The jolly greenbelt giant

#DougFord, #Greenbelt, #FOI, #SafeWords

https://samupress.ca/londontlife/the-jolly-greenbelt-giant/?utm_source=mastodon&utm_medium=jetpack_social

Safe Words And Traffic Lights: How To Say Stop In BDSM https://carasutra.com/2020/03/safe-words-traffic-lights-how-to-say-stop-in-bdsm/ #BDSM #SafeWords #Consent #Safety #Kink #Fetish

"Patiently, I kneel in anticipation, craving the command that will ignite the fire within me, for in surrendering to my dominant's instructions, I find the sweetest release of desire." ~ Michelle Fegatofi

#KinkyLifestyle #ExploreYourDesires #BondagePlay #DomSubRelationships #SafeSaneConsensual #DungeonPlay #FetishLovers #PowerExchange #KinkExploration #SpankingFun #ExploreYourLimits #RoleplayAdventures #Safewords #PleasureandPain #SubmissionandDominance #ExploringKinks #DominanceAndSubmissio

#Honestly. if you are a #toxic #dom in a #bdsm #dynamic that does not #respect #safewords and are #toxic and won't change. I will #haunt #you. I''ll be the #demon under your #bed. I don't fucking care if the thing in the #scene was ok last time. The safeword shall be respected at all fucking times, and you don't need an explination why it was used. It is your #responsibility as dom to make sure that your #sub feel #safe. I don't fucking care who you are.

Outside of a #CNC scene, ignoring nonconsent is abuse, full stop. Being a #Dom is a privilege and a responsibility to safeguard and protect those who entrust themselves to us.
#Leather and #kink exist to help us embrace who we are and what we enjoy. They are not a safe space for abusers. It pisses me off that I need to say that #consent matters, every time. #Safewords matter whether you've ever needed to use one or not.

#SentimentalDom

Outside of a #CNC scene, ignoring nonconsent is abuse, full stop. Being a #Dom is a privilege and a responsibility to safeguard and protect those who entrust themselves to us.

#Leather and #kink exist to help us embrace who we are and what we enjoy. They are not a safe space for abusers. It pisses me off that I need to say that #consent matters, every time. #Safewords matter whether you've ever needed to use one or not.

Never forget that I love you, and that excludes no one.

#SentimentalDom

1/4 I'm not someone who often post about kink or BDSM - but today I saw someone saying that safewords and BDSM (specifically D/s) were rape-culture and needing a safeword instead of stop/no was just proof of it.

And honestly, that just pissed me off, so the Mistress is coming out to say a few words.

In a D/s relationship everything is about 100% consent. Everything is discussed and agreed upon.

Including safewords.

#rant #kink #BDSM #safewords #sex #safewords #trust

This episode of the RNZ podcast BANG! talks about a traffic light system for sexual safe words, where red means 'stop completely', and orange means 'stop that thing you're doing right now'. This is so sensible and I wish I'd learned about it 20 years ago. I think safe words are a good idea in any sexual relationship, not just kinky ones.

https://www.rnz.co.nz/programmes/bang/story/2018690030/bang-season-3-episode-5-kinky-boots

#podcast #RNZ #BANG #kink #SafeWords