see myself criticizing everything more and more. I see so much ugliness and evil in the world, and I talk about it.

I was recently thinking on how to avoid it, and I think i have a promising path - give in, accept the ugliness and evil as the expected state of the world. Then the #beautiful and #good becomes a happy surprise, something to focus on.

Yeah, everything is disgusting, it's obvious, why would there be any need to repeat that? That's normal. Let's focus on the extraordinary, seemingly miraculous sparks of #joy and #beauty! They are so rare, and therefore much more important. They are worth being noticed

I maybe that's my path.

#philosophy

WordofTheHourwordofthehour
2025-03-15

: the quality or state of being bitter, sharp, or acrid, in either a literal or figurative sense

- French: amertume

- German: die Bitterkeit

- Italian: amarezza

- Portuguese: amargura

- Spanish: amargura

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skuaskua
2025-03-14

It's the Ides of March.

Bitterness at Betrayal

Friends, real friends, only stab you in the back if it's politically necessary.

And with friends like that, who needs family?

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2024-12-24

A quotation from Hugo, Victor:

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His motives were outrage that had become a habit of mind, the bitterness in his heart, a deep sense of the iniquities he had suffered, the impulse to react, even against the good, the innocent and the just, if there be any. The point of departure and of arrival in all his thinking was his hatre…
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#quote #quotes #quotation #bitterness #danger #fury #hatred #motivation #rage #resentment #violence

Quote of the day, 15 November: St. John of the Cross

Reveal your presence,
and may the vision of your beauty be my death;
for the sickness of love
is not cured
except by your very presence and image.

THE SPIRITUAL CANTICLE, STANZA 11

Death cannot be bitter to the soul that loves, for in it she finds all the sweetness and delight of love. The thought of death cannot sadden her, for what she finds is that gladness accompanies this thought. Neither can the thought of death be burdensome and painful to her, for death will put an end to all her sorrows and afflictions and be the beginning of all her bliss. She thinks of death as her friend and bridegroom, and at the thought of it she rejoices as she would over the thought of her betrothal and marriage, and she longs for the day and the hour of her death more than earthly kings long for kingdoms and principalities.

The Wise Man proclaims of this kind of death: O death, your sentence is welcome to the person who feels need [Sir 41:2]. If it is welcome to those who feel need for earthly things, even though it does not provide for these needs but rather despoils such persons of the possessions they have, how much better will its sentence be for the soul in need of love, as is this one who is crying out for more love. For death will not despoil her of the love she possesses, but rather will be the cause of love’s completeness, which she desires, and the satisfaction of all her needs.

The soul is right in daring to say, “may the vision of your beauty be my death,” since she knows that at the instant she sees this beauty she will be carried away by it, and absorbed in this very beauty, and transformed in this beauty, and made beautiful like this beauty itself, and enriched and provided for like this very beauty. David declares, consequently, that the death of the saints is precious in the sight of the Lord [Ps 116:15]. This would not be true if they did not participate in God’s own grandeurs, for in the sight of God nothing is precious but what he in himself is.

Accordingly, the soul does not fear death when she loves; rather she desires it. Yet sinners are always fearful of death. They foresee that death will take everything away and bring them all evils. As David says, the death of sinners is very evil [Ps 34:21]. And hence, as the Wise Man says, the remembrance of it is bitter [Sir 41:1]. Since sinners love the life of this world intensely and have little love for that of the other, they have an intense fear of death. But the soul that loves God lives more in the next life than in this, for a soul lives where it loves more than where it gives life, and thus takes little account of this temporal life. She says then: May the vision of your beauty be my death.

Saint John of the Cross

The Spiritual Canticle, st. 11, no. 10

John of the Cross, St. 1991, The Collected Works of St. John of the Cross, Revised Edition, translated from the Spanish by Kavanaugh, K and Rodriguez, O with revisions and introductions by Kavanaugh, K, ICS Publications, Washington DC.

