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<<Men's Dating Profiles are just "Help Wanted" Job Ads>>
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We all lose when this pattern stresses everyone out.

#EmotionalLabor #DomesticLabor #FeministCommentary #BurbNBougie #DatingRedFlags #WifeAppliance #ModernDating #UnpaidLabor #ToxicMasculinity
#CompulsoryHeterosexuality #Gilead
#USPol
#4B
#StraightFolks
#BlackFedi
#BlackMastodon
#BlackFriday
#patriarchy

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=vicPlPmJliQ&pp=0gcJCf8Ao7VqN5tD

#compulsoryheterosexuality is bad because men who see women as trophies or status symbols or necessary evils fuck it up for #heterosexual men like me who think women are cool AF.

I like talking to women. i like having female friends and just chilling. I love my wife. Women are dope!

So the men who don't like women should be allowed to do their own thing and stop giving women trust issues and trauma and shit

Jezebel: Sex. Celebrity. Politics. With Teeth: 15 Years Ago, ‘Mamma Mia!’ Showed Us How Family Abolition Could Change Everything https://jezebel.com/mamma-mia-family-abolition-1850649149 #Jezebel #americanpeopleofgermandescent #compulsoryheterosexuality #tanyachristinebaranski #mammamiaherewegoagain #sophieamandaseyfried #rosiejuliewalters #sampiercebrosnan #harrycolinfirth #amandaseyfried #piercebrosnan #juliewalters #adriennerich #billstellan #merylstreep #sophielewis #harrystyles #maryretta

Not a Lie if They Make You Do It

"Lie. It's not lying if they make you lie, if the only truth they can accept is their own."

https://sharonmurphy.net/personal/notalie/

#personal #choice #ComingOut #CompulsoryHeterosexuality #heteronormativity #lgbtqia #obligated #transgender

The disgust, confusion, anxiety, amusement, horror, etc with which many vanilla ppl react to various kink/fetish interests and activites in some ways mirror feelings I've had towards PIV sex, to use myself as an example. This is, when handled maturely, completely fine on all sides! The problems come when some activities are compulsory and others are mocked, stigmatized, erased, and criminalized
#sex #kink #fetish #queer #lgbt #bodilyautonomy #righttosex #bdsm #compulsoryheterosexuality #comphet

The Lesbian MasterDoc by Anjeli Luz pulls heavily and uncritically from Rich's text, so if that document also felt vaguely TERFy to you, then now you know why.

#lesbianmasterdoc #thelesbianmasterdoc #comphet #compulsoryheterosexuality #transsexualempire #thetranssexualempire #adriennerich #janiceraymond #transmisogyny #transphobia #terf #transexclusionaryradicalfeminism #radfem #radicalfeminism #queerhistory #transhistory

I don't think it's going too far to simply state that Adrienne Rich helped Janice Raymond to write The Transsexual Empire, and that everyone reading Rich's work should read it through that lens.

#comphet #compulsoryheterosexuality #adriennerich #janiceraymond #transsexualempire #thetranssexualempire #transmisogyny #transphobia #terf #transexclusionaryradicalfeminism #radfem #radicalfeminism #queerhistory #transhistory

Raymond cites Rich's work in the body of The Transsexual Empire, in the chapter titled (ugh) "Sappho By Surgery", and also thanks Rich in the introduction for her "constant encouragement".

#comphet #compulsoryheterosexuality #janiceraymond #adriennerich #terf #radfem #transexclusionaryradicalfeminism #radicalfeminism #queerhistory #queerliberation #transhistory #transliberation #transmisogyny #transphobia #transsexualempire #thetranssexualempire

The idea of "comphet" was first introduced in Compulsory Heterosexuality and Lesbian Existence by Adrienne Rich. Adrienne Rich wasn't just a TERF. She was directly mentioned multiple times in the TERF book, The Transsexual Empire, by her colleague Janice Raymond.

#comphet #compulsoryheterosexuality #janiceraymond #adriennerich #transsexualempire #thetranssexualempire #terf #radfem #transexclusionaryradicalfeminism #radicalfeminism #transmisogyny #transphobia

If the concept of "compet", AKA "compulsory heterosexuality", feels vaguely TERFy to you, well, that's because it has its roots in literal TERFery.

#comphet #compulsoryheterosexuality #transmisogyny #transphobia #terf #terfs #transexclusionaryradicalfeminism #transexclusionaryradicalfeminist #transexclusionaryradicalfeminists #radfem #radfems #radicalfeminism #radicalfeminist #radicalfeminists #queerhistory #queerliberation #transhistory #transliberation

For me, asexuality feels like a way to give myself permission to say no, now and forever. To assert a boundary, root it in identity, and say that no one should ever expect it to change.

But, the important question is, why did I feel like I needed permission to do that in the first place?

#asexual #asexuality #ace
#consent #boundaries
#compulsoryheterosexuality

#CompulsoryHeterosexuality

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