#comphet

2025-04-05

Compcomphet #blog entry by The B+ Squad with clear takedown of #comphet from a #bisexual angle patreon.com/posts/compcomphet-

Aby--not fast, just furiousaby@aus.social
2024-08-24

I'm seeing a lot of discussion around comphet (compulsory heterosexuality), which is amazing, but a LOT of it is straying into biphobia and that's fucking disappointing.

Do better.

#queer #comphet #bi #pan #sexuality #lgbtiqa

2024-07-31

Episode ninety-four is up now! Today's song is Good Luck, Babe! by Chappell Roan.

I discuss the complex queer themes explored in the lyrics, and the absolutely gorgeous vocals that deliver them.

youtube.com/watch?v=hXOFJU6DGD

#podcast #dailypodcast #pigeon #pigeonsongspod #music #songs #goodluckbabe #chappellroan #lesbian #sapphic #comphet

Angry sweet antiracist enbyvreer@todon.nl
2023-05-02

Op maandagavond 1 mei had #Nieuwsuur een item over de zorg voor trans jeugd, dat er zoveel jongens en meisjes genderbevestigende zorg vragen en dat daar vanuit het buitenland zorgen over zijn. Dit past als zoveel 'bezorgde' verslaggeving in een negatieve en "genderkritische" tendens. Ga zo door en je eindigt bij anti-trans wetten als in de VS.

#transfobie #comphet #heteronormativiteit #cisnormativiteit

Primadonna BoyπŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈβœ¨DannyRedwoods
2023-03-22

The disgust, confusion, anxiety, amusement, horror, etc with which many vanilla ppl react to various kink/fetish interests and activites in some ways mirror feelings I've had towards PIV sex, to use myself as an example. This is, when handled maturely, completely fine on all sides! The problems come when some activities are compulsory and others are mocked, stigmatized, erased, and criminalized

2023-03-17

As a very sex positive feminist I'm still gobsmacked at the dusty corners of the feminist space where prudey killjoy feminists still hang out, ignoring sexual agency and arguing about pleasure and FWBs.

#Feminism
#Sex #SexualAgency
#CompHet

Hold My Chicken πŸŽ‰lookitmychicken@blorbo.social
2023-01-04

Walk the Circle in the Other Direction
✍️ fic by #notevenyou

β­• #MoDaoZuShi #TheUntamed
β­• #LanWangji / #WeiWuxian
β­• 32k, Explicit
β­• Teen WWX's best friend LWJ is gay
β­• As a straight ally, WWX is a fierce defender and wingman

:ao3: archiveofourown.org/works/2178

#FicRec #MDZSFicRec #MDZS #WangXianFicRec #WangXian #NSFW #ModernAU #Homophobia #CompHet #QueerAwakening #CollegeAU

Listened to the #AllMyRelations podcast episode about #polyamory and while being late to the party, I have to say it's such a good and thought inspiring episode!

The guest Kim TallBear can be found in the Fediverse, too.

allmyrelationspodcast.com/podc

#NativeAmerican #DecolonizeRelationships #comphet #compmono

Hold My Chicken πŸŽ‰lookitmychicken@blorbo.social
2022-12-20

Like Sweet Peach
✍️ fic by #airinshaw

πŸ‘ #MoDaoZuShi #TheUntamed
πŸ‘ #LanWangji / #WeiWuxian
πŸ‘ 13k, Explicit
πŸ‘ Straight girl WY looks for a man at a party
πŸ‘ She meets LZ & immediately requires all her attention
πŸ‘ LZ knows what to do with a straight girl

:ao3: archiveofourown.org/works/3770

#DecRecs #FicRec #MDZSFicRec #MDZS #WangXianFicRec #WangXian #Genderbend #NSFW #ModernAU #CompHet

Hold My Chicken πŸŽ‰lookitmychicken@blorbo.social
2022-12-16

At the End of the Road
✍️ fic by #trickybonmot

πŸ›‹οΈ #TheUntamed #MDZS
πŸ›‹οΈ #LanWangji / #WeiWuxian
πŸ›‹οΈ 5k, Explicit
πŸ›‹οΈ Straight boy WY worries about his stamina
πŸ›‹οΈ He asks LZ to help him practice edging
πŸ›‹οΈ LZ didn't want to be WY's gay awakening, but what the hell

:ao3: archiveofourown.org/works/3844

#DecRecs #FicRec #WangXianFicRec #WangXian #NSFW #ModernAU #CompHet #QueerAwakening #Edging

Hold My Chicken πŸŽ‰lookitmychicken@blorbo.social
2022-12-16

reports of my heterosexuality may have been exaggerated
✍️ fic by #sysrae

πŸ‘  #TheUntamed
πŸ‘  #LanWangji / #WeiWuxian
πŸ‘  8k, Explicit
πŸ‘  LWJ the clueless straight boy
πŸ‘  Openly gay WY who likes drag
πŸ‘  LWJ has a Dramatic Awakening