Featured image: Father Corey Bruns captures this image of blue and white votive candles at his parish, Saint Joseph Catholic Church in Bowling Green, Kentucky. Image credit: © Corey Bruns / Flicker (Used by permission)

#beauty #bitterness #death #desire #fear #love #StJohnOfTheCross #vision

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2024-11-13

A quotation from Russell, Bertrand:

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Wherever one finds oneself inclined to bitterness, it is a sign of emotional failure: a larger heart, and a greater self-restraint, would put a calm autumnal sadness in the place of the instinctive outcry of pain.
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2024-11-10

#bitterness : the quality or state of being bitter, sharp, or acrid, in either a literal or figurative sense

- French: amertume

- German: die Bitterkeit

- Italian: amarezza

- Portuguese: amargura

- Spanish: amargura

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Jeremy (יעקב) 🇺🇦imstilljeremy@babka.social
2024-08-06
2024-07-06

Second beer of the day is the #london #black #porter by Anspach & Hobday.

Normally, I’m not a Porter fan, but I will buy this if I see it on sale. #smooth #toasty #chocolate #smoky. Maybe even a taste of #coffee. A nice hint of #bitterness too. Lovely.

2024-06-28

🇺🇸 American Candidate: Joe Biden 🫏
Source: linktr.ee/CelebrityBiopics

😷 In 2020, Biden faced off against the incumbent Trump in a 🤬 bitterly fought election. As the nation watched, he knew his political legacy hung in the ⚖️ balance.

Triple5Light TherapyTriple5Light
2024-06-15

Overcoming Resentment in Relationships:    

 

 It’s normal to feel resentment, which involves feelings of anger or bitterness over a slight injustice or a major incident. However, continuing to hold onto these feelings can have negative consequences for your physical and mental health.

Some people avoid addressing their feelings and continue to harbor anger at… triplefivelighttherapy.blogspo

Lazarou Monkey Terror 🚀💙🌈Lazarou
2024-05-30
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2024-03-25

A quotation from Amiel, Henri-Frédéric:

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To be misunderstood even by those whom one loves is the cross and bitterness of life.
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#quote #quotes #quotation #bitterness #communication #disappointment #misunderstanding #suffering

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2024-03-07

A quotation from Carlyle, Thomas:

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O poor mortals, how ye make this Earth bitter for each other; this fearful and wonderful Life fearful and horrible; and Satan has his place in all hearts! Such agonies and ragings and wailings ye have, and have had, in all times: — to be buried all, in so deep silence; and the salt sea is not swoln with your tears.
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#quote #quotes #quotation #bitterness #conflict #death #futility #humanity #suffering

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2024-02-09

A quotation from Shakespeare, William:

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ORLANDO: But, O, how bitter a thing it is to look into happiness through another man’s eyes!
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#quote #quotes #quotation #bitterness #empathy #envy #happiness #jealousy #perspective

olga Brajnovićolgab
2024-01-20

Tears
There is no light in my glancenor silence in my intimacy.The hours screamfrom the silent clocksof infallible digitsthat enslave the daysand prolong the nightsof open eyes.And I can notunleash my ragebecause I'm surroundedof unwanted witnesses.The muffled howlin my dry throatstays knottedin my desolate soulwith many othersthat never escapedfrom my
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2024-01-12

A quotation from Cicero, Marcus Tullius:

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All wines don’t turn sour when they get old, and neither do all men or all personalities. I approve of sternness in the old, but a sternness that, like other things, is kept within limits; under no circumstances do I approve of bad temper.
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#quote #quotes #quotation #aging #bitterness #oldage #souring #temper #disposition #severity #wine #humannature

2023-12-27

Jacques #Delors has died today. As a young man he saw the appalling cruelty, #bitterness & division that extreme #nationalism led to. He spearheaded a wonderful idea, that people should cooperate 4 the good of all. He will be greatly missed. #rejoinEU rb.gy/3kmtws

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