the first sanctuary stay of my walk on the Camino De Santago.
The word sanctuary is starting to lose all meaning. Take Sanctuary Camelback Mountain Resort & Spa in Arizona: a place where inner peace costs $700 a night and includes poolside cocktail delivery. If your refuge comes with room service and a resort fee, that’s not sanctuary. That’s paid for hospitality.
So what is a sanctuary, really?
Historically, it meant protection without condition. In medieval Europe, if someone was being chased — even by the law — they could run into a church and touch the altar. From that moment on, no one was allowed to harm them. Sanctuary didn’t evaluate whether someone was worthy. It offered safety first, judgment later.
the symbol of the pilgrims and the right of sanctuary
Sanctuary on the Road
I was reminded of all this last year while walking the Camino de Santiago through Portugal, France and Spain. Today it’s sometimes considered a scenic adventure and people walk it for fitness or their Instagram posts. But many people take it seriously, as a walk of faith. The pilgrimage has always been walked by people searching, grieving, repenting, or people who had lost their way. And it was extremely dangerous — hunger, exhaustion, bandits — and most pilgrims traveled with almost nothing. Even today the idea of Camino isn’t a service you book online. The refugios are non advertised, first come first served, for sometimes 5 euros a night.
Refugios that cost 5 Euros. This is their “advertizement”. Note 12 Century date.
I’m writing this now from a place that calls itself a sanctuary, and for once, it feels accurate. I’m in the high desert an a large piece of land that is known all over the world. People come and go every day to hang out and experience the desert land. Some say a day, a week, or a month. Others live here full time. People are valued for how they show up in spirit and not by what they can offer through money. And it’s a really large wonderful community here. The is a fired pit surrounded by couches and the refrigerators are full. It’s called Garth’s Boulder Gardens Sanctuary. Garth had his roots in the Mormon church and with the Christ Brothers, the people dressed in white who walked barefoot like Jesus, with no money at all. Ironic because Garth’s father was quite rich and bought him this huge piece of land so he wouldn’t be “homeless”.
Garth’s Boulder Gardens. A square mile of Sanctuary.
I like this one definition :
A sanctuary is a place where beings — human or otherwise — are protected without needing to prove their worth. A place where you don’t ask, “What can you pay?” but rather, “What do you need?”
Some sanctuaries are manicured and polished with people constantly busy cleaning and organizing. Other’s are dusty, improvised, or half build or run down It actually doesn’t matter. What matters is the ethics. So there is a range. But there is also a range of authenticity, where people use the terms for profit and gain. So if you’re going to keep using the word sanctuary, please just use it correctly.
Comparison Table
TermCore PurposeSpiritual?Economic / Social Model
SanctuaryProtection / refugeYes (implicitly)Donation / stewardship
Intentional CommunityShared living based on alternative valuesSometimesVaries: shared ownership / rent / work-trade
Retreat CenterTemporary renewalSometimesFee-based program
MonasteryDevotional disciplineDeeplyWork/service exchange
Ashram / HermitageSolitude + devotionYesMinimal cost
Spa / Wellness ResortComfort / treatmentNo (despite candles)High commercial
Preserve / Conservation LandProtect earth/ecosystemSpiritual adjacentlyGrant-funded
501(c)(3)Nonprofit for public goodNeutralDonation/tax-deductible
508(c)(1)(A)Faith-based nonprofit (church)OftenContribution-based exemption
What Is and Isn’t a Sanctuary?
A sanctuary at its core is not a business model, not a resort, not a vacation.
It is a place of spiritual, emotional and physical protection. Here’s how different spiritual or communal spaces compare when you strip away branding:
TypePurposeTypical Access ModelCost to Enter
Ancient Temples & Sacred GrovesSpiritual refugeOpen to all
$0 (offering optional)
Sacred Refuge Traditions (Worldwide — Indigenous, Pagan, Buddhist, Islamic, Christian, etc.)Protection of the vulnerable and reverence for the sacredUpheld by sacred duty or social code
$0Animal SanctuariesSafe haven for non-human beingsDonor-supported
$0 (for animals)
Monastery / Ashram / HermitageDiscipline and devotionLive-in or retreat stays
$ / Work-exchangeIntentional CommunityShared living around valuesBuy-in / rent / labor
$-$$ (varies widely)
Retreat Center (modern)Personal growth / experienceStructured programs
$$$Wellness Spa using the word “Sanctuary“Relaxation & luxuryPay-to-play
$$$$Sanctuary vs. Asylum — Not the Same
People sometimes use sanctuary and asylum as if they were interchangeable, but they’re not. Asylum is legal. It’s granted by governments. You have to apply, prove your case, and wait for approval. Sanctuary is ethical. It’s granted by people or places that choose to protect life without demanding qualifications.
Historically, asylum happened inside sanctuaries — fugitives ran to temples or churches knowing no one could lay hands on them there. But over time, governments absorbed asylum into bureaucracy, while sanctuary retained its moral meaning.
Asylum asks, “Can you prove you deserve protection?”
Sanctuary says, “You’re safe. We can figure out the rest later.”
I think we will be needing more sanctuaries worldwide soon.
https://redecker.vivaldi.net/2025/10/14/sanctuary-is-not-a-service/
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