:ao3: archiveofourown.org/works/3878

#DecRecs #FicRec #MDZSFicRec #WangXianFicRec #WangXian #NSFW #ModernAU #CompHet #QueerAwakening #DragPerformers #GettingTogether #DemisexualCharacter #CollegeAU

Hold My Chicken πŸŽ‰lookitmychicken@blorbo.social
2022-12-09

i'll be ringing in your ears
✍️ fic by #occultings

πŸ§₯ #MDZS #TheUntamed
πŸ§₯ #LanWangji / #WeiWuxian
πŸ§₯ 22k, Explicit
πŸ§₯ Inexperienced WY blindfolds herself and dares anyone at the party to kiss her
πŸ§₯ WY thinks she's straight
πŸ§₯ Super hot gay awakening

:ao3: archiveofourown.org/works/4119

#DecRecs #FicRec #MDZSFicRec #WangXianFicRec #WangXian #Genderbend #QueerAwakening #GettingTogether #CompHet #IdentityReveal #ModernAU #NSFW

Hold My Chicken πŸŽ‰lookitmychicken@blorbo.social
2022-12-07

A storm without a warning
✍️ fic by #Spodumene

πŸŽ‡ #MDZS #TheUntamed
πŸŽ‡ #LanZhan / #WeiYing
πŸŽ‡ 22k, Explicit
πŸŽ‡ LZ is WY's fave person & best friend
πŸŽ‡ Nothing will change that
πŸŽ‡ Then LZ gets a boyfriend
πŸŽ‡ WY cannot handle it

:ao3: archiveofourown.org/works/4177

#DecRecs #FicRec #MDZSFicRec #WangXianFicRec #WangXian #ModernAU #CompHet #Pining #AngstWithAHappyEnding #Masturbation #NSFW

2022-12-05

Learned a new word this morning: amatonormativity.

Amatonormativity is the set of societal assumptions that everyone prospers with an exclusive romantic relationship.

I saw it in action last night at the epic cookie night when a friend urged me to 'Give love a chance.' She was really concerned I might 'lose out.'

I'm fine with my Heauxtation, thanks.

#CompHet
#ENM
#SoPo
#RelationshipAnarchy

Hold My Chicken πŸŽ‰lookitmychicken@blorbo.social
2022-12-02

I search myself (I want you to find me)
✍️ fic by #ilip13

🚿 #MDZS #TheUntamed
🚿 #LanZhan / #WeiYing
🚿 23k, Explicit
🚿 When he masturbates, WY feels uncomfortable imagining himself in sexy situations
🚿 So he imagines LZ with girls instead

:ao3: archiveofourown.org/works/4219

#DecRecs #FicRec #ModernAU #MDZSFicRec #WangXianFicRec #WangXian #CompHet #QueerAwakening #AdolescentSexuality #Masturbation #NSFW

Hold My Chicken πŸŽ‰lookitmychicken@blorbo.social
2022-12-01

captured my attention
✍️ by #sassybluee

πŸŒ‡ #TheUntamed #MDZS
πŸŒ‡ #LanZhan / #WeiYing
πŸŒ‡ 8k, explicit
πŸŒ‡ straight boy WY thinks his beloved bestie LZ is also straight
πŸŒ‡ other people think they're boyfriends
πŸŒ‡ haha how can that be?
πŸŒ‡ oh wait

:ao3: archiveofourown.org/works/3226

#DecRecs #FicRec #MDZSFicRec #WangXianFicRec #WangXian #ModernAU #CompHet #NSFW #FriendsToLovers #FirstTime #FirstKiss #QueerAwakening

Amelia BΓ¦ddelia πŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈautogynamelia@eightpoint.app
2022-11-29
The Lesbian MasterDoc by Anjeli Luz pulls heavily and uncritically from Rich's text, so if that document also felt vaguely TERFy to you, then now you know why.

#lesbianmasterdoc #thelesbianmasterdoc #comphet #compulsoryheterosexuality #transsexualempire #thetranssexualempire #adriennerich #janiceraymond #transmisogyny #transphobia #terf #transexclusionaryradicalfeminism #radfem #radicalfeminism #queerhistory #transhistory
Amelia BΓ¦ddelia πŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈautogynamelia@eightpoint.app
2022-11-29
I don't think it's going too far to simply state that Adrienne Rich helped Janice Raymond to write The Transsexual Empire, and that everyone reading Rich's work should read it through that lens.

#comphet #compulsoryheterosexuality #adriennerich #janiceraymond #transsexualempire #thetranssexualempire #transmisogyny #transphobia #terf #transexclusionaryradicalfeminism #radfem #radicalfeminism #queerhistory #transhistory
Amelia BΓ¦ddelia πŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈautogynamelia@eightpoint.app
2022-11-29
Raymond cites Rich's work in the body of The Transsexual Empire, in the chapter titled (ugh) "Sappho By Surgery", and also thanks Rich in the introduction for her "constant encouragement".

#comphet #compulsoryheterosexuality #janiceraymond #adriennerich #terf #radfem #transexclusionaryradicalfeminism #radicalfeminism #queerhistory #queerliberation #transhistory #transliberation #transmisogyny #transphobia #transsexualempire #thetranssexualempire

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